Parents spazzin on me...

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Originally Posted by FakeBoobsRule

As far as them shoving religion down your throat you will soon learn that in life the only person's actions you control is yours. So you can tell her how you feel or move out. I'm not saying her forcing her beliefs on you is the right thing. Remember 2 wrongs don't make a right so showing her disrespect because you feel she is disrespecting you doesn't make it right.

Now here are some interesting quotes about money and living on your own.







You don't want to live with your parents anymore and you are trying hard to move out but money is needed to do this. What you are saying and how you feel aren't congruent at all. Look at the first post of yours I quoted. A job, money, living arrangements, your happiness, they are ALL related. It isn't that much different than most people even though you don't see it. So get a job, save some money, move out, and you and your parents will be happier and probably get along much better.

Good luck. :thumbsup:

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Thank you for posting something constructive and helpful. I appreciate everyones help in this matter.

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Originally Posted by Reefer Rogue

No one can 'force' you to go to church. However, Jah will always be there for you one day if you choose to go. I believe instead of blaming God for your struggles, you should think about creation, how you came to be, embrace existence while you can

Their bars could not hold me
Force could not control me
They tried to keep me down
But Jah put I around

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I don't mean to be an ass....But I have more important things to be doing than worrying about my spirituality and soul and how I got here. Right now...that stuff is the last thing on my list of worries...slightly below why poopie is brown. :rolleyes:
I embrace existence...I just don't care to know or bother who and why I am here.

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Originally Posted by stinkyattic

Sounds shaky. Sounds harebrained. Sounds like an eviction if you don't both get jobs... Job FIRST, then apartment.

Until then, your parents take care of you. Respect them.

You may be 18 but I don't hear the voice of maturity here.

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You misread my text. Or I did not type it clearly enough. I meant that we both will have the jobs first. We are not going to get a place without first being able to support it.

hahah voice of maturity........ If I ever sound like that shoot me I value the knowlege of the young they usualy have not been corrupted yet

250 a week for construction, im going to guess that your a layborer. how many hours a week do you work?

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Originally Posted by Foskers

I don't mean to be an ass....But I have more important things to be doing than worrying about my spirituality and soul and how I got here. Right now...that stuff is the last thing on my list of worries...slightly below why poopie is brown. :rolleyes:
I embrace existence...I just don't care to know or bother who and why I am here.

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Like i said, no one can force you to go to church or believe in God.

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Originally Posted by opticaldata

250 a week for construction, im going to guess that your a layborer. how many hours a week do you work?

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I used to work 40...but I told my boss just not to worry about it anymore. He kept laying me off...so i told him to fuck it I would find somewhere else that would give me hours. I already found someone else..

Respect Authority be it your parents/boss. Kiss ass, lots of it. You really do have a lot to learn and I hope things get better.

KISS ASS. Kiss it and say it tastes like chocolate. I mean it goes a long way and it is harder for some people then others but it will be rewarding and will bring you a step closer to where you wanna be. Your BEST(probably not what you want) choice is to get a GED and join the navy. They will train you and pay you.

The above probably isn't what you want to hear but I think most every one else got it correct I just wanted to reinforce some things.

Someday, google "Jesus cannabis". Give the results to your Mom. It might be fun! (I'm being wicked today!)- Granny:hippy:

hahaha... dude ive sooo been there with the religion bullshit... i had to go to sunday school till i got confirmed (end of the line as far as sunday school goes, i was 16) after that i tried refusing to go to chruch but that just ended up being a big, but sometimes i got my way... i ended up not going anymore once i got a job at a warehouse and had to work every sunday (my way of getting out of it. i figured id rather make $$$ than waste my time sitting somewhere where i dont give 2 shits about what there doing bored outta my mind).

Basically your parents are just trying to do what they think is right for you. i didnt really see that then but now that im moved out i see it now. you just gotta ride out the religion crap... as shitty as it sounds.if you can get a valid excuse why you dont have to go thats the key. other than that theres not much point in arguing, you always lose even when you win... haha trust me they just get pissed off at you even more later.

sound like your going through a rough time with your parents on top of that as well. i know what its like and it sucks. some advice dont bother arguing, just make your point and leave it at that, cause theres really not much you can do about it, just lay low for a bit this the situation cools off a bit.

completely know where your coming from tho... trust me lol!