Possibly giving up weed :(

Im possibly going to have to give up weed as it's causing too many family problems for me...My mum WILL NOT get the idea that weed isnt as bad as it's made out to be and same for my dad really my sister doesnt really care much but she still seems to think some of the same things as my mum. Ive printed off sheets and sheets of infomation saying about weed but she just will not take it in, i finially lost it today when i showed her something i found on the internet saying cannabis is less addictive then caffeine, she laughed at me and said OH NO IVE HAD 3 CUPS OF COFFEE TODAY IM A DRUGGY!!! I got up ripped the sheet up threw it in her face walked out the room in stress (when i get stress i hit things 2 get my anger out :P) so i saw the door and the doors got a window in it so i tried to punch the door but missed and hit the window and cut up all my hand. Im going to have it give it up because my mum won't let me do it same for everyone else and they shout at me and shit when they find out i am doing it...so i dont know its gay lol.

you don't have to give it up, just don't let them know that you are doing it

ooo man all i can say is i went through the same thing. a few tips...dont smoke in ur house like i did and got cought more times than i can count and if you come home high try not to have any contact and get in the shower right away. if there not drug testing you then you should be straight

Buy a vaporizer, problem solved. I'd also recommend to stop punching shit when you get angry, doubt your family likes that.

well geez, punching shit isnt going to help, if anything your parents are definetly going to make you out as a crazed pot head who cant handle his emotions that needs to hit shit to be able to control his feelings

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Originally Posted by rebgirl420

well geez, punching shit isnt going to help, if anything your parents are definetly going to make you out as a crazed pot head who cant handle his emotions that needs to hit shit to be able to control his feelings

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That sizzled.

it wasnt meant to be mean at all...Im just saying, acting like that isnt going to solve anything really

tell her not to knock it till she tried it then light her up on a nice fat blunt.

yeah shes right...i never punched shit but i slept a lot of nights in my car after being kicked out for smokin in my room

How old are you? I'm asking this because I know damn well it sucks when some one presses their opinion on you so hard that you have to follow it. Maybe you can move and live your life how you want? I don't know, I couldn't deal with parents that couldn't accept me for me. I'd run the fuck away.

smokin weed shouldnt split familys,,, just dont let your parients catch you

go smoke a bowl and think about it.

one thing thats helped me a lot with aggresion is a punching bag i hit that shit for like half an hour every day and its always good specially when your high cuz you try new fighting techniques whjich are hecka fun and funny

if your punching windows then your not high enough:jointsmile:
seriously just be more stealthy anyway i find it better when they know

I went thru the same shit you did when I first started smoking weed and my mom bitching at me about it... and saying its like crack and I print her out information and she just shreds it up saying its all a lie etc etc... I mean at least now after I been smoking for 6 years they dont fuck with me about it any more and my dad and other side of the family know its not bad which is pretty cool. So my best oppinion for you before you mom sends you to some type of rehab for punching walls thinking that your some type of pot zombie etc. Just do not let them know... Just on weekends go out to the movies or go to a local park and blaze a few joints or where ever you smoke and try your best not to get caught or hell smoke every day if you like but that could get you introuble. Trust me it will make your life 100 times easier if you just hide it and dont let them know... some parents are just too stubbern and when they hear about MJ they just close there ears and yell "lalalala" and dont talk to them about it either any more and maybe she wont belive you and make your life harder. Just do extra good in school and I know you can do it being a full time stoner and get strait A's and do alot of shit to make your parents happy and maybe attempt trying to sit down and talk to them about the truth about MJ when they can probally see your a pot smoker and do well in school etc... just an idea

lol yeah been through it.

Mum still thinks its the devil in plant form. I just keep it on the down low.

I told her today tht im not going to stop smoking marijuana.

She just has to deal with it, im 6 months away from being legally an adult so w.e

How old are you?

Well, your mum is a moron. Sorry, but it's true.

And i'm the same as you, i hit things when i loose my temper - i try not to hit people but that doesnt always go right - i've punched through windows - and doors, when i was 15 i punched my kitchen door in half, the top half just folded.

Dont stop, carry on and make their lives hell untill you can move out - ok, that's not the best advice, but you know what? Fuck those idiots, look out for number one.

