My wife said I could sleep with someone else before our 10th anniversery.

If your spouse tells you that your 10 anniversary gift is his/her permission to sleep with someone else, what would you do?

Your spouse sort of makes it into a bet that you cannot hook up with someone else as they smile. The deal is you can only do it once and the deal is off when the anniversary day gets here, you have 1 week to find a partner. He or she tells you their will be no weird feelings or guilt and you seem to think that all they want is to make you happy, sexually. Not that your spouse does not make you happy but before you were married, wasn't strange nice and part of the fun of being young?

So if we look at it they way your spouse thinks of the whole idea, would you do it?

You have a 100% ok from your spouse; can you do it and not feel weird in some way?

Nope i would feel completely weird, and because of that fact i probably wouldnt do it.

me, i call it fucked up!

Well man, personally I wouldn't do it because I love my gf too much (I'm a pussy, I know). But if you both feel open to it, why not? Its your call man.

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Originally Posted by ProjectEight

If your spouse tells you that your 10 anniversary gift is his/her permission to sleep with someone else, what would you do?

Your spouse sort of makes it into a bet that you cannot hook up with someone else as they smile. The deal is you can only do it once and the deal is off when the anniversary day gets here, you have 1 week to find a partner. He or she tells you their will be no weird feelings or guilt and you seem to think that all they want is to make you happy, sexually. Not that your spouse does not make you happy but before you were married, wasn't strange nice and part of the fun of being young?

So if we look at it they way your spouse thinks of the whole idea, would you do it?

You have a 100% ok from your spouse; can you do it and not feel weird in some way?

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Ok, just a suggestion - instead of spending the week on a mission for 'strange'
put the energy into thinking up some wild and erotic way for the two of you
to celebrate your anniversary.

That whole going outside the relationship stuff is dodgey as hell, who knows
how either of you will feel afterwards :confused:
Why risk 10years for some random shag, it could be sooo not worth it. :(

I would make it a mission to hook up with her, buy her a wig, some fancy dress, pick her up at a bar and rent a hotel room. Hell you can even use fake names if you want too. The thought of you being with someone else might turn her on, but the reality of such is very different. There's std's to think of, you could get some chick pregnant, she could turn into a stalker, be crazy, steal your wallet, any number of things. Like lulu said, risking 10 years for a random shag is not even worth it.
You stand to lose so much more than you would gain.

wow that sounds exactly like a show of curb your enthusiasm. anybody ever seen this one cause the situation is exactly the same.

Dude, don't fall for it. If you do this, your marriage will never be the same. Seen it from too many friends over the years. If it sounds too good to be true.................

Just to put a little paranoid thought into your head.....wonder if SHE'S feeling guilty about something???? Ya never know.

Women....you can't live with 'em........pass the pipe. Just don't tell my wife I said that....lol

If it's what you want, I say go for it, then tell her that you didn't because "she is your soulmate and you could never want another". :D

Seriously, bottom line is that IN MOST CASES, extra marital sex doesn't make the marriage stronger. Maybe she wants the same deal in the future, or as previously mentioned, is feelin guilty for something that she's already done.

Remember what Chris Rock said, "When you cheat on your woman, you give her a 'get-dick-free' card and you never know when she's gonna cash it in. Before you do it, imagine someone pounding on your wife, which is what she probably feels entitled to do. Your choice man!