What would u do if u ever caught ur step mom cheating?
First of all- if you give a shit about your father then forget about blackmail... it's only going to fuck things up more.
Give whatever evidence you have to your dad.
Let him decide what to do.
DO NOT let her know whats up.
Think of this like a job. In most decent jobs if they have to let a person go (for any reason) then they fire that person and give them at least two weeks pay. They don't tell a person "ur fired bitch, be out of here in two weeks." The reason being is because that person can really fuck some shit up in two weeks time. If you let your dad know whats up, then he'll have the time he needs to prepare (cancel the credit cards, move some cash around from bank accounts... you see where i'm getting at). If she knows shit is about to go down she could really fuck shit up for you guys.
What would u do if u ever caught ur step mom cheating?
LISTEN TO ME.
There is NO black and white in this world.
First off, you need to think about things. Do you think your step-mom is a good person, do you think she was TRULY cheating? (ie it's possible she didn't even want to cheat on your dad, maybe SHE was being blackmailed... though unlikely, possible)
Do you truly know your parents' sex lives? I doubt you do. What if they're both swingers? What if your father is ok with her swinging?
Tell your father you have a friend who's girlfriend cheated on him, or that your friend caught his mom cheating on his dad, and gauge his reaction.
If your father is a typical man, with no "what if" possibilities, don't just hand him the friggin photos. Forget all about blackmail. Trust me, she's an adult, you have no idea what a fully adult female is capable of. When someone is threatened, they either run, or fight back. Your stepmom is either a manipulative evil, or a coward whore.
Or a manipulative evil whore.
Tell your father this situation is devoid of any personal feelings toward your stepmother, tell him he doesn't deserve such bs.
And afterwards... if he pretends it didn't happen... Post the pictures all over the house. When they're both home. Tell them it's a surprise, that it's art, to close their eyes and wait for it.
Let the chaos begin.
What would u do if u ever caught ur step mom cheating?
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Originally Posted by Nikita123
Dude,
You've got to let your Dad know what's up. It is the right thing to do.
I am amazed at the opportunistic and entrepreneurial advice that others have posted.
This is a BIG deal! You need to take care of your Dad and not worry about yourself . Just my opinion.
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come on....I dont think that any (most) of these ideas were serious..obviously..the only option is to be cool to your dad...tell him that she is a cheating hoochie...hoochie, i havent said that word since 98..heheee
What would u do if u ever caught ur step mom cheating?
so what the fuck ended up happening
like usual
dad is probobly having some leftovers
right now
What would u do if u ever caught ur step mom cheating?
What would u do if u ever caught ur step mom cheating?
HMM.
Im assuming your Dad has been loyal to the relationship himself.
Skip the blackmail. You dont want what becomes of that.
My Grandmother had many sayings, and to this I say to you,
"When you pursue the path of revenge, dig two graves".
Trust is built on Honesty, integrity, reliability and loyality.
This is what happens when you abuse one of those. People will get angry people will get hurt, and things can get out of control.
I would just go somewhere away from the house with my Dad and the pictures and have a quiet talk. Hopefully you know your Dad well and know how to lead the conversation instead of just throwing some photos down.
So just tell him you have some concerns, some things are bothering you and you need to talk, and do this without her knowing.
Your Dad will probably become angry right away and want to react when he sees the pictures.
Tell him it is important to just think it out for several days with a level head and not to react with anger in the moment.
If he is unwilling to forgive her or not trust her again then he needs to quietly go see an attorney.
Dragging out a big fight will solve nothing when the trust has been broken. No amount of arguing, name calling, etc will take that back .
He has to conserve his energy and use it wisely and think it out.
If he is unwilling to take her back this is the importance of meeting with an attorney before she can make financial impacts that will affect you and your Dad. This is very important.
Take care.
What would u do if u ever caught ur step mom cheating?
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Originally Posted by GetBakedOrDieTryin
Ok lets just ur step mom is 40 and is caught nailing some 25 year old employee in ur bed.... She is very strict with u, never lets u smoke pot or do drugs for that matter... And says sex b4 marriage is wrong.... U have photographic evidence that she was doing it... How would u blackmail ur step mom into doing what u want?
WTF is wrong with you?
If it were me, I would've threw the dude on the floor and beat his naked ass, tie him down, call my dad, so he could beat him too. This is your father for christ sakes. Your step-mom is meaningless, she isn't blood.
What would u do if u ever caught ur step mom cheating?
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Originally Posted by thcbongman
WTF is wrong with you?
If it were me, I would've threw the dude on the floor and beat his naked ass, tie him down, call my dad, so he could beat him too.
wow....kinky:stoned: