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Im utterly shit at flirting and talking to women, whats the best way to get a girl interested? Im an 18 yr old virgin whose had one girlfriend which was for about 3 weeks and ive only ever kissed 2 different girls. Im ok when I'm pissed or stoned but when sober im crap. Also, i'm shit at picking up signals from girls that like me. Some help please...
Don't feel bad man, its a lot harder when you're blind and can't see for werth a fuck. I even have a hard time trying to get a girl. Its like their scared or something.
it's simple, here's some basics... always smell good, smile a lot, look at their eyes(don't stare), don't talk too much, but use their name often. have your whole body face them while talking. don't worry about active flirting yet, you'll learn.
there are a few surefire ways to tell if a girl is into you, just learn them and keep them in mind. girls tend to play with their hair, look you up and down while talking to you, and open their legs toward you(not necessarily spread eagle, just not closed), plus all the stuff i talked about above - except not talking much, talking is natural for girls :P just focus less on the conversation and more on external signals, and you'll notice.
Nicely done.
Just don't analyze it. If a guy acts like hes trying to flirt, its annoying. Just talk, find things you have in common, tell each other stories and shit. Your personality should be what attracts a girl.
for a while i did this too, because i didn't know any better. it only works if the girl is really open-minded, or your personality is just naturally attractive.Quote:
Originally Posted by powair
otherwise, there's nothing wrong with showing that you're interested, even if at first it is forced. it'll become natural in time.
yo just b urself man...wen ur around woman dont try and b someone ur not and u dn't hav to get signals from a girl to go talk to them...if a hottie catches ur eye just go say wats up...so my advice is b urself
for real,, listen to him ,, he knows his shitQuote:
Originally Posted by phillieblunt420
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Originally Posted by hipEstoner
girls arent as interested in looks as men are.be yourself,be funny,open their door,say please and thank you and you should be golden :confused:
Just walk up to them and say "do you fuck on first dates?" , you will get your face slapped a few times but you'll also get laid more often. LOL
Only joking ladies.