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whom will never find love, or a girlfriend, whom the entire species of female humans utterly and totally hate me even though they may not know it.
who is the lowest of the low, who is a worthless peasant, who is a weak coward like meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eeeeeeeee, who
is just the worst creation in this entire universe.
Ive felt like that in the past...
dont let it get you down...
Burn a bowl and chill...
Youll find a stoner chick one of theese days.
I've never felt like that , I've always known I was a charming fucker .
Believe me when I tell you if you don't see good in you how is anyone else going to.
Work is needed on your confidence and when you feel better about yourself you will project that to the opposite sex . Confident men have more success with women because they have self worth. Start counting what you can do instead of concentrating on what you can't, try new things and don't worry about success or failure.
You will discover your strengths if you stop inspecting your weaknesses.
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Originally Posted by psychocat
These are some things you need to read over and over.It's good advice.Quote:
Originally Posted by psychocat
I was there for a long time don't worry about it. It will happen for you eventully.
wow.. thats guff.. i give valid advice to this guy, and the mods delete the post and neg rep me.. what I said was exactly what someone in this dudes situation needs to hear.. I mean c'mon am I the only one who thinks this kid needs to chill out.. low self esteem linked to marijuana.. i dunno.. but he's clearly giving us smokers a bad name..
Nothings gonna happen for this dude if he just keeps whining about his problems like this... I wasnt trying to insult him so much as to get a message across.. he needs to buck up
greenhorngrower, too bad I don't have a way to know whether you're right. But as to non, I think that comes from a chemical problem in your brain. For me it's caused by not seeing people often enough. If I stay in my house for a whole week I begin to have delusions of not being a human being. When I get back out in society I feel as though I don't know how to interact properly. But if I force myself to be as pleasant as a can and be in as many social situations as possible, then I slowly merge back into the species. Do you have guy friends? "Friend" friends who are girls? If you do, hang out with them at EVERY opportunity. Spending time alone will drag you backwards.
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Originally Posted by JD1stTimer
Well put, I can relate...:stoned:
I've felt like that too, and I still don't know if I'll ever experience a relationship. But one thing I have learned as of late is that you need to shift your focus. I've recently escaped a very bad, depressive, unproductive mindstate. A key factor in this was learning that you have to stop longing for companionship, and start appreciating the parts of your single life that you do have. Only by stepping back and away from the problem, can you see how to fix it. Maybe I'm still alone, maybe I will always be, but I'm a lot more productive than when I was beating myself up and feeling like crap. You can't fix a problem until you step out of it.
ya i agree with gandalf. im turning 19 in a few days and ive never been in a relationship.i might never be or at least for a long time either. but i could care less. theres more important things to me. "money over bitches such an easy decision" - lil wayne .....lol. Plus im already dating mary jane and palmela anderson :wtf: ;).
but anyways i guess if your really obssesed about getting a girl then you have to stop feeeling sorry for yourself and take pyscocats advice