Friends with Benefits-Over

Well me and my female friend about 3 weeks ago decide to have a "Friends with Benefits" type friendship and a good 3 weeks it was!

Jesus so fun...

Well anyways its over as of tonight I am sorry to say =(

we had a good ole' talk about it and she wants a serious relationship with this guy that shes good friends with and I hang out with him every now and again...

Well anyways good 3 weeks it was.

Just goes to say that I wont be getting any within the next 6 months I must admit...

Mostly because of school and work and the small town I live in not many new people to meet...

Oh well...

Atleast I got the 3 weeks?

Oh and we probably wont even hang out any more except if we run into each other at mutual friends house mostly because in HighSchool the guy shes gettin with sold me some fake weed...So I decided I wanted my money back and he wouldnt refund it so I just "took" it back.

and

well we dont have a very good relationship and im sure he wont want to be around me...

Im about 7inches taller and 100pounds bigger than him...

Just figured id tell ya guys about my night.

Currently: Hitting the "Post" button and gonna go out back to burn a bowl.

Duuuude! were in like the same boat, but like opposite ends or some shit.. hahaha Im really stoned.. Yeah, my last dick and I parted ways because he wanted me to commit to him, and I just couldn't. Its been to about 3 months, and it went on for about six years on and off.. I miss the sex sooooo much, but im too proud to go back.. oh, and I like love him an shit...

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Originally Posted by Hilder420

Duuuude! were in like the same boat, but like opposite ends or some shit.. hahaha Im really stoned.. Yeah, my last dick and I parted ways because he wanted me to commit to him, and I just couldn't. Its been to about 3 months, and it went on for about six years on and off.. I miss the sex sooooo much, but im too proud to go back.. oh, and I like love him an shit...

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Yea, I started to fall for this girl AS SOON AS WE MET...

You dont even know...

Well yea I fell for her I made a move we had loads of sex.

She doesn't want a relationship(With me) we have more sex.

She wants a relationship(Not with me) sex slows down.

She finds a relationship(Not me) sex stops tonight.

We had one last parting fuck and it was byfar the best we had.

She came 5 or 6 times I shot off.

We cleaned up talked had a few beers and parted ways.

So oh well...

Any stoner gals near White Settlement Texas?

Jk on the last one.

or am I?

IT seems the friends with benifits is a sticky situation and still ends up with hurt parties...someone is still looking for the greener grass..

I'm gonna have to disagree with ya for the first time Geo. At least for me, its not about looking for someone possibly marry or better than the last guy, but again, for me, is to just have my needs met, with some one I know, Trust, and am comfortable with, and ideally have a friendship with before it moves to become anything else. This last Mr. Johnson, was an exception to the rule of no ex- boyfriends- as- friends- with- benefits rule, and thats just cause he was one sexy son of a bitch that could make me sing like a fuckin.. yeah.. anyway, the two other "friends with benefits" worked out superbly. no strings, no drama, no problems. of course there are rules, and a zero tolerance policy. I kept my end of the bargain, he didnt, or couldnt, and so it was time to fly..

Wow. To me friends with benefits sounds really unpleasant. Am I the only man who feels this way? I think if I was in that type of relationship I would feel like Prometheus, but with my heart getting torn out instead of my liver.

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Originally Posted by JD1stTimer

Wow. To me friends with benefits sounds really unpleasant. Am I the only man who feels this way? I think if I was in that type of relationship I would feel like Prometheus, but with my heart getting torn out instead of my liver.

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Hell no you are not the only one!! I second this.
I found out that the girl I was dating for a while, was fuck buddies with a douch bag. ohh man i can't even describe how I felt at that moment, I was so pissed inside. It was bad... I mean ppl say they need to have their needs met but the past determines the future..i would NEVER trust a girl who did shit like that, period.
I know I will get hell for saying that but oh well.

you gotta be fuckin shittin me with that equation up there.. so the man entering into the frienship with benefits is what? just being a man right.. gimme a fuckin break.. Ima quit while Im ahead, but that was just the shittiest comment you could have possibly made.

friends with benefits never works out. it might for awhile but i find that sex is such a personal and emotional thing. friends with benefits tries to seperate the emotional part of it, but you cant.

I don't really know if I could do the FWB thing..I know now that I dont want a relationship though..so, I am thinking that this may be possible..cant really knock it, till I try it..

Edit: Durban Stone, you can see Hilder is posting in this thread..you know she is an advocate of the FWB thing..you know she is female..then you put that in..at least everyone knows where you stand..you have been kinda a douche anyway..put your fucking shirt back on!