Question...

My and my girlfriend had sex, both of us for the first time, about 2 weeks ago. we decided that we would both only tell like, our closest friend. but we've been together almost 9 months, and we're starting to think that we should stop saying no when people ask. i kinda think we shouldnt tell people, but im not really sure why... we're both the first of our all our friends to be in such a long term, serious relationship, and definately the first to have sex, and i'm kinda worried it could make things weird between us and our friends, if sex were to come up in a conversation.

i just wanted your guys take on things, how you've handled stuff like this, and advice, whatever.
thanks
mike

how old r u ?

well dont like bring it up, and if someone does, just act like its no big deal...

dealer, im turning 16 in 2 weeks, she turns 16 in april.

cool. im 16 and lost my virginity during winter break =] ..

just tell the truth if your comfortable with it. i mean whats the worst thing that can happen. Its not like their gonna make fun of you for not being a virgin, theyll probably be jealous if anything. And if they are pricks to u, slap them in the face with the condom you used

problem solved

goodluck

later

Depends on whether or not you think it's anybody else's business.

How can you even think about lying to someone's face, no matter what the question (unless it's the cops)?

Who can you trust? I tell ya', you can trust me.

Clear it with your girl, and if she says it's okay that people know, then no problems.

If they tease you, call them a fucking virgin, that'll shut 'em up.
------------------------------^^^^^^Oxymoron, I know-------------

You guys are almost 16 and none of your other friends have had sex? Where in the hell do you live?

I don't know anyone over the age of 14 who IS a virgin.