I'm sick of the bullshit.

i used to think like gandalf, and it got me no where and with no pussy and fast. lol i met this girl that lived close to my cuz and i fell in love with here. and i was 12 and i did everything i could think of to get her attention. and she would'nt even respond. i mean i didn't do crazy shit or nothin but i'd write her love letters and slip them into her locker.. and mail her cards and stuff like
that.

and she hung out with people like me not like she was some great thing but she was to me. and i kept that up ti'll i was 20. i never dated anyone and yes i was a virgin. and never had a girl friend i mean i had girls askin me out alot of them. cause i did hang around sum fine girls but i was (in my mind anyways lol)saving myself for this girl.

so when i was around 16 i had saved my money and my dad and i went to colorado and i bought sum land up in the mountains. and was gonna stay there but i fucked up and moved back to where i was cause i thought i'd have a chance with her. and when i got back she was with this loser of a guy. and she looked rough lmao and i was like fuck i wasted my whole life waiting on this girl for nothing....then i went out and found sum pussy....it was good...i like...lmao

I just wanna say, most of you girls are alike. You all go for the total low life asshole guys, but the good guys, the ones who will treat you right are usually sitting there with you listening to you vent about this type of shit in real life, listening to everything you say. Look around.

Not all guys are like that obviously, but that sucks. You'll find the right guy soon enough, just keep looking.

Another problem is I keep giving the same ones chance after chance... I'm a sucker for a sweettalker/asshole.

You should just ignore them completely after you break up with them, with time you'll forget all about them, especially if they're huge assholes which is what it sounds like.

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Originally Posted by baisez le monde.

Another problem is I keep giving the same ones chance after chance... I'm a sucker for a sweettalker/asshole.

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A man who treats you nicely, while also being an asshole? That's me alright. Some of that stuff is funny though, and just all in good humor. You should have known what you were getting into with me. Perhaps I am a typical guy? I could accept that, because only when I do so can I begin to learn and grow from it. Not only do I want another chance, Kayla, but I need another chance. I'm throwing myself at you and all you do is doubt me. Let me show you that I can love unconditionally. The weather wont always be sunshine, but at least we can be for eachother's sake.

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Originally Posted by baisez le monde.

Another problem is I keep giving the same ones chance after chance... I'm a sucker for a sweettalker/asshole.

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It's me she's talking about! Someone around here is bound to know of a few good qualities I possess, along with a few unwelcome ones that I don't.

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Originally Posted by Justinrg

Glad it works for you, just wait until you realize your with her for the rest of your life, or what if your not sexually compatible? Props on it working for you but for about 95% of males it doesn't. Call it shallow, childish, and living in high school but it is embedded in the male brain to reproduce and have many sexual partners for the growth of the species. Learn human nature buddy.

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I dont really know how old you are, but I would guess youre still in High School. If youre gonna be so bold as to speak for 95% of the male population, go ahead and add some references to back your statistical data up.

Learn human nature? From what Ive gathered of Gandalf after reading many of his posts, he has quite the dynamic and intuitive grasp on the nature of the human being.. its habits, thought processes, and psychological traits. While you on the other hand seem to think that 95% of the male population on this planet think exactly like you.

Now who needs to learn what?

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Originally Posted by Ganj

It's me she's talking about! Someone around here is bound to know of a few good qualities I possess, along with a few unwelcome ones that I don't.

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I know you want to be built like a ninja lol :p but nah from what Ive read of your posts and all, I think youre a good dude. All men can be assholes, in the same way that all women have quite the ability to be a bitch from time to time (or more often, depending..).

That being said, I really dont know much at all about the relationship, but I dont think you fall into the asshole/jock/mindless POS category at all.

girl ALL u need is a fuck buddy, a good dog and a fat bag o weed. has worked for me for years.