Stupid teen drama problems, help.

So I'm in a dillemna. I'll tell the backstory.

One of my good friends goes out with another of my good friends. One is a great person and a smoking buddy. The other is some chick who I've known for a few years and has been a great friend to me. The other night, the chick was drunk and cheated on my smoking buddy. The kid she cheated with knew she had a boyfriend, but still continued to do whatever they did. Well later that night in her drunken haze, she tells me his name. Now to what is happening right now.

My friend really wants to find out who this kid is, and I'm one of the only ones that knows his name and who he is. Should I keep it a secret, or tell my homie everything I know? How should I go about doing this?

if hes ur real good friend you'd do it. if i were him and i trusted you that much id tell. she shouldnt have cheated in the first place. i think its right for him to find out and for you tell on her. it'll make everything fair.

I don't remember exactly if she didn't make me promise, but she just said:


"i wsassa dizgn stfj wit thsis kidkzz jossh"

Then the next day this is what happened

Me: So who was that kid again? I'm not talking to Joe right now so I can't tell him

Her: some kid josh

There's been so very many incidents of cheating. Every time I hear of a man becoming wanting revenge, for his woman-who made the choice-sleeping with another man, I see it all so fruitless. You're in a predicament yourself though. You, as a friend, stand for loyalty and you have a duty to be honest to him. As his voice of reason, I believe you have more responsibility than just telling him the fellow's name.

tell him and low and behold the ass whooping !!!!!!!!

Tell your boy man, let the guy handle the business.

tell-him-man...if-your-girl-cheated-on-you-would-you-want-your-friend-to-tell-you?i-think-so...

anyways-if-hes-your-friend-its-your-responsibility-to-be-curteous-and-treat-him-like-one....a-friend-isnt-just-a-person-you-"hang-out"-with-its-someone-you-connect-with-and-understand...

the-girl-shouldnt-have-cheated-on-him...she-deserves-to-be-told-on....being-drunk-is-not-an-excuse

You all are taking into good consideration that this chick is my good friend too, right?

answer-this-question

who-fucked-up-and-who-is-innocent....?

The chick fucked up and the guy is innocent, but I just don't want to ruin my friendship with either of them.

I'd tell the homie.

Um.

Tell your friend. She never said not to tell 'em. Also, does he know she cheated?

It was the dumb kid who fucked a chick he knew had a boy friend, he should think before he acts. You can't always get away with that shit, so definitely tell your boy so he can show him what happens when you do that shit.

Its not the girl your protecting here, so I don't see the dilemma. Your protecting some douche who shoulda known there was potential for an ass-kicking for what he did.

You say the chick fucked up, but the guy knew she had a boyfriend? No doubt, she fucked up, but you can't kick a girls ass so might as well let the guy take the fall.

Bros before hoes. Tell him that shit so that fool can get scrapped.

He knows she cheated. They were gonna work it out, but she got all pissed off at him for no reason.

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Originally Posted by Acouwaila

tell-him-man...if-your-girl-cheated-on-you-would-you-want-your-friend-to-tell-you?i-think-so...

anyways-if-hes-your-friend-its-your-responsibility-to-be-curteous-and-treat-him-like-one....a-friend-isnt-just-a-person-you-"hang-out"-with-its-someone-you-connect-with-and-understand...

the-girl-shouldnt-have-cheated-on-him...she-deserves-to-be-told-on....being-drunk-is-not-an-excuse

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Broken spacebar?

What good would giving up the persons identity do but cause more static. I stay just leave it alone. You're in high school, the relationship was not serious enough just by saying that, but she also cheated on him.

He should be glad its over.

Like I always say to my long time friends when im breaking news....were friends and no boyfriend or girlfriend you have is gonna fuck it up.

Stay out of the drama. He'll found out one day anyway. Just pull your boy off her!

I believe each of them are mature enough to know that you are a neutral party. You can explain things to the girl if she were to get angry, and just hope she understands that the man deserves to know.

fuck that the bitch must fry. she didn't want to get caught she shouldn't cheat. be single if you wanna fuck around.

tell him and then help him beat that other kids ass... your friends carry your coffin.. you cant go around fuckin with other guys girls

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Originally Posted by Pipe Dreams

Broken spacebar?

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yeah

was the other guy drunk too, or did he take advantage of the fact that she was drunk? I think it should be up to the girl to tell your friend. If you really value both of them as friends, and want to remain friends with both if the relationship ends, than you should stay as far away from all this as you can. If he's your best friend and shes just some girl you've known for a while but aren't great friends with than I guess you could tell him. I still think it should be up to her to do it though because shes the one who fucked up.

Slip her the meat and say it was you...

The other guy was sober.

And Skink, I've been trying to do that for a LOOONG time.

Skink for president!

What did she do with the kid that wasn't her boyfriend. Making out with someone isnt that big a deal but if she like fucked him thats messed up.

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Originally Posted by TheFatKid

So I'm in a dillemna. I'll tell the backstory.

One of my good friends goes out with another of my good friends. One is a great person and a smoking buddy. The other is some chick who I've known for a few years and has been a great friend to me. The other night, the chick was drunk and cheated on my smoking buddy. The kid she cheated with knew she had a boyfriend, but still continued to do whatever they did. Well later that night in her drunken haze, she tells me his name. Now to what is happening right now.

My friend really wants to find out who this kid is, and I'm one of the only ones that knows his name and who he is. Should I keep it a secret, or tell my homie everything I know? How should I go about doing this?

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if she cheated on him with a different guy, yes tell him, bros before hoes, but if your metaphorically using the term "my friend" to represent you, then no, talk to the girl about it, if you think you can make her happier then that other guy then by all means move in.

just a hunch btw, im not certain if its you.

No, its not me. It was making out and touching, and it was about to go to a threesome with some other chick.

nah stay out of that, youll end up fucking shit up, you do not want to fuck shit up. -_-

id tell. ive been cheated on a few times and had to hear it from other people. it sucks but its better to know than to not.

if he never finds out, how guilty will you feel when you see them together? if not at all, then screw it and forget about it. if its gonna bug you, then jabber ya jaw and tell.

Your friend knows the Bitch cheated,,,thats all he needs to know,,,anything after that is drama... He's got 2 choices keep slapping the bitch or never slap it again...

nope, talk to her, ask her if she plans to tell him, if not, then anomalously let him note, put a note in his locker, it was a party man, more than one person is likely to see that kind of thing. thats the best way to keep yourself from getting burned and prevent you from burning them

be a man!

hah

beat that other kids ass,, no one likes a guys that fucks other guys girls

It's not Josh's fault, it's the girls fault for getting drunk, no one is forcing her to drink and do things she's going to regret. I think it's her fault, yes, Josh knew, but still, your friend knew too that she had a boyfriend.

I'd say tell him.

Ahhahahaha... telling him servse no purpose!!!!

hes gonna find out sooner or later

Neither would not telling him Skink.

bro if the other guy alreay knows he was cheated don't put wood to the fire, it doesnt matter who jumped the fence , the dude should leave her ,that's a good reason not to go out with that person there's no respect in that relationship, you should stay out of it, and she fucked up.........