Originally Posted by WhiskeyGirl
Very much so accepts him, he remembers his biological dad and what he was like and he was 9!!!! his real dad would do donuts with my kids in the car when he had them on weekends, not give them baths and sulk cause we werent together , very unstable man, like i said before he is illerate was on ssi and still is and y? because he was in special classes in HS, but he is fully able to work!!! so there ya have it yes, he ( my hubby ) has been saving money for my son for the 4 yrs my son had been working , in that time my son has saved alot of $$$$$$$$$ and has bought what he wanted also, he wants to get a newer computer , so we will probably talk to him and maybe say we will purchase the computer , with a credit card and he will pay us back , my son is a good worker been working at the same place since he was 14, he will be 18 next month, not the greatest money,, but its close to home and he does not pay rent at this time , i buy his groceries and clothes, but if there is clothing that he wants that is expensive , he buys it!! LOL
He even asked his step father if he could camp out back , we have alot of land and a make shift fire place, so him and a couple kids from the neighbor hood pitched a tent no harm, but me , being the worrier that i am said , i dunno, i thought they would be up all night and i wouldnt sleep- but they werent.my hubby is on third shift, i am on workman's comp right now. And as far as who is living with who, when i met him 8 yrs ago , we had both left our spouses, met on here after 5 months of talking , which was cool when we finally met cause i felt like i knew him, in the mean time we lived with our mom's. then we got an apt together. then about 4 yrs ago we built a house. four car garage with 2 acres. and we work together money wise, it works out great. its funny cause when we first moved in together yrs ago , my son was like i wanna move back in with my dad ,the next day he changed his mind--- realizing his dad has NOTHING, dosent work and is probably in a 2 room section 8 house , i dunno ,he was told to have no contact with the kids, because of his prior actions. But if he really wanted to see them , he has my address, he could have contacted his "FREE" LAWYER and demanded to see them, cause this took place right after we split up. must be nice to just forget you have kids. and here my husband, who never had kids of his own , is raising them with me and loves it!! I feel like he is a big kid too, he is the best thing that ever happened to me n my kids.
sorry so long guys :)
peace
WG:thumbsup: