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Also its wrong for chics to be talking about it, and no not every girl does. If they feel its OK for a guy to talk about evey nook and cranny of the girls body then girls can talk about guys too. But I bet most girls would expect or hope for privacy like guys do. But if a partner decide to goship out their ass thats just the breaks, but it not a given that girl talk is about all they do just like its not a given about guy talk that all details be offered. Sure its OK to say yea they were hot or he/she is a nymph but details should be private both ways. The truth may have been that the girl really got into puting something up his butt and he just said what ever and went with the flow as hes not a homophobe but he may not have really liked it and FAKED it like girls do. Then she told her friend HELL YEA he loved it when in reality he might have though it kinda of lame, but did it anyhow. He may say yea I let her but it was boring and lame and I didn't kill the vibe because I wanted to Fu**. Her saying he liked it may mean nothing, how many times have you heard a guy saying yea she loved it but if you were to ask her she'd say it wasn't that special. The brager is typicaly the one trying to convince others that they are skilled when infact its probably the oppisit.
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Originally Posted by FeastonThisSHITT
Why is he so wrong to be preturbed by the fact that his friend likes simulated gay sex?
I think it's wrong to tell him he is wrong for feeling the way he is. He has the right to be disturbed if he wants to be.
Hey, I hear ya, I said it was wrong of him to listen in, girl talk is private, LOL. He can feel how he wants to feel, and it is different for guys. I never said he was wrong to feel the way he feels, it was my advice not to be shallow, that's all.
And yes, to the other poster, I forgot your username, 99.9% of girls talk about their sex lives with their girl friends. Just because they tell you they don't, does not mean they don't. Sorry. But it is true, and it is just because girls talk about everything, period, especially sex,:D , that is where we learn new things to try, get advice on stuff and just talk, it is our nature. Granted there are some that might not, but I have never, ever met any that did not like to talk about their sexual experiences with eachother. ;)
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Originally Posted by Smokeychik
Ummm hello? Don't ever say anything to him, that is the WORST advice!!! OMFG! Not only is it none of your business, but you are going to totally interfere with HIS RELATAIONSHIP, he will probably dump that girl for telling. It is SOOOO not your place to mention this to him, Jesus it could rebound and affect more people than you can imagine!
But back to the issue at hand, I have to say this, no one else has that I read, and I did skim through, so sorry if this has been mentioned... that was fucked up of you to listen in on the girls. Girls talk about their sex lives, ever seen Sex in the City? Not sure, you are not in America, anyway, it is IN OUR NATURE as girls... we always talk about our sex lives, our boyrfiends, our periods, everything...this will never ever change. I think it was wrong of you to listen in when you were not suposed to be... so now you just have to suck it up, not litereally, lol, but be a man, and just forget it. Does not change who he is. Don't be shallow, some guys like that shit and they would never dream of being gay, he just likes some kink.
Technicaly, it's not anyone's business if the guy likes a dildo up his ass.
If a guy likes a dildo up his ass that is his business, not his girlfriend's friends business.
It's in a chicks nature to talk about her sexual relations with her boyfriend? Well it's human nature to kill other humans. Nature doesn't make shit anymore ok in the mind of an embarrasssed individual.
From that logic you could say, "People kill, so why are you against murder?"
Why is it not ok for the guy to listen in to a private conversation between chicks, but it is ok for chicks to talk about something private about their boyfriends to the other chicks? Doesn't make sense.
If he dumps the chick for telling it means he didn't want her to tell anybody else and she violated his privacy.
And as for your reply for my previous message. I was trying to tell you he is not necessarily shallow for looking at his friend diferently because he likes the dildo. Like I said, it is preturbing for some guys to hear that your mate likes simulated gay sex. He simply finds simulated gay sex to be disturbing. That is not being shallow whatsoever.
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Personaly, I think it's fucked up for girls to have to be so interested in their other girlfriend's boyfriend's private affairs. But that is just me.
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I must be in that .1% (so I've been told)
I would never gossip about my partner behind his back.
That's a deal breaker for me... right up there with cheating.
There's a difference between talking about sex and talking about your partners sexuality.
When you go thru relationships, marriages, ect....
And have respect for your partner...
You talk about sex with your partner.
