I cant shelter him forever
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Originally Posted by Samwhore
erm, kinda, like I said, that is my mother your talking about
Im not talking about your mother, im talking about mothers getting pregnant at 15.. your taking it personally.. and you expect me to change my views and be like "oh yeah its totally responsible to have children at 15"
im not gonna change my views just for you..
maybe you should stop feeling sorry for yourself by taking this personally :thumbsup:
Your mother had you at 15, i dont care.. its still irresponsible to have a child when you ARE a child..
hey your 15 sam why dont you go have a child? afterall it makes perfect sense dont it? oh wait, but you dont know why it makes sense.. but your saying it makes sense because your mother did it.
I cant shelter him forever
my cousin had a kid at 15. it was her choice. i won't get into details, but it had to do with getting out of school, because she wasn't gonna graduate anyway. shes doing good now, and is back in school and shit, and she takes care of the kid.
I cant shelter him forever
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Originally Posted by JeenYuss
so yr saying you know every 15 year old in the world and you know for a fact that none of them would ever consensually get pregnant
Who at 15 decides to have a baby?
cmon, tell me some mothers that had a baby at 15 on purpose? id love to hear that shit.
like 90% of mothers, probaly even more.. at 15, it would of been an accident.. which is why im saying its irresponsible
I cant shelter him forever
Nothing wrong with having a child at 15 so long as you are mature enough to handle such a large responsibility and assure the child is given every opportunity possible. I've known people who've had kids at around that age, and people who's parents were "young" by society's standards when they were born. As long as your parents can help out a bit and everything. It's a personal choice dude, butt out. Not sure where you live, but here if having a child is going to be a huge problem, there is a thing called abortion..but it rarely comes to that. Kids use condoms more often than people realize.
Not sure what history you've been taught, but it's pretty much common knowledge that girls were getting married as young as 12 just a few hundred years ago. Thats just the way things were back then. Relax dude, believe it or not, some people can handle being mature.
Oh yeah.
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Originally Posted by b0Ng h!tz 4 mE
Who at 15 decides to have a baby?
cmon, tell me some mothers that had a baby at 15 on purpose? id love to hear that shit.
like 90% of mothers, probaly even more.. at 15, it would of been an accident.. which is why im saying its irresponsible
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Originally Posted by Samwhore
um, thats my mother your talking about, she was 15 when she got pregnant with me....
Even if it is an accident, so what? People adjust.
Btw, sorry to the OP. B2K is pretty harmless.
I cant shelter him forever
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I cant shelter him forever
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Originally Posted by b0Ng h!tz 4 mE
Im not talking about your mother, im talking about mothers getting pregnant at 15.. your taking it personally.. and you expect me to change my views and be like "oh yeah its totally responsible to have children at 15"
im not gonna change my views just for you..
maybe you should stop feeling sorry for yourself by taking this personally :thumbsup:
Your mother had you at 15, i dont care.. its still irresponsible to have a child when you ARE a child..
hey your 15 sam why dont you go have a child? afterall it makes perfect sense dont it? oh wait, but you dont know why it makes sense.. but your saying it makes sense because your mother did it.
in case u didnt know this, some people mature and grow faster than others
im going to have to agree with you on the point that most 15 year old mothers did get that way by being irresponsible, but not ALL of them as you've been trying to say the whole time
I cant shelter him forever
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Originally Posted by b0Ng h!tz 4 mE
Im not talking about your mother, im talking about mothers getting pregnant at 15.. your taking it personally.. and you expect me to change my views and be like "oh yeah its totally responsible to have children at 15"
im not gonna change my views just for you..
maybe you should stop feeling sorry for yourself by taking this personally :thumbsup:
Your mother had you at 15, i dont care.. its still irresponsible to have a child when you ARE a child..
hey your 15 sam why dont you go have a child? afterall it makes perfect sense dont it? oh wait, but you dont know why it makes sense.. but your saying it makes sense because your mother did it.
who was my mother. It all makes sense in past centuries, when your were being married off and having kids at 13, but since times have changed it is now looked down upon. Im not saying it makes sense, Im saying its not reason to say that it is irresponsible. Why is it so bad, to have a child when you are a child, age does not mean anything about your mentality.
and there are a lot of things that make perfect sense but you dont know why they make sense, that is why you must find the logic in them
I cant shelter him forever
no, he's saying if a 15 year old were to get pregnant at 15 that it is fucking irresponsible and a stupid idea, get it through your thick fucking head. A 15 year old kid cannot drive, cannot get a decent job, cannot fucking do anything an adult can do. Probably doesn't even know how to cook a fucking grilled cheese, more times than not. Jesus you want to be right so bad you're spitting out complete fucking crap. If a 15 year old kid willingly(WILLFUCKINGLY) has a fucking baby then they are either mentally unstable or a fucking retard.
If you know any success stories of a 15 year old person with a baby, it is because they didnt raise their baby their mom or grandparents did. Which is what happens when you assholes have kids, if your parents or grandparents wanted another fucking kid to take care of they would have one themselves or adopt one.
I cant shelter him forever
exsteamly few people want to have a child at 15
im not gonna even discuss this if your gonna keep taking it personally
also a 15 year old girl isnt nowhere NEAR as developed as a full grown woman.. and before you say people can mature faster.. im talking phyically.. a girl having a baby at 15 leaves alot more chances of a miscarage
I cant shelter him forever
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Originally Posted by Leebstatus
Even if it is an accident, so what? People adjust.
let me get to the point.
If you make an irresponsible decision, is it more irresponsible to deal with it and fix your mistake or is it more irresponsible to regret what you have done?