words mean shit

alright. last night i had this girl in my room. everything was fine and cool, we were jamming the doors while i gave her a backrub. anyway, she turned over and we start playing around a bit. finally it lead up to me kissing her. we start making out and during this whole time i've made my intentions clear of what i wanted to do. crystal clear! i suggest taking off her shirt, she says, "no, stop it". this went on for a litle while longer.

now, i'm certain that she wanted more. words dont' mean shit, her actions were speaking loud enough for my neighbors to hear. well, nothing happened last night. just us making out and whatnot. my problem is she's coming over again tonight (tease), now how do i assert myself to make sure she's dropping the panties, without getting caught up with the words in my head?

dont do it unless she says yes.

words may not mean shit to you, but in a court of law, they make all the diff

take a knife to her throat and tell her to take off all her clothes :) haha jk

just take it easy on the girl she might want you but do you want to scare her off?
if she wants you and you can be a little patient i'm sure youll get your girl. :-)

Just NEVER.. EVER.. Be to attached to the girl, they hate that..!:p

Just be cool, but not to cool..!;)

If she wants to do smoething more, she will let you know..!:)

next time don't ask, just do it. I used to make the mistake of asking first, and its kind of a turn off to girls I've decided. Like anti-authoritarian or something. Polite, but not correct.

Just listen to the tone of her voice. You'll know what she means. But "NO! STOP IT!" means just that. You'll know though by the way she says it if you listen hard enough.

i've been mislead somewhere. her tone of voice wasn't serious enough, so i persisted. i unhooked her bra and when i tried to bust a feel was when she held back. tonight i'll be more patient. tonight will be a more sensual evening between us. i never asked her anything, infact i explained that my room acted as a dictatorship and i was the dictator lmao! it was all in good fun though. i've never had sex, so you could understand my impatience, especially since she was in my room and we'd already started making out. i realize i've been patient all this long (eighteen years), but i figure if i want us both to enjoy the night then patience is going to have to be key.

she drove for twenty minutes to get to my house for a massage. i hope i didn't get the wrong idea. i get caught up in thinking people are playing games with me which is probably why i assume when she says, "no" or "stop it", i take it has, "are you going to take control or allow me to dominate you". i'm the alpha-male! lmao! i'm not into that dominatrix stuff. tonight i'll try to maintain total control over myself and her. i definitely don't want to scare her off. i'll try to keep the akward situations to zero. i don't want her to feel uncomfortable around me.

any tips would be appreciated. thank you very much, friends.

You don't need tips, ganj. Just be yourself. :thumbsup: ... :stoned:

that'd be best. tips are what got me into that situation last night.

dude drink a couple of beers with her while jamming a bit. then say she is pretty attractive and start kissing her and go ahead

good luck