Why do so many men have this problem??
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Originally Posted by sexy smoke
LOL, that's funny.
Let's face it this is just another thread to whinge about men. There are much more important issues out there other than "why he won't buy me tampons". It doesn't make you a better person if you can walk into a shop and buy them. I'd love to see all these women buy a porn magazine in pure confidence. I know my girlfriend DEFINATLY wouldn't, she wouldn't be able to live with the shame.., Maybe I should start a thread on this.
I disagree with both your posts. This thread is not generalizing men. The title is why do so many men have this problem. Not why do all men have this problem. There are a lot of men who have a problem with being seen buying tampons.
I do buy porn. There is a local shop down the road. Ive bought movies books toys just about everything. I have nothing to be embarrassed about. Everyone in that store is in there for the same reason.
Talk about someone whining you need to re read your posts.
Why do so many men have this problem??
haha I buy porn also... NO SHAME here...
Why do so many men have this problem??
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Originally Posted by sexy smoke
LOL, that's funny.
Let's face it this is just another thread to whinge about men. There are much more important issues out there other than "why he won't buy me tampons". It doesn't make you a better person if you can walk into a shop and buy them. I'd love to see all these women buy a porn magazine in pure confidence. I know my girlfriend DEFINATLY wouldn't, she wouldn't be able to live with the shame.., Maybe I should start a thread on this.
You are new here so Ill be nice. Which is kind of hard for me when coming up against ignorance as some of the members here can attest to..
Its not your place to judge the importance of issues that other people have. That is an opinion, one that not everybody shares. The only thing you can judge is how important it is to you, and we all now know that you think it is irrelavent, thank you for your wonderful opinion. If you have such a problem with it I would suggest STAYING THE FUCK OUT OF THE TOPIC. As opposed to posting rude and detractory comments to an established and well liked member of this site.
If you havent started a topic complaining about how your girlfriend wont buy you porn, go for it. Thats the beauty of an internet forum. By the way, my ex girlfriends would all buy porn AND sex toys. Realize that this is an international site, and just because you and your friends that live in a small demographic area of a relatively small Island nation have a certain opinion about certain things... that doesnt mean that the rest of the world shares your opinion. Judging by the fact that there are now 3 pages of people, many of them supporting the OP, I would say you are the minority here.
Dont get mad just because you arent man enough to buy feminine hygiene products without feeling insecure about your masculenity. And your girlfriend couldnt bear the SHAME of buying porn? Thats shameful? Oh yeah.. I guess in your area it must be, well if thats the case I feel sorry for you :(
Why do so many men have this problem??
Guess I'm lucky in that department. I take my pills 28 days straight for 11 months and only have one period a year. I'm usually ready for it. I did have a bf a couple years ago who got these awful nose bleeds, and used tampons to stop the bleeding. That was a hoot...the string hanging our of his nose.
Why do so many men have this problem??
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Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary
You are new here so Ill be nice. Which is kind of hard for me when coming up against ignorance as some of the members here can attest to..
Its not your place to judge the importance of issues that other people have. That is an opinion, one that not everybody shares. The only thing you can judge is how important it is to you, and we all now know that you think it is irrelavent, thank you for your wonderful opinion. If you have such a problem with it I would suggest STAYING THE FUCK OUT OF THE TOPIC. As opposed to posting rude and detractory comments to an established and well liked member of this site.
If you havent started a topic complaining about how your girlfriend wont buy you porn, go for it. Thats the beauty of an internet forum. By the way, my ex girlfriends would all buy porn AND sex toys. Realize that this is an international site, and just because you and your friends that live in a small demographic area of a relatively small Island nation have a certain opinion about certain things... that doesnt mean that the rest of the world shares your opinion. Judging by the fact that there are now 3 pages of people, many of them supporting the OP, I would say you are the minority here.
Dont get mad just because you arent man enough to buy feminine hygiene products without feeling insecure about your masculenity. And your girlfriend couldnt bear the SHAME of buying porn? Thats shameful? Oh yeah.. I guess in your area it must be, well if thats the case I feel sorry for you :(
:thumbsup: I second that.
Why do so many men have this problem??
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Originally Posted by Dro_Princess
:thumbsup: I second that.
I mean fuck... he was in the fucking womens forum.. lol. How ignorant do you have to be before you can be elected as a Darwin Award winner??
Why do so many men have this problem??
I've bought tampons and other things for my gf's all my adult life until my last one. I told her I wouldn't get anything as long as she gave me no warning as to when she would quit takin her bi-polar meds. She wouldn't stay on them so I would just hide for seveal days till she started again. Sometimes I wonder how I survived. But the next gf will get the same treatment. If she needs it I will get it.
