Thanks for the pro-choice propagandaQuote:
Originally Posted by Torog
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Thanks for the pro-choice propagandaQuote:
Originally Posted by Torog
imo abortion.But you 2 have to decide it for YOU.you cant let other ppl throw their beliefs and thinkings on u and jus sort through the bullshit to get the answer,you made a mans mistake,so dnt put on your lil boy shorts now,put them big boy pants on and find the rite solution for YOU.So i think u should jus sit dwn wit ur girl and talk.talk as long as u need til u both come upon an agreement on wat is the rite thing to do,bc its HER body and YOUR potential baby were talkin about,and u two are the only ppl it REALLY affects.
i hope wateva u choose works out for you,im out.
I didn't read the whole thred but from what i did read in it i would say try n think of the baby if u raise him/her think about how he/she might get looked at how they'd feel or what might happen is he/she got adopted honestly if i was about to have a kid i would be more worried about what there ganna have to go threw then i do cus think about it those desicions can last years and years for the kid and for you maybe acouple months or years i dunno im the same age 15. I really don't know what i would do if i was about to have a kid goodluck on w.e. u do man ur in a tuff spot.
So thread leader, Your telling us you don't want to have the kid grow up knowing / thinking it's parents didn't love it. But instead take it's life. How would you feel if some one picked your fate before you had a choice. This is a big choice you have to make, That factors out so much in the end. All I'm really trying to get at. Is that it is another human life.
I got a question for you...
Do you not have morals?
I can't tell you to "be a man and raise it" coz I've never been there.. Personaly, I'd urge her to get an abortion, and if not, to put the child up for adoption. That may seem rather irresponsible and selfish, but lets say you did raise the child - teenagers really aren't ready for parenting, its impact halting educational and emotional growth for the teenager, and most likely an awkward childhood for the baby.
shut the fuck up! i dont need pricks like you saying shit like this to me atm... sorry dude its nothing personal its just hard enough as it is atm.Quote:
Originally Posted by spiked666killer
ok we went to a meeting this morning to discuss what to do and this is what we have covered.
neither of us think it would be fair to try and raise the baby as theres no way we could support it finacially.
i know allot of you think adoption would be the way to go but personally neither of us are verry fond of this idea simply because of how the baby will feel growing up not knowing its real parents, we also dont want to know our baby is out there and we have turned our backs on it.
as for abortion...were not to sure on this yet.
im going to her house now to discuss our options a bit more.
thanks for your support people.
well.. the baby growing up wouldnt HAVE to know its adopted. but then again he/she would just be living one big lie then.. also once the babys grown up and you're older (alot older lol) maybe he/she can come find you and they're mother..Quote:
Originally Posted by lil josh
But next time.. dont be dumb and forget you took the condom off..
Did you use a rubber everytime your fucked? If not, your a fuckin idiot lol
But talk to her and weigh your options, what will be best for her, for you, and most importantly, the baby..........
kk well i have just got back from her house and im pretty down atm :(
she miscarried this morning :(
i see it as a sign from god that its life was not meant to be.
once again ty for all your support.
and just incase your wondering i havn't left her on her own she is with her mum and there having a girly day, they assured me it was ok for me to go.
Cant stress enough how amazingly helpfull you'v all been, thanks.
in bold because i know this thread is probably going to carry on and many will probably miss this message.
Thanks for letting us know, Josh. I hope she's physically OK and that you're both emotionally OK, too. BFA was certainly right on about her prediction. I think you're precisely right that it's a sign it wasn't mean to be.
OK, let's cover this so we never have to go through this again with you or, with luck, anyone else. What's the most important thing to do before ever having sex again? Yep, some kind of reliable birth control. Preferably two types so you'll have a backup.
Best of luck to you, Josh!