So, What's Gonna Happen To Me Now?

wow that is quite the story, im sorry man i hope everything works out, but if ur still worried about fines and shit u can go to www.NORML.com and they will at least give u all the fines and stuff for ur state at least on weed, im not sure if they do alcohol or anything else but that might at least let u know how much ur gonna have to pay cuz it doesnt sound liek ur moms gonna help, on that whole battery thing tho i would try to work with the judges niece and get to her to convince him that u did no such thing cuz that might get u into more trouble, anyways i offer my condolences and i hope everything works out for ya

oops i hadnt gotten all the way to the end of the thread and i wanted to help u out it sounds like its workin out for ya, glad to see it

Wow, i just read this and am blown away in the resemblance of your family and mine..i wish i had been a member when this was going on so that we coulda talked there it, cuzz im sure we would have MANY similar cases that we coulda see different viewpoints on..
My problem is that now that i have been on my own for almost 10 years the problems i had in my family have came back to bite me in the ass when i need to be the "adult" im have trouble.
I reecently(last 2.5-3yrs) have found the miracle the cannabis plant holds deep within it, and notice that it helps me threw the days..
Good luck to you..

Gothen, I read your whole story that really sucks, glad to see things are working out. I went though hell as a child too, but it wasn't for drugs, i was alienated in school, kids picked fights i fought back got in trouble with the teachers, got restrained, kicked outa school put in state programs, juvy, 2 hospitals and finally im living on my own lol. A coworker's sister introduced me to weed when i was 19, now 23 this december. Weed is a gift from god, never let anyone take that away. Hopefully some day our government will pick their heads up outa the sand and fix the fuck ups they have made. Peace~

Toker4LifeVT

Tell your mom to go buy a fucking dildo for christs sake.

Gothen man my mom is the EXACT same way. She is a religous conservative bible thumping bitch that has never smelled marijuana in her life and has fallen for the government bullshit about it. She almost called the cops on me when she came home and the house smelled like smoke. She threatened to have me arrested. :( I know exactly what you is going through.

My dad gave my first glass bong to the cops, Now he helps me with my plants. Haha

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Originally Posted by Gothen

I've decided I'm going to tell them that I DID get the booze from a cooler. I'm going to say that I had a friend drop me off at this place called The Newstand, and from there I walked around the town until I saw this house that had some cars in the driveway and people on the porch. I didn't have any intention to go to the party, but they were yelling something at me, so I came up to see what they were saying. There were people there with alcohol so I decided to join in. From there, I saw a cooler with some Buds in it, so I took a couple. I was there a total of, about, 10 minutes, and since I was so stoned (I'll use the word HIGH) I don't remember what the house was. All I know is that I didn't know anybody there

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this may have been mentioned, but IMHO you're going the wrong way here, and this sounds like a really lousy idea. you found a house and had a party and can't remember which one it is? c'mon.

i think you're getting scared, and i understand, but chill; stick with your "found the beer in the woods" or "found it" anywhere where someone wouldn't be to blame for you getting a handle on it. don't go bringing in some dude to say he left it at your house. it seems you're grasping for believable stories to tell them; and i think you'll find yourself digging yourself deeper more than anything. "found in the woods" is good enough.

don't go wrapping yourself or anyone else up into some convoluted story that could do more harm than good


btw: your mother charged you with ASSAULT????????? holy ........... that's unreal beyond belief. up to that point i was a bit mixed up, but man, that's just terrible, really terrible.

i'm so sorry. just a note to folks in this thread: just remember, he's 17, and this is his mother. she may be doing foolish, hurtful, and damaging things, but she's still his mom. OP, i'm really sorry this is happening to you, but if you can manage it, don't hate her. it won't help you. perhaps by your forgiveness of her you can show her your maturity. it may very well be the best thing for you to get out of that situation asap, and that doesn't seem like long. i tell ya man, this is hard stuff you're going through; things will get better for you, they will. i think you're handling this all pretty well. good luck, try to avoid the hate, it just drags you down.


think of it this way: you're getting a jumpstart on adulthood and maturity that folks who get babied forever never get. sooner or later we all are on our own and struggling, you'll have a leg up on most of the others :) peace bro

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Originally Posted by NowhereMan

they cant get in no trouble for GIVING booze to a juvy

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this fellows legal phrasing is going to get him in trouble someday ;) uh, yeah, that would actually be pretty illegal there bud; i think you meant for a juvy "stealing" their booze without their knowing? ok, but for crying out loud don't say that, don't say you stole it.

cop: where'd the booze come from
you: found it in the woods
cop: where?
you: over thereabouts
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nobody gave it to you, nobody stole anything, no adult is to blame

i'm sure you're past this stage (not through with the thread), but just some general advice for anyone

folks, when in doubt, say NOTHING, and get a lawyer, and they come free in our wonderful country ;)

well man, that does indeed suck, and i am sorry to hear about all of that.

i totally understand all those depressing emotions you experianced, i was the exact same way.

My mom is not nearly as strict as your mom, thank god, so i never had it nearly as bad as you did.

I recently got arrested for paraphernalia, i got caught by my school security and i have to apear in court May 21st, as of now my mom doesnt want me to come home so i am at the very very begining of a similar situation that you were in, its going to be very difficult for me as well, but i just hope i can see the beauty in all of this and i will make it through.

im 16 with pretty poor grades and this is my first offense, think im going to have drug testing as well???

Anyway, good luck man dont give up, when this is all over and you are puffin again, aww man :thumbsup: :D