Why do so many men have this problem??
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Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary
You are new here so Ill be nice. Which is kind of hard for me when coming up against ignorance as some of the members here can attest to..
Its not your place to judge the importance of issues that other people have. That is an opinion, one that not everybody shares. The only thing you can judge is how important it is to you, and we all now know that you think it is irrelavent, thank you for your wonderful opinion. If you have such a problem with it I would suggest STAYING THE FUCK OUT OF THE TOPIC. As opposed to posting rude and detractory comments to an established and well liked member of this site.
If you havent started a topic complaining about how your girlfriend wont buy you porn, go for it. Thats the beauty of an internet forum. By the way, my ex girlfriends would all buy porn AND sex toys. Realize that this is an international site, and just because you and your friends that live in a small demographic area of a relatively small Island nation have a certain opinion about certain things... that doesnt mean that the rest of the world shares your opinion. Judging by the fact that there are now 3 pages of people, many of them supporting the OP, I would say you are the minority here.
Dont get mad just because you arent man enough to buy feminine hygiene products without feeling insecure about your masculenity. And your girlfriend couldnt bear the SHAME of buying porn? Thats shameful? Oh yeah.. I guess in your area it must be, well if thats the case I feel sorry for you :(
Sigh.
I live in an exceptionally liberal part of Europe, don't make swift judgements yourself. Why should I be More polite to someone of greater stature on an internet forum? We are all equal, there is no hierarchy. I have no problem with my masculinity, you are making a generalisation yourself by saying that. All men who cannot buy tampons have a problem with their masculinity? I suggest you re-read your post, next time I'll be going easy on you.
Why do so many men have this problem??
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Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary
I mean fuck... he was in the fucking womens forum.. lol. How ignorant do you have to be before you can be elected as a Darwin Award winner??
Sigh again.
Why do so many men have this problem??
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Originally Posted by sexy smoke
Sigh.
I live in an exceptionally liberal part of Europe, don't make swift judgements yourself. Why should I be More polite to someone of greater stature on an internet forum? We are all equal, there is no hierarchy. I have no problem with my masculinity, you are making a generalisation yourself by saying that. All men who cannot buy tampons have a problem with their masculinity? I suggest you re-read your post, next time I'll be going easy on you.
Allow me to reassert myself. How long have you been a member of this website? How many times have you posted here? How aware are you, of the social interactions that take place on here?
Let me shine some light on a couple of things:
This thread is listed in the "Women's Issues" sub-forum. Now just in case the logic of this fact escapes you, I shall assert that it is for women. Men are discouraged from posting in here, because the women enjoy having their own place free from the judging and scolding remarks of men who feel the need to stamp their ignorance upon everything they read. The more open-minded and less judgemental men are tolerated in our posts in the womens forum, provided we dont post anything offensive. I have a feeling there are some people who found your posts offensive. Why? Because you came into the (once again) WOMEN'S FORUM, into a topic a female member created out of a frustration she is experiencing in her personal life, and told her to STOP WHINING. Then proceeded to rant and complain about the fact that you thought she was whining. Followed by an attempt at a tongue-in-cheek comment about something you found unsatisfying in your own girlfriend.
Is any of this impacting you at all? No? It escapes you completely? Hmm.. I was afraid of that... On to the second part then..
Your post proved nothing, and was a poor attempt at justification. If your part of Europe is so liberal, then why is it so hard for you to buy a hygiene product? Are you afraid? Does it hurt your feelings? Does it make you feel "icky?" What other explanation can you give for the fact that you are unable and unwilling to purchase cotton, packaged in plastic, boxed in cardboard? Yes, I will say it again. Any man that has a problem buying tampons suffers from either: immasculinity, immaturity, or ignorance. And usually its an unhealthy mix of all three. Take your pick. Or entertain us by giving your own reasoning... Im sure its completely valid... Oh and.. the fact that your comment was towards a well-liked, longstanding group member had nothing to do with hierarchy, but more along the lines of.. we like her alot fucking better than we like you, so good luck finding the majority of people siding with you. Go ahead and be rude to whomever you choose, the results will be worth it.
Please... feel NO need to go easy on me, Im a big boy I can take it. Nothing you say to me over the internet or in person could possibly offend me, as I dont have enough respect for you or your opinion to have any sort of feasible affect. But please, by all means, explain to me how I am wrong, because I thoroughly enjoy having my eyes opened towards something I was previously ignorant about........
