I agree with you about to a certain extent with the use of 'unfair', but remember, this is one of the biggest debates in society today and everyone's entitled to their own opinion..Quote:
Originally Posted by Skink
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I agree with you about to a certain extent with the use of 'unfair', but remember, this is one of the biggest debates in society today and everyone's entitled to their own opinion..Quote:
Originally Posted by Skink
What he's saying is that it isnt fair to the child if you try to raise them and dont have the resources to do so, which I agree with. Being a man in this situation doesnt have to mean raising the child though (I dont mean leave the mother and the kid on their own though, thats the worst thing he could do). In situations like these adoption is a really good solution, if the mother thinks that she would be able to give the child up when the time comes. I think a lot of males (I'm not saying anyone here just in general) dont understand how hard it can be to give your baby up to strangers after you've carried the child for 9 months even though you'd be doing the right thing. Emotionally I dont think I could ever do it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Skink
This is the kind of shit I doubt he is looking for. And I know isnā??t helping.Quote:
Originally Posted by bavet
Lets stop yelling our personal beliefs at him and give him some advice!!!!!!!!
You know useful shit, he didnā??t come on here to take a poll.
Stuff like good web resources for people in his position (I donā??t know any)
I cant remember if he mentioned were heā??s from but maybe some services in his city.
Helpful stuff people.
And if any of the pro-lifers wana debate abortion. Am I ever willing.
But not in this thread!
My personal opinion is that the opposition to early abortion is based solely based in humanities superficial beliefs in our own superiority!
Now why is it killing 16 human cells is such a big deal? Most Humans donā??t even flinch when a dog dies or a species disappears; these things consist of much more ā??lifeā? than a human. all it is, is out fallacy of superiority
You make the resources,,,love and caring is the most important and,,, that takes you... Many of the worlds best people came from poverty... being a man means accepting responsibility,,,not running the other way...Quote:
Originally Posted by napolitana869
clearly what disturbs me the most is people selfishly putting their life first and the child second... I am not going to debate the issue of abortion/adoption,,,I am just posting my views...
I work with 13 year olds who get knocked up, and the younger they are, the more miserable they are. You have college, school, your whole young life to live. It is entirely up to you, but just be aware of the troubles you'll have if you have the child.
all i know is if i get my old laddy knocked up(im 16, 17 in a month, and shes 18) at this age... i either going to stab her with a wire coat hanger in the womb, the punch her as hard as i can in the stomach, then find the biggest flight of stairs i can find, and shove her down them... and then dump a a shit load of alcohal down her throat... until shes pucking(ive seen her puke once while drinking and she drinks alot)
OR.... im going to have my mom help me out, and have her take care of the baby and help me pay for it until im 18, and then im going to drop my whole career plan, and jump on an Alaskan crab or fishing boat, until the kid is 18, for monney... and then repay my mom, and then complete my plans on going to UTI and owning my own shop...
way to go DAD , buy a rubber .
crispi
Baby's are very expensive, espically if you don't have anything. Better start saving up now if your going to go thourgh with it. Looks like Christmas came early for you buddy:D Lets not forget you'll get a tax cut with a kid:p
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Originally Posted by xcrispi
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Originally Posted by Purple Banana
Must be a tough job working with youth...
were's your purple banana???