ok,so-theres-this-amazing-girl...

Alright-first-off-my-spacebar-is-broken...

anywho...Ive-been-talking-to-this-girl-who-absolutely-blows-my-mind...

She-has-to-be-one-of-the-most-innocent-and-most-beautiful-girls-ive-ever-talked-with...

She-is-working-at-a-bank-with-my-mom...so-weve-been-talking-and-im-telling-you-this-girl-seems-so-innocent...She-doesnt-use-curse-words,she-never-talks-"dirty"-and-im-pretty-sure-shes-a-virgin.

She-doesnt-smoke-pot(which-thats-good-for-me-i-dont-wanta-gf-who-smokes-pot)...and-the-good-thing-is-she-doesnt-drink....so-she-doesnt-really-discriminate-against-pot...she-says-its-just-a-choice-to-not-use-any-drugs....including-alcohol...

Man-shes-into-nature,music-art...softball(which-is-cool-because-I-use-to-play-baseball-from-ages-4-to-16)

BUT..heres-the-thing....im-in-college-and-my-lazy-ass-has-no-money-saved-and-no-job-....I-feel-like-shes-way-better-than-me....even-though-her-and-i-have-so-much-to-talk-about...i-feel-like-i-dont-even-deserve-her-yet-I-know-shes-fucking-amazing-and-I-could-love-her...

so-I-mean-should-I-ask-her-out-or-should-I-just-forget-about-it-because-shes-better-than-me(seriously)

The-thing-I-love-the-most-is....we-can-relate-on-so-many-different-levels....I-understand-how-she-thinks-and-she-understands-how-i-think...

iono....help-me-out!!111!!1!eleven!!

you think you don't deserve a beautiful amazing girl because she has more government issued currency than you? you think she's too good for you cause you haven't played into the system as much? relax, she'll make love to the boy rolling around with her, not his checkbook

Dude, I pulled the really beautiful innocent girl today after a time of not pulling beautiful innocent girls... All I have to say is be confident, be playful, be yourself. Believe it dude, it can happen. Rejection truly does make you stronger anyway. Win/Win ;)

Good luck bro, i really hope you get your girl.

Im-sorry-I-left-a-big-part-out...

Its-not-just-the-fact-that-shes-working-harder-than-me-at-anything...

It-seems-she-has-perfect-morals....and-i-have-decent-morals-as-well-but-it-seems-this-girl-needs-someone-as-good-as-her...and-im-not-just-feeling-sorry-for-myself-im-thinking-of-her....

you are untrusting of your morals at the same time that you are trying to decide whether or not you should ignore your overwhelming feelings for her because you feel she deserves the best? my friend, never ever ever ever EVER EVER EVER say goodbye to something like this based on your own overthinking. if it feels right when you are with her, that is reason enough to pursue. Pursue.

alright, if u ask her out, it could be the start of a beautiful relationship, even marriage one day

if you dont ask her out, then who knows, a few monthes down the road she might move or soemthing and you;ll never see her again...

ask her out mang

Morals are created by man, love however is natures creation. Go with nature. :thumbsup:

she'll break your heart! they all do....

well give it a try. if her morals are so great, then she will know not to judge and to give you a chance because you admire her. just be yourself man. i can tell you are smitten, and thats beautiful!

Better to be loved than never at all :)

^ H4H is all knowing i say dont take it so serious if its gonna happen just go with the flow but remember thouse bitches are sneaky

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Originally Posted by higher4hockey

she'll break your heart! they all do....

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but its worth it.

Sounds like an upstanding citizen. Who knows? Maybe you need her in your life?

nobody is better than the other. We are all the best in our own way.
and please man... ASK THAT GIRL OUT! :smokin:

Just ask her out. The good thing about being poor is that you get to go on the more "romantic" type of dates. You could

-Take her for a walk in the park.
-Take her on a date in the park and make a picnic.
-Take her dancing somewhere.
-Make an in-date movie at your house (so cheap to rent).


Or, if you don't want to go on an official date, you could always go to a quick lunch or grab some coffee.

