THANKS to my motherfucking parents

welp I got kicked out by my parents, at 16 years old...mostly cause I was selling weed, and they didn't want that sort of thing around my young siblings (even tho I just came home to sleep really, w/e I understand what they meant). luckily enough they gave me a week to get my shit together; I found a place that I could afford on my pizza place/dealing income, and I lived on my own two feet for 8 months...and it was fantastic, no doubt aboot it, but it wasn't to last...took a couple E one night and ended up three hours drive away from work, alone and sketchy...getting home was a fun two days tho.

That two days cost me my job, and suddenly I couldn't afford to live on my own anymore...called my folks after 8 months of not talking, went over for dinner and a nice long talk, and moved back in that weekend...with some rules (basically no drugs in the house, or you're gone for good...and they did check my pockets for a couple weeks after that)

point I'm trying to make is, they had a reason to kick me out...and they had a reason to take me back...both times it was cause they loved me.

I don't know what you're looking for posting this...could be a plea for help, could be a fit of anger, could be drugs. Whatever. Doesn't matter. Did your parents have a reason to kick you out? Even if that reason doesn't make sense to you? Were your actions the reason you got kicked out? maybe theres something you should change...I was lucky, I had a job to support myself. 16 is not a good age to be unemployed with rent due, especially if going home is an option (albeit conditional)

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Fuck you buddy! I don't listen to slipknot! I shop at catholic charities! I don't want your motherfucking pity! I'm bitching because my own parents tell me I'm not good enough, that I embarass them because of what i wear, how i talk, whatever. They're fucking stuck up bitches that dont know they first thing about compassion, love, or tolerance. You're a fucking fag dude, people like you need to grow up, realize the world does not revolve around you, you arent as mature and serious as you pretend to be, and maybe chill out a bit.

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OH SNAP!!

A lot has been said here, some heated and in my personal opinion rude and others were just spouting their opinion. Personally I can sympathize with Rachel in some things but in others i cant. I am 16 and my parents kicked me out for their own reasons one was because i started dating a guy behind their back, two was because yea i can tend to state my opinion and get mouthy, and three they just didnt want to deal with me at the moment because my dad is dying of cancer. One thing i would never say about my parents is that i want to slit their throats. I love my parents I just dont get a long with them very well. So I just had to learn when i am around them to button my lip and just not argue. I also thank my parents for the great oppritunities they have opended up to me in my life. One they homeschooled me all the way up until december and then i passed my college entrance exam with flying colors and am currently attending jr college for my associates in engineering. My mom, who is prolly the one i dont get along with the most, pushed me to apply for an essay scholarship that i didnt want to try for because i was nervous and now the next two years of my schooling are paid for. They have also introduced me to the most important person in my life, God. Without God i would have been a goner a long time ago. Just try to look at things from your parents perspective, they only want to protect you not hurt you.

So Rachel there is so much you can do with your life. You claim to be an itellectual so why not try for some scholarships and go back to school. Yeah hitchiking around the states would be a great learning expierence but its nothing like what you would get at school. I just hope and pray that if i can help you at any time let me know. I know that i am younger then you but we all have lessons that we can teach each other.

I'm concerned about the hitch hiking around part, I did it when I was in my late teens, and feel it's a risky thing to do. Had a lot of unpleasant encounters and near misses. And I was just a boring, ugly, teen age "boy", albiet it street wise enough. A reasonably good looking girl would probably attract a lot of trouble on the road.

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I'm concerned about the hitch hiking around part, I did it when I was in my late teens, and feel it's a risky thing to do. Had a lot of unpleasant encounters and near misses. And I was just a boring, ugly, teen age "boy", albiet it street wise enough. A reasonably good looking girl would probably attract a lot of trouble on the road.

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A reasonably good looking girl would probably attract a lot of trouble on the road.

the roads are never ending
now im not saying anyone is shit
but
'shit attracts shit eaters' and shit eaters will eat anything
it dont half to be shit


and to the young lady who thanked her parents for the OUTPUT of support and a step up in life,the chance to do good with ya life EVEN though they have different ideas of what is what,
i thank you for them.and ask that you tell them you recognize what they have done for you, becuase trust me here parents need to hear it from your lips now and then ,dont assume they know it,
i have a kids ages 15 and 17 ,who think im a hard ass strict parent becuase i keep myself ready to "be there when needed" i except the fact i cant be liked by them at all times,that they will feel hate towards me for punishments.
i dont meddle in their lives as much as i can avoid it, but i make sure i know where they are at all times and if i dont know where they are,who they are hanging with ect,They wont get to go anywhere anytime soon,
its a fact Nobody is safe and no parent can protect a child from all forms of harm,yet we want to and we try to ,sometimes with sad results.
example
my 15 yr old was gonna stay at one friends,she ended up at another ones house,(who's mom deals btw)that i FORBID her to even be there,let alone spend a night,well she got busted ,redhanded.she blatantly did exactly what i said dont do,
i took every privlidge she had,even TOOK her off the cheerleading squad
before ya say mean ol' prick you should know,I told her in simple terms If you do go to this kids house,i will do this,and this and this and that,
she did,and i did what i said i would do.i cut all contact with friends other than In school.for weeks she had ,and i quote 'NO LIFE"
now do ya think i like having my kid feel the anger and hate it brought out?
she has earned some of her privilidges back,NOT all,i let her use the phone,and go places agian,i wont let her near that friend, her partner in crime becuase well,they just aint good decision makers when together and i wont be cheated out of my trust and smile about it.
may i add that she can sit here and smoke a fat doobie if she so desired
and that ive let her friends stay here,and dont ask or care what they do(to some degree) in her room.meaning they can get high crank up nelly and luagh all night,Not that i want them too,but id rather have her here safe,than out there with all the idiots,cuase who knows

kids will push the bounderies to the limits,few know how many risk they take
im hoping when they come of age and are making all the decisions on thier own that they realize i love thm dearly and have devoted the years to them
i could be out jamming in bars and snortin coke with my friends,but yet im here,in case im needed,id rather be playing tunes and getting high but ya know kids need so much more than food and shelter.
peace

ps.
we all must learn some things the hard way,so good luck to you all

Just to let you know....I would delete that shit about slitting your parent's throats ASAP. I've been charged with TERRORIST THREATS because of saying dumb shit like that to my PARENTS! So if your parents are bad enough to kick you out, don't think that they wouldn't press charges. just some advice...it's a felony, you know.

I dont think my parents are that hardcore...they could have charged with me with a bunch of shit by now but they havent.

poor baby get a new fucking job you dweeb

Oh shit here we go again... :eek:

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poor baby get a new fucking job you dweeb

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Yea, like no one else has thought of that :rolleyes:

Jese will you people please read the entire convo before posting.