my friend doesnt get "horney"

and i guess it really bothers her. she's 16 years old, and she says sometimes she'll start to feel horney for like a minute or two.. but then no matter what shes doing, the feeling just goes away. i'm her best friend (besides her boyfriend) and she talks to me alot about this. I've told her that she probly will begin to get horney, and that part of her maybe just hasnt fully developed yet. Her boyfriend has told her that it doesnt matter to him, but it just really frustrates her. Does anyone hknow what might explain this? is what i've told her probly right?

she needs to practice masturbating alot. it will get her in tune w/her body. r

it doesnt make her horney to masturbate

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Originally Posted by NightProwler

and i guess it really bothers her. she's 16 years old, and she says sometimes she'll start to feel horney for like a minute or two.. but then no matter what shes doing, the feeling just goes away. i'm her best friend (besides her boyfriend) and she talks to me alot about this. I've told her that she probly will begin to get horney, and that part of her maybe just hasnt fully developed yet. Her boyfriend has told her that it doesnt matter to him, but it just really frustrates her. Does anyone hknow what might explain this? is what i've told her probly right?

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Yes, you're right. Having a low sex drive at 16 years old is not something that she should be worried about. This is perfectly normal. She's too young - and she may feel insecure because of the extreme amount of sex in advertising and the media. Until the 20th century, many girls in the U.S. didn't have sex at all until marriage, which was usually over the age of 18, with a high percentage being over 20.

According to the medical literature that I've read, most women do not reach their sexual peak until 35 years old - which almost 20 years from now for her, so tell her she's got plenty of time.

I think she should look at some porn, and see what shes into, maybe shes just not into anything shes done yet.

she could be asexual, but doubtful

For cripe's sake, she's only sixteen years old! Not everybody develops their sexuality that young. :dance:

The average girl has not lost her virginity for a at year after 16. Guys are even older for this.

Breukelen advocaat, your really helpful. thanks :)

Most likely because she is not fully developed.

so stimulating her clit doesnt even get her horny??

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Breukelen advocaat, your really helpful. thanks :)

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ya :D


but anyway i dunno that seems a little suprising.... altho now taht i think abt it there are the types of ppl who arent horny.....