Secrets between lovers last forever.
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your only problem is like you said you live where gay's and Bi's are seldom and look down upon. See were I live its like a mini San Fransico everyone in the city is Pro-gay and they never see a problem with it. I'm not like most folks in my city though. I dont have a problem with gays or BI's but be honest. You see your friend as a freak because you have known him for a while and you don't suspect shit like that. For me if I found out my friend shoved a dildo up his ass I would be ok with it and stuff. I would talk and hangout with him but I would really have to think about having him stay at my place for a night. You won't see your friend the same until you forget this but don't just ignore him just act the same and shit. Oh and if you feel like pulling one of those "confront and talk about it with him" shenanagins DONT!!! Your friend will hate you for even mentioning and dont try to understand what he likes about it ( don't shove something up your ass ) Just chill with him and forget about it.
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Originally Posted by RainyDayWoman
I must be in that .1% (so I've been told)
I would never gossip about my partner behind his back.
That's a deal breaker for me... right up there with cheating.
There's a difference between talking about sex and talking about your partners sexuality.
When you go thru relationships, marriages, ect....
And have respect for your partner...
You talk about sex with your partner.
Secrets between lovers last forever.
A-fucking-men.
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Originally Posted by RainyDayWoman
I must be in that .1% (so I've been told)
I would never gossip about my partner behind his back.
That's a deal breaker for me... right up there with cheating.
There's a difference between talking about sex and talking about your partners sexuality.
When you go thru relationships, marriages, ect....
And have respect for your partner...
You talk about sex with your partner.
Secrets between lovers last forever.
Thank you.
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Originally Posted by graph
Some people are black. Some people are white. Some people smoke weed, some people drink. Some people like having dildos shoved up their ass, some people think that you should judge someone differently because of something that doesn't affect them in any way.
In all reality, he's not hurting anyone, or himself or his girlfriend for that matter. Maybe the phobias in your area create a boundary where sexual taboo's can't be discussed. Male anal play is fairly common. Now, it's not my cup of tea, but if my best friend was into it, I wouldn't think of him any differently.
At the end of the day, so what? He's into something that doesn't hurt him or anyone around him, so why do you have a problem with it? In reality, you're the one with the problem, not him. Accept people for who they are, what they shove up their ass.
ahahahahha fuckin sigged
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Originally Posted by FeastonThisSHITT
Technicaly, it's not anyone's business if the guy likes a dildo up his ass.
If a guy likes a dildo up his ass that is his business, not his girlfriend's friends business.
It's in a chicks nature to talk about her sexual relations with her boyfriend? Well it's human nature to kill other humans. Nature doesn't make shit anymore ok in the mind of an embarrasssed individual.
From that logic you could say, "People kill, so why are you against murder?"
Why is it not ok for the guy to listen in to a private conversation between chicks, but it is ok for chicks to talk about something private about their boyfriends to the other chicks? Doesn't make sense.
If he dumps the chick for telling it means he didn't want her to tell anybody else and she violated his privacy.
And as for your reply for my previous message. I was trying to tell you he is not necessarily shallow for looking at his friend diferently because he likes the dildo. Like I said, it is preturbing for some guys to hear that your mate likes simulated gay sex. He simply finds simulated gay sex to be disturbing. That is not being shallow whatsoever.
Ok, I get it, I was just trying to stress a point about girls, especially younger ones. Now you are comparing GIRL TALK to MURDER, lol, I am backing out of this one, I have tried to be fair and honest in what I say, but it is obvious we have to agree to disagree on this because that comparison is WAY extreme if you ask me, good lord, girl talk and murder?? Seriously? :p
However I am mature enough to get your point, but I was just being honest. Now that I am married, I keep our bedroom private of course, and I never said that girl that was talking about her guy liking it up the ass was right, I was just making a point that IS WHAT GIRLS DO! PERIOD, hahahaha... And it is with good intentions usually, see when I was a teen, and early twenties, that is how I learned some of the fun and awesome things I still use to this day,(My husband has no comaplaints, heehee). Now of course, pratice was great, but at that young age, girls feel more comfy asking other girls for advice.
And any girl that says she has never had sexy girl talk with her friends, well, if you beleive it, great, but I know better. Take care! ;) :D :smokin:
