Hang in there buddy!!:(
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Hang in there buddy!!:(
Very very very true, hang in there dude :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Billionfold
Situations like these, at that age, really make you look at things. Life in general.....why???? Alot of questions you never had before.Quote:
Originally Posted by Billionfold
When I was 15 I had my closest cousin takin away by a drunk driver......these are the life experiences that turn kids into young adults.
DAMN.....thinkin' of ya bro!!!
Sorry for your loss....
You r bout to go through some seriously fucked up emotional shit.MMy father died of brain tumor when I was 11.Make sure to talk about it get some closure accept that it is real & he is dead.Not trying to be an asshole just wish someone would of been more straight up with me bro.Remember all the time you had & cherish his memory forever in your heart.
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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou
dude I talk to him on AIM al the time and he's not bull shitting. wtf dude give him the benifit of the doubt.
haze man, I'm sorry for you. I cant even immagine how it must be to lose someone so close.
well i just returned from the funeral and service
i spoke at the service.ill post what i said later... he had a full military service with an honor guard and all... it was all i could do to keep from breaking down... they folded the flag and handed it to my mother... shot the 21 gun salute... and lastly... they blew taps. it killed me but at least he is at peace now. im gonna miss that dude... he was the greatest guy i ever knew
Haha da haze is matt tooQuote:
Originally Posted by Billionfold
bro, i know its hard. ive lost sooo many ppl that i loved. it sucks i know, just be strong. and think there in a better place now, watching over u.
ill be blazing today for u and your dad
peace bro
later
Yeah matt keep ya head up, you still have the memories with him no one can take that away.
Theres nothing to really say that can make the situation any better apart from just to stay strong :thumbsup:.
And if people think your lying for posting your personal shit on the internet then just ignore them.
All the good members or cannabis.com are here if you need someone to talk to :thumbsup:
Stay strong.
hey u guys, lets not say peoples names on here, i remember haze saying he didnt appreciate it so lets just respect that mmmm k? we will always b here for ya haze....xxx
Oh shit i didnt know that, sorry man!
It's really tough doing this. When I heard taps, and saw the silouette of the trumpet player in the distance, I broke down, I squeezed my mother's hand, and said that I loved her. It's never gonna be the same.
Fuck all the people that doubt us. Go fuck yourselves.
Taps always get to me at funerals too. Nothing but best wishes to you and the family right now!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by JayW
Im really sorry to hear about this da haze meister. My best friends dad died of cancer 4 years ago so i know how hard this can be on you. Ill keep you in my prayers dude. I really dont know what i can say except that we are all here for you here at cannabis.com .
Haze and Jay, have y'all had a house fulll of company these last few days or today? I don't know how traditional your mom or your synagogue is, but do people still sit shiva routinely? Just wondering if there've been lots of folks around to distract you.
My family's not Jewish, but there were lots of visitors and food-deliverers after both my grandmother and my uncle died, and I remember that it was sort of helpful because it was distracting and at the same time it was irritating, too. You can only be hugged and comforted by so many great-aunts, distant relatives and total strangers before you start to become nauseated.
You are Hazes brother honey?Quote:
Originally Posted by JayW
I send you my condolences on the loss of your father. I really am so sorry.
I haven't read the entire thread but I would never believe that your brother would make something like this up. This isn't something anyone would do.
Losing a parent at such a young age is the hardest thing ever. It's a club nobody really wants to belong to. I myself, belong to that club and I know the hurt and pain you are feeling right now. I am so sorry Jay. :(
When people say "stay strong" they mean well, but being strong isn't the best way to be. Your world has turned upside down and the best suggestion I can give for the moment is to be with people you can talk to and be yourself with. Maybe even a counselor, where you can open up and not worry about how they feel because what they feel is empathy for you and they'll try to help you thru certain humps that are going to come up in the near future.....and beyond.
I wore you shoes many years ago and I open the same invitation to you as I did your brother. If you ever want to talk or need help, Just let me know and I'll be there for you.
(((((many hugs))))))
Tootsie
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Originally Posted by birdgirl73
Hi birdgirl!
I'm not them of course but yes, right now the family is sitting shiva. The night before a rabbi stayed with their daddy thru the night and did the Kaddish etc.
Shivas are typically teary with lot's of eating and remembering and the kids and the cousins going off together to get away from the adults.
I feel just horrible for these 2 sweet boys bird. It's a damn shame. :(
i never douted u were on ur trip...Quote:
Originally Posted by da haze meister
i just douted some of the things u said...
u made up 4 that...
u dont look like a retard...
u look like a happy young man...
havein a great time with he his dad...
id b scared shitless 2 do what u did...(rafting)
what a great memory...
~some sites~
http://www.selfhealingexpressions.co...rs_death.shtml
http://www.beliefnet.com/story/28/story_2862_1.html
A good book http://www.centerforloss.com/catalog...hichProduct=49
real good online read
http://www.hospicenet.org/html/teenager.html
For mom
http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/pos...alk/death.html
http://www.tpronline.org/articles.cf...D=131&pageNo=3
http://www.pages.drexel.edu/~eq23/info684/parent.html
ZZ
It is a shame, isn't it, Tootsie. Thanks for explaining a bit more about shiva. I would have tried to grab the Jewish Book of Why and read more about it, but I can't find my glasses!
