Enough!!! We're ALL attractive in some way, what's yours?

if you want to see boobs, go find em yourself. they arent like sacred jewels. you can find anything on the internet.

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Originally Posted by vileoxidation

You may be right that having an education and a good job does not mean that someone is attractive. However, it usually means that the person is dedicated, a hard-worker, and perseverent. These are qualities that are attractive to most people, and thus the label attached to people with higher education and a good job.

I am in college, and I am going to be very successful. However, my boyfriend is 25 and has just been working since high school, and was actually out of work completely for three years. I don't care that he isn't in college, so you are right that women do find men who don't have fancy diplomas attractive. He is back on track and is going to vocational school soon, but even if he never did that I would still love him.

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That is very refreshing to hear. I wish you both luck.

Men do not care one iota about a female partners' diploma and income. Those are the first things that many single upwardly-mobile women look at when determining a man's desirability. I could understand a woman not wanting a guy that's dependant, chronically unemployed and not looking for work, etc., but there aren't enough single, "intelligent" (whatever that means) professional types to go around for all of the women with unreasonable, impossible-to-meet standards. They say that they won't become a man's property, but in reality they want to sell themselves to the highest bidder - and the irony is that many will fail to even get any bids at all.

Often, the problems are that they are either nasty, or are unaware of, or unwilling to learn, how to be attractive to the opposite sex. Sometimes, it's several of those factors.

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Originally Posted by halfassedjediknight

if you want to see boobs, go find em yourself. they arent like sacred jewels. you can find anything on the internet.

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i know... chill out... i was only teasing her :p

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Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat

That is very refreshing to hear. I wish you both luck.

Men do not care one iota about a female partners' diploma and income. Those are the first things that many single upwardly-mobile women look at when determining a man's desirability. I could understand a woman not wanting a guy that's dependant, chronically unemployed and not looking for work, etc., but there aren't enough single, "intelligent" (whatever that means) professional types to go around for all of the women with unreasonable, impossible-to-meet standards. They say that they won't become a man's property, but in reality they want to sell themselves to the highest bidder - and the irony is that many will fail to even get any bids at all.

Often, the problem is that they are either nasty, or are unaware of, or unwilling to learn, how to be attractive to the opposite sex.

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men dont care about their partners diploma?

i couldnt be any prouder of my girlfriend for going to school for 6 years and having a psychology degree. i resent that.

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Originally Posted by halfassedjediknight

men dont care about their partners diploma?

i couldnt be any prouder of my girlfriend for going to school for 6 years and having a psychology degree. i resent that.

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That is not what I meant. It's irrelevant to the relationship. Would it have affeted you if she had NOT done the schooling?

My wife went to night school, after work, for many years to get her college diploma -and I am very proud. Would I still want her if she hadn't? You better believe it!

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Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat

That is not what I meant. It's irrelevant to the relationship

My wife went to night school, after work, for many years to get her diploma -and I am very proud. Would I still want her if she hadn't? You better believe it!

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oh if thats not what you meant then you got me stumped. haha! excuse me. didnt mean to sound rude.

are you going with the love is unconditional thing? if so then i get what you mean now.

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Originally Posted by halfassedjediknight

oh if thats not what you meant then you got me stumped. haha! excuse me. didnt mean to sound rude.

are you going with the love is unconditional thing? if so then i get what you mean now.

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Yes.

It also helps to have similar views, get along, etc. If your interest is music, and hers is physics, that should make no difference.

When you have the unconditional type of love, it's forever.

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Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat

That is very refreshing to hear. I wish you both luck.

Men do not care one iota about a female partners' diploma and income. Those are the first things that many single upwardly-mobile women look at when determining a man's desirability. I could understand a woman not wanting a guy that's dependant, chronically unemployed and not looking for work, etc., but there aren't enough single, "intelligent" (whatever that means) professional types to go around for all of the women with unreasonable, impossible-to-meet standards. They say that they won't become a man's property, but in reality they want to sell themselves to the highest bidder - and the irony is that many will fail to even get any bids at all.

Often, the problems are that they are either nasty, or are unaware of, or unwilling to learn, how to be attractive to the opposite sex. Sometimes, it's several of those factors.

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I do agree with you here. There are many awful, catty, horrible women out there who truly do only want a partner that can match and possibly exceed their salary.

I know quite a few men, however, who are the same way. Maybe this is due to the circles I travel in, but a lot of the men I am aquainted with require a woman to be college-educated and able to pull in a pretty hefty salary, even if she won't end up working when they have a family.

Again, maybe this is not common among men, but in my experience there are many people in both genders who consider fancy diplomas a requirement for attractiveness.

i'm sexy becuase i grow the best damn pot my town has ever tasted and thats not my opion. i'll literly give a stranger the shirt off my back if they need it or give homeless people money for food i donate time at homeless shelters as well have given countless thousands to normal it's only money folks can't take it with you once you have everything you need any more is just a waste with all the people in the world who have so little

hmmmm ok... i would saaaaaaaaay i'm passionate, reasonably intelligent (but not all the time :p), funny and i'm full of love :D...

theres a girl who keeps telling me i'm amazing, but then she says that to everyone she knows so i dont think it really counts lol. :rolleyes:

I love LoVE :hippy: