Ugh, BOYS piss me off.

After reading a few threads that began to piss me off, I must vent.

I am extremely tired of the degrading of women..EVERYWHERE! I don't understand why men automatically assume they're the stronger sex. A dick between your legs makes you a better person then me? I don't think so. I've met so many boys and men that just deserve to be SHOT for the things they do and say, especially towards women. I've met bitchy girls as well, but Jesus Christ, at least they can admit they're twats. I'm tired of boys walking around like they have an S on their chest, thinking they're invincible.

A girl flirts, she's a slut. A girl rejects you and she's a bitch? Nice.


Sorry if this doesn't make sense, as usual I'm a bit stoned. Maybe not stoned enough lol!

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Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion

After reading a few threads that began to piss me off, I must vent.

I am extremely tired of the degrading of women..EVERYWHERE! I don't understand why men automatically assume they're the stronger sex. A dick between your legs makes you a better person then me? I don't think so. I've met so many boys and men that just deserve to be SHOT for the things they do and say, especially towards women. I've met bitchy girls as well, but Jesus Christ, at least they can admit they're twats. I'm tired of boys walking around like they have an S on their chest, thinking they're invincible.

A girl flirts, she's a slut. A girl rejects you and she's a bitch? Nice.


Sorry if this doesn't make sense, as usual I'm a bit stoned. Maybe not stoned enough lol!

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Lol, I agree. It is a pretty lame thing to do. But then again, maybe you should take a look at our society. It's not necessarily their fault, when they've been forcefully conditioned (without knowing) to see women in such ways. I'm a male, but I don't degrade women.

Men have to degrade women, otherwise we will never fully recover from the heartache you women give us. However, making disparaging comments about the opposite sex has never gotten me anywhere, and making those comments directly towards a woman, well, that is something I just do not do, unless the woman has already called herself a bitch. Woman have to be that way sometimes, otherwise guys wont get the idea that she is not interested. Alright, maybe they can be kinder, but that is a bitch for you. They are simply not kind at all.

There are folks who'e evolved, and those who are not, BFA. If the thread I suspect generated your ire, you have to consider the source of such attitudes. There are a good many losers out there who weren't raised to regard women as equals or respect them. And there are a lot of them who don't actually like women, sad as that is. Yes, men who consider themselves heterosexuals but actually don't like or respect women at all. The world is full of them, and as a young women you need to be on the lookout for them. Has to do with how they were raised and their relationships with women in their families of origin--and often with the prehistoric attitudes modeled for them by their fathers.

When you know that this is a problem that has to do with small-minded losers and not with women themselves, it's fairly easy to write off such stupid, sexist attitudes. They're out there. Always have been. Probably will be for another two or three generations, at least. The sad thing is people with these attitudes actually come in both genders. There are a few sad women out there who believe they're inferior to men, too.

I know it's hard, but letting the pathetic, misogynistic jerks of the world get to you is a victory for them instead of for us. Keep rising above the losers and proving them wrong!

P.S. Don't let all men piss you off. Just the small-minded ones. There are lots of educated, evolved, wonderful guys out there who work with women as professional equals every day and manage to treat their partners, daughters, mothers, sisters, and female friends as equals when they're not working. The smarter a guy is, the more evolved his abilities in this area.

While I'm at this, I'd just like tell my husband how very much I love and adore him. Thank you, Dave, for not being one of the idiots of the world. How wonderful it would have been to have a daughter in addition to a son with you so you could have shown her how male-female interaction ought to be done. Thank you for teaching our son what you taught him.

First, I want to say this is my first post here in the womens issues forum...I do respect all of your space..but I wanted to respond..

I wanted to say that I love and respect women very much and always treat them as a equals..I have taught my daughters well on how to deal with people (men) and to never take shit from anyone and to NEVER let anyone discourage them from doing anything that they want to do.

As an addition, I want to say that I appreciate all of you ladies on this board...all of you are great and I swear if you werent here I definitly would not be..Peace and Love:hippy:

Thanks, Geonagual. You're one of the good ones. Men like you who genuinely like and respect women make wonderful fathers to daughters and husbands to wives. You help show them that they don't have to put up with the sorts of idiots who have attitudes like the poster on another thread who motivated BFA to start this one.

My husband has a theory, after reading that other post, and maybe he'll come on here and say it in his own incomparable way, that that particular guy on the other thread has actually never been within 20 yards of an actual woman, not to mention a citizen of France.

I treat women very respectfully. Better, actually, than I do men. I open doors, listen to their words, try to be understanding, and most of all be supportive of my wife.

I was taught by both my parents. My mother taught me, among other things, to walk on the curb side when accompanying a girl or woman. How many guys do this anymore? My father taught me to have humility, patience, and faithfulness in a relationship.

Just because I criticize the direction that mass culture is going in America does not mean that I personally act like an idiot - like a large percentage of men and women do.

I was single for many years, and worked on myself before committing to marriage. After the marriage, I continued to progress. My wife and I have no struggles with each other at all.

Many people today haven't the faintest idea of what I'm talking about, which is sad. Just look at the divorce rates, and other signs of the times. That's proof enough for me.

A guy only thinks he is the stronger sex,,,,shame on you BFA,,,it's up to you to keep the myth alive... you will come to know that if you keep us dumb you will flourish...

Hey man, my mate isn't going to be eating me anytime soon. . . . .:stoned: