and that is why you will be alone.........lol. See what you don't want to be? Kudos for caring!Quote:
Originally Posted by Gatekeeper777
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and that is why you will be alone.........lol. See what you don't want to be? Kudos for caring!Quote:
Originally Posted by Gatekeeper777
Usually when they see my large cock they run.
they dont stick around for an orgasm.
Just looking back at this didn't realize somone replied to my post, I would like to clarify something. I am a GUY! and getting your girl worked up first and then poking her usually does the trick. Guys can also give girls felatio, just don't want anybody thinking Im on the wrong team. lol :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Polymirize
I have never been interested, or even able, to perform fellatio on any of the girls I have slept with. Thankfully. If the opportunity ever presented itself I'd probably be horrified. That would be some serious Crying Game action. I'd be in therapy for years working that out...Quote:
Originally Posted by OpJ
Again, not that I'm judging anyone... Just, not for me. Whoa.
Anyway, I suggest you consult a dictionary. Or failing that, stick to broader terms like "oral" that don't carry a specific sexual connotation...
i've never had an issue with a female not reaching orgasm its usually pretty easy to tell by the uncontrollable (attempted to be held in) moans accompanied by secretion of this stinky white fluid that looks like old milk on black sheets and shorts(and always check dont go to school wearing the same shorts) sometimes u can feel it forcefully come out but usually it just drains slowly
my advice is just do the best you can (unlike me I TAKE TOO FUCKING LONG:mad: which is not always a good thing)
I can't even imagine how to respond to this. WTF dude!Quote:
Originally Posted by SuperTorch
I love pussy man, don't knock it before you try it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Polymirize
Not to mention, afterwards, it's your turn... unless your being nice, like a treat, which I like to do as well.
Sex goes both ways IMO.
Peace, :rastasmoke:
I use to be all about myself and what I wanted in sex, I'm just looking for a new angle that might make me more at ease, the more I'd be all about what I wanted he more ladies know exactly that your are like that, so I was looking to change at a core level and see what I'd learn if I really really put her first. NOW CAN THIS THREAD DIE, Looking back over it I say some pretty dumb shit even though my intentions where/are good.
I don't think I'd argue with anything you're saying. There must be some kind of misunderstanding. Based upon the way your post is structured, I take it you're saying that you really enjoy performing fellatio, and do it quite often, huh?Quote:
Originally Posted by Canadien.
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Originally Posted by Polymirize
you guys are a little mixed up......
Techniques
Fellatio
Fellatio describes the oral stimulation of the penis. A common technique of fellatio is to take the glans of the erect penis in the mouth while rhythmically caressing the rest of the penis with the hands; the testes and the shaft of the penis can also be licked with the tongue. Suction is often used to increase the pressure and friction exerted on the penis. As the performance of fellatio progresses, the receiver may contribute pre-ejaculatory fluid to the saliva of the giver, resulting in a more lubricated penis and enhanced erotic experience. This fluid is produced by the Cowper's glands and is not semen, although it may contain traces of sperm.
Depending on the preference of the participants, this stimulation may produce an orgasm and ejaculation of semen, or may just be used as a precursor to sexual intercourse (see foreplay). If the semen is accepted into the mouth it may or may not be swallowed (hence the slang phrase, spit or swallow). Alternatively, providers of fellatio averse to receiving semen in their mouth can shift stimulation from mouth to hand once the male's orgasm is imminent. An infrequent side effect of ejaculating into the mouth is that the semen may be gagged upon.
While the use of the mouth to stimulate the penis, especially the glans, is a central feature of fellatio, often the partner simultaneously stimulates the shaft of the penis with his/her hand to provide the man with the feeling of the penis being enclosed. Some authorities (such as Franklin, The Ultimate Kiss, p. 62) recommend this as the preferred and most satisfying method of providing oral sex to a man. Another technique is to have the penis head go in and out of the mouth very quickly (without going down to the shaft). Also, some men find it another extra pleasure if the giver runs the tips of his/her fingernails on his erect shaft at the same time they are using their mouth, they say it offers a "tickling sensation."
Some males regard receiving oral sex as an ego boost, believing that such an act is a form of dominance over their sexual partner.[4]
One form of fellatio is known as deep throating, after the 1972 pornographic film Deep Throat. This technique involves repressing the gag reflex and taking the entire erect penis in the mouth, the shaft bending slightly to allow the head of the penis to slide partially down the throat of the fellator. A deep throat session may even go 'balls-deep', a colloquial expression denoting that the provider of fellatio has fit the entire penis in their mouth, with deeper engorgement prevented only by the girth of the testicles.
