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Im in quite a situation, I had sex with my neighbor and it was her first time now she is getting a littly clingy and like really weird. I go to her house every morning to wait for the bus and I dont really want a relationship. She wants one though and its kinda aquard talking to her and its not like i can avoid her and im not mean enough to just say "I know we fucked but, I dont want a relationship." is there any nicer way to say it or any ideas on what i should do?
~Russ~
I dont know what to tell you for your current situation, I dont know if theres anything nice you can say. I hope you learned a lesson that you shouldnt sleep with girls you arent interested in relationships with, esp. when you see them everyday.
Try something like, "You're a great person, and an attractive woman. You should get yourself out there and find someone who's interested in a relationship." (Implication: Not Me!)
If she says something like, "Well, how about you?"
You can say, "I'm just not in a place right now where I'm looking for that. But if I were, I'd be a lucky guy to have such a nice offer."
you shoulda known what was gonna happen when you fucked a virgin.... damn even men who haven't had sex, know what's going to entail later on...
i'm not trying to be an ass or nothing, but congratulations, you've just broken the girls heart... and she's never going ot forget it either... virgins NEVER forget the person they first did it with...
btw, you have said you don't want a relationship, so just becuase she isn't heart broken yet, doens't mean it's not coming... i promise you, it is coming, when just depends on when she finally figures out the truth (or you tell her)
be a man dude, tell her flat out now, before she keeps getting drug along with hope and it becomes harder...
I wish I could forget my first time... yuck...
I agree with slip, you should have known how it would turn out. You certainly need to man up and tell her how you feel before she get more attached.
Keep tappin' that until she decides to break it off.
never mind i'm not even gonna go there.....Quote:
Originally Posted by ReUp
why would you take a girl's virginity, and expect anything else to happen? of course she's going to cling on you, and think she's in love! You shouldn't have had just sex with her if she was a virgin! she's going to proably expect more...LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by russ-bob
yea im thinking tomorow im just gonna flat out tell her just get it over with.:(Quote:
Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
btw she was the one that wanted to have sex lol. It was funny but the other thing im worried about is called statutory rape i kinda knew she wasent 18 yet (she is almost 17 O.o) and i dont want her getting angry and some one finding out then im in big shit. All in all i think i made a really bad decision, but its the past and i cant chnage it i just have to deal with it.
Wish me luck tomorow
~Russ~
while it is the past and you can't change, i atleast hope you learn a lesson for the future...
use your brain a little more next time, and don't just seek personal gratification... you know... just think lol... cuz if you just let things happen that give you gratification, well i can promise you will find yourself in alot of messes...