SOME THINGS SHOULD STAY IN THE BEDROOM

Aye it is pointless to argue


But I will take advantage of one in your honor smokey, and when it happens I will be sure to post about it ;)

Now go ice those niblets

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Originally Posted by Smokeychik

Ok, I get it, I was just trying to stress a point about girls, especially younger ones. Now you are comparing GIRL TALK to MURDER, lol, I am backing out of this one, I have tried to be fair and honest in what I say, but it is obvious we have to agree to disagree on this because that comparison is WAY extreme if you ask me, good lord, girl talk and murder?? Seriously? :p

However I am mature enough to get your point, but I was just being honest. Now that I am married, I keep our bedroom private of course, and I never said that girl that was talking about her guy liking it up the ass was right, I was just making a point that IS WHAT GIRLS DO! PERIOD, hahahaha... And it is with good intentions usually, see when I was a teen, and early twenties, that is how I learned some of the fun and awesome things I still use to this day,(My husband has no comaplaints, heehee). Now of course, pratice was great, but at that young age, girls feel more comfy asking other girls for advice.

And any girl that says she has never had sexy girl talk with her friends, well, if you beleive it, great, but I know better. Take care! ;) :D :smokin:

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Makes sense. Although the generalizations are annoying. Everyone has different levels of maturity. It is well known that girls tend to mature (physically AND mentally) faster than guys. But it is also well known that guys tend to mature (mentally...) much greater in the long run.
This gets complex. Girls tend to open up to each other far more than guys do, their comfort level together is greater. To talk about their sex in deeper detail is only natural. Imo, this girls respect for her guy's sexual privacy wasn't very strong. But she's young. And... god I hate it when this happens. I lose all motivation to continue my point, or to post anything on the thread at all. I question the purpose of trying to add my 2 cents. Fuck it. Everyone's different. Fuck generalizations. It wasn't very respectful to inform everyone that her guy liked a dildo up his ass. Should have been a little more loyal with a matter of that significance. The end.

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Originally Posted by RainyDayWoman

I must be in that .1% (so I've been told)

I would never gossip about my partner behind his back.
That's a deal breaker for me... right up there with cheating.

There's a difference between talking about sex and talking about your partners sexuality.

When you go thru relationships, marriages, ect....
And have respect for your partner...
You talk about sex with your partner.

Secrets between lovers last forever.

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thats the shit !! i agree u should be able to trust ur partner with your secrets like i say in the title some things should stay in the bed room and between lovers not blabbed all over town!

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Originally Posted by robert42

lmao just call him up and chill with him have a smoke watch a dvd shove a dildo up his ass

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what!!! ur wierd man.FUCK THAT!!!.

Actually maybe you shouldn't have been evesdropping in the first place.

maybe u are right but the window was open and if it was one of my other friends that heard this shit it could av been alot worse ,he could of been confonted with it that night by a group of pissed mates payin him out.I dont like what he does but I wouldnt want him to go thru that shit!!.

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Originally Posted by bitch from hell

Actually maybe you shouldn't have been evesdropping in the first place.

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Maybe she shouldn't have been blabbing that shit in the first place.
But I suppose everyone grows up eventually.
By the way, What's Hell like this time of year? :p

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Originally Posted by Kenn

MAN SOMTHIN S REALLY PISSIN ME OFF AT THE MOMENT AND ID LIKE SOME OPINIONS. my girl and I went to aparty where all our friends were ,anyway everything was goin fine ,the boys were in the shed drinkin and smokin and the girls gatherd in their little group as usual. I went to the toilet ,the window was open and i could hear the girls chattin so i thought id eavsdrop and see what they were talkin abt.This is when it gets wierd I hear one of my good mates girl starts tellin the other girls how my mate loves a dildo shoved up his ass while avin sex!!.Fuck dudes i nearly fell over i couldnt believe what i was hearing, my mate who i go shootin with campin with likes abit of the plastic fantastic,man i was embarressed for him.So i go back to the lads in the shed and there he is smokin and drinkin just like always but I cant look at him or even talk to him, everytime i look at him i picture him with a fkn dildo up his ass.So its been awhile now and every timt my mate rings me to go out or somthin ,I make excuses to avoid him. Why am I bein this way i dont know how to deal with this shit . I wish i never heard what i did it just made things...WIERD!!:confused:

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I would just laugh if i heard that about my friend, and if he's good enough of a friend i would talk to him about it. At least he's banging a chick while it's going on. unless he has his own and does it every day, i wouldn't say that kind of thing would hinder any type of friendship tho.

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Originally Posted by Inferius

Maybe she shouldn't have been blabbing that shit in the first place.
But I suppose everyone grows up eventually.
By the way, What's Hell like this time of year? :p

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right on inferius:thumbsup: I totally agree!

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Originally Posted by FeastonThisSHITT

First of all there is a big diference between your race and your sexual actions. The diference is choice. People do not choose to be what race they are, they DO choose their sexual actions. I don't like it when people try to group race with sexual preferance. A Homophobe is not the same as a racist by any means. (I know you never claimed this, I just threw it out there sense we are talking along these lines.)


The reason people have a problem with the idea of a man getting a dildo shoved up his ass is because it SIMULATES a gay sexual encounter with a cock. Some people are disgusted by the idea of male on male sexual activity. I for one, am one of these people. I grew up very liberaly, never was there a cultural boundry put on bi/homosexuality in my life.

I knew I didn't like male on male when I saw it on TV for the first time. I felt literaly sick to my stomache when I saw it. I was uncomfortable and I knew that this type of thing is not only not my cup of tea, but I was actualy quite angered by it.

Like I said, I have no cultural biases. I wasn't around people calling each other fags, my parents were not religious, I am not religious. I just think a male getting a dick, or anything shaped like one, up his ass is fucking gross and wrong.

You can tell me all you want not to rag on people for being who they are, but before you do, I ask you to think about what you are going say. You are about to rag on someone for being who they are ( I dont like gays, thats part of who I am) If you rag on me for that, than you are being a hypocrite in every sense of the word

I say rag on who you want to. If you get offended because people find your sexual preferences to be disgusting and offensive, than good.... you cancel each other out..,. you offend one another... leave it at that.

Stop trying to convert people to the liberal bullshit kids are growing up on tese days.

If your ok with fags and bis... be ok with them... dont try to change other people who aren't ok with them, or explain to them why they are wrong for having their own view on the matter. No matter how negative it may be

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I wouldn't rag on you for your opinion, I learned a long time ago you usually can't change people. However, to think less of someone for something that doesn't affect you in any way is wrong in my opinion. If I found out a close friend of mine slaughtered cats in his backyard I may be put off a little bit but that's none of my business. I think you missed the point of my post, it had nothing to do with gay or straight, it had to do with thinking less of someone for stupid shit.

I wouldn't want someone screaming fag the same way I wouldn't want someone screaming homophobe. Both are prejudiced. However, to think less of someone for something like that just seems entirely stupid to me.

Liberal bullshit that kids are growing up on these days? Well I guess you're a hypocrite too then, aren't you? Then again, we're all big hypocrites.:thumbsup:

Oh, and even though it may seem gay to have a guy's asshole penetrated, keep in mind it's a girl doing it. If he was gay, he'd be having sex with guys. To me, that's like saying that because girls and guys kiss, if two guys kiss they must be straight.


As for kenn, I think you see my point, even if it wasn't me who put the idea into your head. You seem like a good guy, just don't mess up a friendship over something as stupid as this.