Picking up girls.

just say whats your name the say ohh him *random name here* want to fuck?


you dont realy need to know there names... thats how you get suckered into love... and love sucks

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Originally Posted by higher4hockey

talking to girls is the eastiest thing in the world mate!!!

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I know many people who would disagree. Myself included. But in regards to my current situation. I found out the girl I like is being nominated for Homecoming queen. Later that day, one of her friends told me and I quote "Yea, ____ really likes you. Ya'll should go out. Tee Hee Hee!" This kind of floored me because she and I are so different you wouldnt imagine. And any other day I would have found her and asked her to do something friday but I was having one of my mood swings and was basically felt shitty and didnt talk to anyone all day. So Now I'm pissed at myslef because she probably doesnt think I like her which I do so I'm in the process of finishing off my handle of captain morgans. And I'm starting to get buzzed which means I'll probably just stay on here and make obscene posts. No point to that last post. Just needed to vent.

^ok so picking my nose might be easier.... but the bottom line is , with practice its gets pretty simple. i talk to a lot of girls, and not in the 'i'm trying to pick them up' way. but just talk to random girls at the store or the bar or anywhere....just talk to them! practice makes perfect

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Originally Posted by duncan87

when shes not there, break her locker a little, im a way that only you can fix it...so when your both at your lockers and she cant open her's, un-break it for her...then just start a convo like oh yeah that happens to mine all the time, these lockers suck, or whatever

good luck you fuckin emo-lover!

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That is so elaborate, when you could just ask her to borrow a pencil or something.

But points for the sneaky.

Best advice on here was actually to squeeze a wink into the conversation! I think that is the cutest thing ever - it's very manipulative, too, by the way.

I wouldn't start out by asking if she smokes. I tend to think that relationships shouldn't be built on the common interest of drugs. It's like marrying an alcoholic because you're an alcoholic, too.

But if you find out down the road apiece that she smokes, then yes the very first thing I would do is share. That's only polite among friends.

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Originally Posted by 3rdEyeVision

O yeah one more question, everyone always says "have self-confidence" but they never really say any more than that....how do I show that Im confident??

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Confidence is a state of mind. When you're confident other people will know you're confident, too. People latch onto confidence. Look at all the world's great influential people. They're leaders and their most noticeable trait was their self-affirmation. Doubt, worry, and anxiety are all combatants against your own self-assurance. Talking to new people is always a challenge, especially when you worry about what you all should discuss. With a little bit of confidence, you'll notice that the worry is no longer there. You can pick fun at yourself and whoever you're talking. Subject matter becomes unimportant, instead you listen to their words, tone, gestures, etc. An individual can share so much more than you can pick up on from what they say. Our language is nothing more than symbols. Discovering what someone means is far less important than knowing how someone feels. When you know how they feel, you can interject with a similar rebuttle conveying the shared feeling; empathy. Then you can work on unveiling an individual's meaning. But don't worry too much about that, a person's reasons or motives often go unnoticed by especially themselves.

That's my two cents.

TheSmokingMonkey; Best advice on here was actually to squeeze a wink into the conversation! I think that is the cutest thing ever - it's very manipulative, too, by the way.

manipulative? explain that one to me!

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Originally Posted by cambam

Happy, out-going, smiley, pleasent to be around, don't stutter, no saying 'I don't know' no cockiness, not loud and not quiet, well spoken, calm body language, relaxed.

They do ya?

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And still you can be confident when you're not doing these things...although calm and assertive are the most appealing traits to girls.

whoa thanks for all the help/tips guys....I didn't think this many people would respond.



and for the guy up there ^ somewhere shes not full blown emo lol, thats just the only way I could describe her personality....a bit emo

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Originally Posted by Anathema2121

If you're packing more than 10 inches just pull it out and show it to her.

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Ahhh...now I know where I've been going wrong!
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