Ask her out, man. Just out of curiosity, how come you don't want a girlfriend who smokes if you do yourself?

hey Acouwaila, you could always take a look at my signature:thumbsup:

First off i'd like to say, get a new keyboard, or get your spacebar fixed lol

Second, go for it, sounds like you 2 would make a good couple, if she likes you its not because of how much money you make or don't make, if a girl is ever attracted to you cause you have money, then that girl ain't worth it. But I'm sure she's not like that, go for it :D

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Originally Posted by rickytikki

yea dude go for it cause if you didnt youd look back on this a couple years from now and youd be like shit and youd probably never forgive yourself

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I'm still kicking myself for one chance i had with a girl who I had the biggest crush, on and was by far the hottest girl in my grade (grade 8). One day in P.E her friend yelled at me "hey chicken legs, come here" (i was a skinny kid, still am skinny..but I was real skinny) So I went over and she said her friend (the one I hada crush on) wanted to goto the dance with me, she was right there. I thought it was alla joke, cause i was a skinny tall kid, with a fro, cause I woke up everymorning, and really didn't do much with my hair..I have very curly hair. So I just respond "No, I don't dance" and walked away, I allways wonder what would've happened if I would have said yes, Proably some sort of humilating joke, but I allways wonder...what would've happened..

First-off-thanks-for-everyones-advice...I-think-I-will-plan-a-date-and-ask-her-out-sometime-soon...like-many-of-you-said...I'd-probably-regret-it-if-I-didn't-ask-her-out

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Originally Posted by make it legal

Ask her out, man. Just out of curiosity, how come you don't want a girlfriend who smokes if you do yourself?

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Well-it-kind-of-changed-my-ex-girlfriend...I-didn't-like-that...she-started-hangin-out-with-some-stupid-pothead-wigger-bitch-and-now-shes-getting-the-wrong-impression-about-life-and-shes-turning-into-some-ditsy-bitch...damn-i-cant-stand-her-anymore

but-i-dont-know....I-guess-if-i-were-really-in-love-with-the-girl-it-wouldnt-matter-either-way...I-just-cant-really-see-myself-ending-up-with-some-girl-who-smokes-pot...

What does she look like?

Be very careful. I thought the same way once. Turns out she was a bitch. And I was pretty much whipped, and it took a while to realize it. Long story short: it was a big mistake. Just make sure she's your type before you get too involved.

The best decision I've ever made in my life was drop all my fears and ran with my intuition. Now after more than 3 years of being with my GF i still have no regrets! If you really like this girl then don't let her get away from you bro, i don't know where I'd be today if i didn't!

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Morals are created by man, love however is natures creation. Go with nature. :thumbsup:

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well....supposedly we are all born with the natural sense of whats wrong and whats right things to do, but yes by all means go for it man!:D

Well 1st off, your thread makes me smile :)

2nd- hell yeah, you gotta go for it! I understand what you are saying, like you don't want to corrupt her or feel like you are keeping her from someone else who could give her a life more how you think she deserves to live. But thats most likely a buncha bs! Be honest with her, don't try to be anything you ain't and if she likes you that is her choice to make.

And this could be love! Jump in, & roll around & make a snow angel in it, enjoy it and be happy you get to experience it, too many folks don't.

Could be the lady you are destined to be w forever. Or maybe she'll break your heart and steal all you ever had. *shrug* Won't know til ya try;)

good luck :)

Parks are awesome.

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Originally Posted by sharpestoner

Who knows..maybe she can suck a golf ball through a garden hose and the innocent look is an act:D

You have to ask her out if you really do like her! Trust me..you'll be hating yourself if you miss out on the opportunity!!!
Asking her out and being let down is much better than not asking her out at all. You'll always be wondering what could've happened and you don't want to do that to yourself.

Just say this "Hey ___. I've been thinking that since we've been getting along so well, why don't we catch up sometime for coffee?". Just something basic like that:thumbsup:

Or, you can walk in all gangsta like and be like "yo bitch, you wanna ride with me?" hehe just kidding.
Good luck to ya:)

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I vote for "yo bitch, you wanna ride with me?"!!!

I was seeing this girl who worked at my best friends moms bank maybe about two years ago. She was really nice, polite good morals didn't toke, and drinking never came up. I thought she was perfect. Until we had sex and i never talked to her again.

Moral being, don't rush into things, you don't really know much about this girl yet. I know you think she is the cats meow, but it doesn't ,mean she doesn't pack a bite.

Keep your heart in your chest and off your sleeve.
:)

Otherwise ask her out, what the hell are you waiting for man!!
Good luck.