How old were you when you...

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Originally Posted by fikusroot

It's like when you see a really hot chick what happens? your heart races a little. Maybe get a stiffy.

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Interesting... So, it is just this 'automatic' mental/physical reaction like with women? Like I said, I can appreciate 'beauty' in all things but, as a man, taking it to that next level with another man... It's like I have this mental block that just doesnt let me go there... I'm usually pretty good at putting myself in another's shoes through imagination but this is one of those situation where no matter how hard I try, I still cant get that 'fluttering of the heart' feeling with other men... I guess I just will never know what it actually feels like.

Thanks for helping me understand bro.

I was 12 the girl was 16, sounds messed up but it was great, did her for a year. Least I didn't have to worry about her getting pregnent. LOL.

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Originally Posted by someuser

Interesting... So, it is just this 'automatic' mental/physical reaction like with women? Like I said, I can appreciate 'beauty' in all things but, as a man, taking it to that next level with another man... It's like I have this mental block that just doesnt let me go there... I'm usually pretty good at putting myself in another's shoes through imagination but this is one of those situation where no matter how hard I try, I still cant get that 'fluttering of the heart' feeling with other men... I guess I just will never know what it actually feels like.

Thanks for helping me understand bro.

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Well thanks for being openminded. Like I've said before I don't consider myself bi or gay but I do sometimes feel an attraction torwards the same sex. I;m very open about it with people I know are openimded because it's just natural. That's probably why two of my best friends (probably my only real friends) are gay. It's not like I would hook up with them (although they've tried before) but it's like I've got a better understanding of how they work. They keep trying to convince me I'm gay though. But I'm not. Bottom line, I would not have sex with a man but have considered it. Women are more fun than I can handle.

I have respect for the womans body. I mean i'm a chick but if I see a hot girl I look, maybe picture her naked. Depends but finding beauty in the human form is one of the most natural things ever, be it a guy or a girl.

I think all people with an eye for beauty can appreciate beauty in members of the same sex, and it doesn't necessarily have to mean anything about our own sexual orientation. Sometimes it simply means we appreciate beauty. At other time, it means attraction. Depends on the person who's doing the looking.

Someuser and Fikusroot, sometime when you have a little time, Google the term "Kinsey scale" and read what you find. A very forward-thinking professor/researcher named Dr. Alfred Kinsey, who died in the mid 1950s and who did a lot of landmark sexuality research during the 30s, 40s and early 50s, established this scale from 0 (completely heterosexual) to 6 (completely homosexual) after interviewing literally tens of thousands of people all over the country about their sexuality. Basically, what his research revealed is that almost no one falls into the categories of exclusive heterosexuality or exclusive homosexuality. Most people are somewhere between on the orientation continuum, with homo- and heterosexuality at the extremes and bisexuality in the middle. Fundamentally religious types and people who refuse to believe basic science will argue against this theory, but it's the theory that all higher educational, medical and psychological schools of sexuality and psychology still teach today. So if you have some degree of interest in members of the same sex, no matter how minimal or extensive, that simply means you're normal and healthy.

I was... ahem... 15... but I totally regret it.

I'm still 15 and im a virgin but thats all gonna change soon. Homecoming is coming up and im going with this girl who absolutely loves me. I have a feeling shes gonna be my first.

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

Someuser and Fikusroot, sometime when you have a little time, Google the term "Kinsey scale" and read what you find.

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Sounds interesting and I certainly will. Thanks for the info.

Ok, I took the 'test' here:

http://www.technostud.com/public/newsite/klein.html

(Not sure if that is the legit version or not)


I got a 1.3 being totally honest. But I do consider myself open minded as in I have nothing against gay people (guys or girls).

If there is another version that is more accurate please let me know... I'll so some more googling on it but so far I havent found a really good website that goes into depth on the test.


It does blow my mind how many girls/guys are more 'in-the-middle' then they may or may not want to acknowledge. I mean with girls I am not as surprised just because females are so sexually objectified in our society that it doesnt surprise me there is more of a grey area... Turn on MTV and all you see is titties & ass and girls tounging one another so it makes it seem more the 'norm'...

I dunno, I talked about this subject at length with gfs and friends and I never have been able to really get the answers I seek... All I do know is it does get really old when girls want to be bi just because that is the 'cool thing' to be (or gets the most attention from the guys). Be who you are (gay or straight).

well, its weird for me, i lost it at 16, (im 17 now) but i was so drunk i couldnt even come, n she didnt even seem to realize i was there, - one of them limp dick jobbies, and i jus pulled out half way thru and was like, 'i give up' and went to sleep, but i dunno if that counts....