Is she imposing any consequenses for smoking weed? If so, then I suggest sot really punching windows out, but respecting her decision to a point. You should be old enough to know the difference between 'rebelling' against parents, and simply not doing what they've asked. Smoke outside of the house. She can't really control your habits there.

But until then, don't go out punching windows... That's just kind of sketchy.

Good luck!

Maybe you should give weed a sabaitical. Weed is for relaxation, not to cause stress. If where you are liveing is a weed hateful zone, get out on your own. Suck it up, and honor where you live and their rules...personal honor is the only value we have as humans, real easy to cast aside when it's easier, but you grow so much more when you practice it.

Weed was the only thing that kept me from being a murderer...it also was not acceptable where I lived. So I moved away, while still in high school, got a night job, finished school, in my own damned apartment!!

There will be times in your life that weed just can't be part of it...thats the beauty of weed, it's not addicting, you just walk away for awhile, it will be there when things favor her to be in your life...when you choose...not the drug.

:thumbsup: between rebgirl and everyone else some good advice

just do wat you wanna do and dont let anybody stop you!!:thumbsup:

Thanks guy's you've brought up some good advice which i hadn't particually thought of that much, about being carefull the only times i get caught really is when i smoke everyday and just stop being so carefull about it and dont really think about hiding things that much. About the vaporizer, that wouldnt help as it was a vap that started the whole thing off (she found one in my room lol). Im 15, fair enough some of you may say im too young etc, but i know people who started when they was 12 and still know some younger people now. As for the person who said my mum is a moron :P i should print it off and show it her lol.

All your advice has somehow made me able to think about it better and notice the obvious places i was going wrong where i never really noticed before so thanks a lot :D :jointsmile:.

I've smoked a lot of times in my room.... and a lot of times I was at a high....very high risk of being caught.... it was stupid of me... I never got caught thanks god... The only contact I had while high...was with my 8 year old little brother...and I just laughed my ass off while talking to him...

And I would talk to my parents...but when the high was over... and was just "mellow" .. I'ts not that hard to keep it a secret... I would smoke in the bathroom sometimes...

I think the only suspicion my mum had... is that I smoked cigarrettes.... she told me several times ... "hey.... just in case, if you're smoking cigarrettes....just don't....that's a stupid habit..."

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Originally Posted by bluefoe

Thanks guy's you've brought up some good advice which i hadn't particually thought of that much, about being carefull the only times i get caught really is when i smoke everyday and just stop being so carefull about it and dont really think about hiding things that much. About the vaporizer, that wouldnt help as it was a vap that started the whole thing off (she found one in my room lol). Im 15, fair enough some of you may say im too young etc, but i know people who started when they was 12 and still know some younger people now. As for the person who said my mum is a moron :P i should print it off and show it her lol.

All your advice has somehow made me able to think about it better and notice the obvious places i was going wrong where i never really noticed before so thanks a lot :D :jointsmile:.

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I started smoking weed at 11 :)

Show her that she's wrong. At the same time, be respectful of her wishes. If she doesn't want you smoking at your house then don't. Go to college (or a tech school / whatever), become a resonsible citizen, then be like, "IN YOUR FACE. I have more years of college under my belt then you AND I've been stoned the whole time." (Well....don't say that, but you get the point...and if not then respectfully tell her you've gone far in life and weed has been nothing but a harmless hobby)

Be respectfull, but be a man. Not sure how old you are. But calm down, and act like an adult. She may not agree with it, but you are your own person, and she can choose to accept that or not. If not, you shouldn't stop being you. She gave you life, but it's still YOUR life. Do what makes you happy, life is to short. It really is.

What about mayfly :P how you think they feel? They live only 1 day lol. But yeah cheers for your help matey.

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Originally Posted by majin

Be respectfull, but be a man. Not sure how old you are. But calm down, and act like an adult. She may not agree with it, but you are your own person, and she can choose to accept that or not. If not, you shouldn't stop being you. She gave you life, but it's still YOUR life. Do what makes you happy, life is to short. It really is.

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They say life is too short - but it's the longest thing we'll EVER do. :thumbsup:

I tried telling my mom last night that I slang.

Don't do it. Biggest mistake ever.

stay smokin !@#$%*&