My heart goes out to these boys, too. I can't imagine losing my dad now, much less at such tender ages as Haze and Jay.
damn after comming back on here after 4 months of leave and to find this? Haze i feel for you man, I know and i'm sure many other people here knows what it feels like to loose someone very close to you whom you loved ever so much.
I smoke this bowl to you and your dad's honour
God Bless your souls
Where was your god when my life was going down the drain
Late at night didn't you hear me calling out his name
Or was it meant for me to be a black sheep when all I wanted to be was happy
Now how hard could that be
For mama's pride and joy
Its times like these that show you who you really are and what you are made of. Learn from them..
Keep steady strong haze
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Originally Posted by birdgirl73
I can lend you my reading glasses. Finally broke down and just bought a 3 pak. Now I can always find at least one pair. oy.
Their lives have already changed and the few months (not to mention the next few years) are now literally going to be "dehaze" I say that because, as a member of that club, that is what I experienced as did my brother.
All I can say is everything changes. It just does. And sometimes, it's hard, if not impossible to "march forward".
It's going to take time....lot's of time to start to adjust.
Oy, my heart does break for them.
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damn... lots of replies
thanks everyone...
yes, we are sitting shiva, and i am wearing a black ribbon
and aviator sunglasses
this death was the worst thing that ever happened in my life but at least ill grow to be a stronger, kinder man from it
plus i am getting close to people i had some problems with
like my sister cassie... im gonna drive out to chicago after i get my license and see her
and my friend hillary... we are so close now... i was over her house for like 4 hours today just talking and watching her fashion show... and she lived her whole life in family turmoil and without a father... and it was comforting to both of us to talk...
plus, me and my mother are going to discuss the whole weed thing after shiva is over... and we are gonna golf... and buy some more guns... and all of that. she was the most hurt in this. losing the love of your life is never fun. no teenager should ever have to bury their father.
thanks for the kind words everyone
I guess wut is worse than loosing yur Dad to death is losing him cause he just left and did not care about his offspring... My ex's Mom died and her Dad disowned the family years before... My ex's Stepdad was a creep and that was all she had after her Mom died... She did things to herself that ultimately was a cry for her only parent to care... Also gotta add that she wus molested and had very little self respect,that is the underlyng cause of our breakup...
You guys had a Dad who wus there,memories live on,be thankful there are good ones!!!
May your Dad rest in peace,and may you and yur family find peace...
You and your family will find peace of mind soon haze, it just needs time
A prayer from a previous post yesterday:
Lord Jesus I thank you for these folks here. Be with those here, who have and are facing the death of ~ loved ones ~ . Holy Spirit, I ask that you would fill these homes involved. God...and for those suffering a hell here, that none of us know about. Jesus .....calm the storm. Send them friends of God. Thank you for forgiveness, mercy, and grace. I know also ..you are pleased to be here. ...da haze meisterer, and birdgirl.....God I can't imagine.
Haze xQuote:
Originally Posted by da haze meister
...you sound like you have a lot of love in your family. I'm so sad for
your huge loss:( but I know you'll find the strength to get through this.
There's nothing anyone can say to make it better, you just have to feel
the pain...there's no escaping it. But it won't always be this way.
My thoughts are with you and all belonging to you.
Much love x
Lulu
sorry to hear about your loss haze and by what u said sounds like he got the sending off he deserved just hang in there n remember the good times
peace
smokey
man thanks alot guys for the replies
i walked in after getting back from a friends house
and the vice principal was in my house lol
scared the shit outta me
he was in my room like whats that smell lol
but he was such a cool dude...
my dad loved him man
i miss dad but im getting better
listening to jack johnson
Get outta here--really? So the vice principal from your school came by just to see you guys and check on y'all? That was very nice of him. It sounds like there are a whole lotta people--here and in your city and inner circle--who care about your family a lot. That's great.
You sound like you're having a good day today, Haze. Hope Jay's doing the same.
yesh im doin good todayQuote:
Originally Posted by birdgirl73
pops is lookin down on me
hi dad whats up
Fast Times at Ridgemont High...................Quote:
Originally Posted by da haze meister
Asst prince
See Haze the way i see it there is our time and your time............
You have wasted to much of our time.
Now im here to make up some of our time..........
Haze.......
Now way.....man
LOL
Haze, I m so glad you are listening to Mr. Johnson. Everyone need a little direction.........(the smart ones use it)
Yes he is.......... and by the sounds of it you are making him proud.Quote:
Originally Posted by Haze
Haze....... watch the 6th sense...... make her proud? everyday.
Take care
B30
rofl yer stoned as shitQuote:
Originally Posted by Bong30
Haze... you nailed it i got a new glass bong on the hill in boulder.... a QP to boot sweeeeetttttttttttQuote:
Originally Posted by da haze meister
really dude im so upset to hear that man.....we havent really talked much on here but still man...im a cool chill person to talk to if you need someone to talk to man...stay tough...but dont try to be the one that doesnt cry....express yourself ...let everything out..no reason to hold it in........stay strong man.....this community are all here for you too...
thanks yo
That's very sweet that the VP came by. Most assuredly he will advise your teachers of this tragedy and watch out for you. I don't know if you checked out any of the links I provided but they'll be on this thread any time you need them.Quote:
Originally Posted by da haze meister
My heart goes out to you and your family.
Shalom.
you a jew too?Quote:
Originally Posted by tootsie roll
yaaay
thanks for all the kind words
may God bless you and keep you
shits fucked up in the hood