The common slang term blow-job technically is a misnomer, as true "blowing"; i.e., the expelling of air through the mouth, is not used in fellatio as it would not be pleasurable . It is most commonly thought to reflect an intentional conflation of "suck" and "blow," technically antonyms but but both equally suitable as vulgar terms describing oral sexual activity. Further, the act of giving a blow-job is generally not properly defined as "sucking"; rather, the mouth is tensely moved up and down the penis's shaft, with the giver neither sucking nor blowing. At times, the giver may in fact use a sucking motion on the head of the penis, but this is generally not the sole form of fellatio. Some have postulated that the term is a corruption of "below-job", allegedly an old Victorian slang term that was commonly used to describe the act. However, there is a third school of thought that believes the word "blow" in "blow-job" indicates the climax of the penis (compare to blowing of a volcano). It is further argued that the phrase "blow-job" originated in the 1940's;[5] at the time, it was also used by Allied pilots as a slang term for jet aircraft.[6]
Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth and tongue to stimulate the female genitals, especially the clitoris. The term comes from an alternative Latin word for the vulva (cunnus) and from the Latin word for tongue (lingua). Less than one-third of women orgasm easily during the actual act of intercourse. Masturbation and cunnilingus are alternative ways for women to achieve orgasm with a partner. Most women can orgasm easily during clitoral or pubic area stimulation.[7]
As in all human sexual behaviour, the variety of techniques in cunnilingus and individual responses to them are almost endless. As always, communication, experimentation and practice are the best way to learn how to please a particular partner.
The glans of the clitoris is the most sensitive part for almost all women, but may be too sensitive to stimulate directly at times, especially in early stages of arousal, and it is often best to begin with a gentler, less focused stimulation of the labia and the whole genital area. Ron Jeremy has advised in several films that a clockwise, counterclockwise, all over the place approach is more important than focusing solely on the clitoris. Tongue tip, blade or underside can be used, as can the nose, chin, lips and teeth (with caution). Movements can be slow or fast, regular or erratic, firm or soft as the moment requires. The tongue can be inserted into the vagina, either stiffened or moving. Humming to cause vibration while performing cunnilingus is often considered to be especially arousing, with certain pitches, rhythms or tunes thought to be particularly effective by different people.[citation needed]
Cunnilingus is easily accompanied by the insertion of finger(s) or a sex toy into the vagina, which allows for the simultaneous stimulation of the g-spot, or into the anus, either of which many women find produce very intense sensations.[citation needed] Many other activities can accompany cunnilingus to enhance overall pleasure, limited only by preference, psychology and anatomy.
Cunnilingus is also sometimes referred to as "muff diving", "eating out" or "poon-job", a slang term and a cunnilingus variant of "blow-job" (see the section of Fellatio above), where "poon" is short for poontang or punani.
Additionally, in lesbian culture several common slang terms used are "giving lip," "lip service," or "tipping the velvet" (a faux-"Victorian" expression invented by novelist Sarah Waters).
Until recently not spoken of openly in Western society, cunnilingus is accorded a revered place in Chinese Taoism. This is because the aim of Taoism is to achieve immortality, or at least longevity, and the loss of semen, vaginal, and other, bodily liquids is believed to bring about a corresponding loss of vitality. However, conversely, by either semen retention or ingesting the secretions from the vagina, a male can conserve and increase his ch'i, or original vital breath. In Taoism:
The Great Medicine of the Three Mountain Peaks is to be found in the body of the woman and is composed of three juices, or essences: one from the woman's mouth, another from her breasts, and the third, the most powerful, from the Grotto of the White Tiger, which is at the Peak of the Purple Mushroom (the mons veneris).â??Octavio Paz. Conjunctions and Disjunctions. trans. Helen R. Lane. 1975. (London: Wildwood House, 1969) p. 97.
According to Philip Rawson (in Paz, p. 97), these half-poetic, half-medicinal metaphors explain the popularity of cunnilingus among the Chinese: "The practice was an excellent method of imbibing the precious feminine fluid" (Paz, p. 97). But the Taoist ideal is not just about the male being enriched by female secretions; the female also benefits from her communion with the male, a feature that has led the sinologist, Kristofer Schipper, to denounce the ancient handbooks on the "Art of the Bedroom" as embracing a "kind of glorified male vampirism", that is not truly Taoist at all.[8] Ideally, by mingling the male and female liquids, the Taoist aims to reconcile opposites and to recapture the mythical time that existed before the division of the sexes, the primordial time of the original ch'i.
The religious historian, Mircea Eliade, speaks of a similar desire to transcend old age and death, and achieve a state of nirvana, in the Hindu practice of Tantric yoga. In Tantric yoga, the same emphasis is placed on the retention and absorption of vital liquids and Sanscrit texts describe how the male semen must not be emitted if the yogin is to avoid falling under law of time and death.[9]
The effort devoted to cunnilingus is sometimes considered by women to be a rough measure of the sexual skill and disposition of the man, Many men do not give cunnilingus at all, despite the fact that the majority of women can achieve orgasm only through cunnilingus or other clitoral stimulation. Some men are known to give cunnilingus, but in a rushed and harsh way, perhaps owing to a belief that cunnilingus is an undesirable form of male submission to the female. The lack of care when giving head to a woman has been warned against in the fictional Natural Born Killers, in which Mallory Juliette Lewis shoots an auto mechanic and admonishes the corpse that it was "the worst head I've ever had. Next time don't be so eager
I hope that clears it up for you guys......LOL:)