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Well for me i would have to say both but definately personality a hell of a lot more important, no point being with the sexiest woman in the world if your sharing her with 10 other men..
But these days i think most people go for looks first, i mean if you personally dont think someone is psysically attractive upon first looking at them then you are unlikely to go up to them and talk.
But personally i do think that looks as imporant aswell but just not as much as personality.
Appearance draws me in. Personality decides whether I stay or go. I think people are so fixed on finding the perfect person that they refuse to learn or deal with anyone outside their liking. No matter how someone behaves, if you can answer questions about their personality and learn to cope in a loving way, then love can be had with anyone. Know what I'm saying, CC?
Basically if you get to know someone that well then you can learn and grow to love them? Yeah i get what your saying but that takes time a whole lot of times years.. especially to know someone inside out and how they think, and when that happens you might realise what a bitch they are! or how much you like them on the other hand.
don't get me wrong... i wouldn't of dated an ape...
but mostly it's personality.... got a 10 body/face? got a 0 personality? well... you're like a 1 to me....
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Originally Posted by cannabis campbell
That's where the universal love comes in. And you can't really get into with someone if they're not willing or available. There are so very many opportunities for love out there. Live by loving principles and you can be successful in any relationship. That's how I see it. It's difficult to maintain that kind of perspective, especially when you find someone who really challenges you. I'll remain diligent with that mindset until I crack and lose it all. I don't know what else to do?
Personality all the way. Appearance sometimes, but that's usually the opposite of how most people work it... if I see a girl with a perfect tan, bleached-blonde hair, and tight skimpy clothes it's a total turn-off - to me, that means she's expecting to get by on her looks.
definately personality, if they got looks, then its a bonus, but for the most part.
its what Ganj said, about the looks drawing you in then getting to know the person. It has neve rbeen about looks to me... haha and i always felt weird about that, when someone said oh that guy is hot I'D DO HIM! I had no response because I've never been able to relate to that. Yeah someone's whose way to over done on everything.. doesnt catch my eye in a good way.. Good personality all the way =D.. im sorry to say if really untidy and dirty, i would NOT get with you.. you could be my best friend though, i just wouldnt marry you.. lol.
As long as they aren't hideous personality. Most attractive people are boring as fuck.
too complicated of an answer to respond by just picking one or the other (or even both) on the poll
looks are what gets a girl's foot in the door, then after that personality's more important, yaknow.
personality, I never went for those pretty boys anyway. I want someone who can talk politics with me and who can watch history channel or discovery and actually discuss the cool stuff on there.