I really like this girl.

Well, today was very bad :( I saw her in the morning at assembaly and DAMN she looked so beautiful. Then at school lunch i was hanging out with a few guys she hangs out with that i kinda consider as "friends" the orijnal guy who was friends with her and friends with me was'nt here at school today and i asked another guy if i could hang out with him and told him why. He could'nt keep his mouth shut, and when i was with them, the girl i like walked through a door, and the first thing some fuckingprick said was "stuart fancies you" and then it kinda went silient and i was just kinda siting there like "thanks a fucking bunch" i think she got embarrsed, she had her head turned away from me, and was just staring at nothing, then she left out the door skipping a lil bit and kinda hummming in a jolly way.... i think she was just trying to forget what just happened, and walked out the door and was just out the door and was still there. Just somewhere that she could'nt be seen by me..... So i was embarssed as fuck.... she was embarssed as fuck.... and now i dont have any chance. I did'nt even get a chance to talk to her... and now i don't think i ever will.... I might block her on MSN because im to embarssed now and i defintly now i have no shot now.... And then some other guy was like "well, u never really had a chance in the first place, because shes just to fit"....

And then i saw her walking past at bus stop, she did'nt see me....

So now im very depressed and sad :(

I would of said "oh well, at least i tried"... But i never got a chance to try. Now she proberly thinks im some freak.

Crazy,

Guys do this all the time. Never fails. Especially the ones you think you can trust.

Reasoning is, "If I cant have her, he cant have her" so they ruin it for the buddy. I have had my best buds do this same thing when younger. It is embarrassing, that is their intention.

They are simply jealous/insecure and intentionally try to ruin your chances.

Trust only your dog with your intentions of the women you have an interest in.

When a buddy says "you dont have a chance because she is just too fit"

That is a comment from an insecure man.

He's trying to affect your confidence. Your confidence must be like steel.

Women love confidence in a man and men hate to see confidence in other males remember that.

Thats what causes fights by the way with men.
Men who dont have it try to lower yours instead of becoming more confident themselves.

If I was sitting next to you I would tell you, you do have a very good chance and would help you, not block you, whether I had a girl or not.

Its not over. Just hang back. Your buddies did set you back some.

She doesnt think you are a freak just knows you have interest thats all.
Dont block her MSN just yet. Just hang back for a bit and see what happens.

Take care.

well thank fully it has'nt ruined our chances of getting to know each other better, i said sorry about today on MSN, she said it was ok and was like "i thought it was a joke anyway" and i was like "i think i kinda made it obvoius it was'nt from the way i reacted" and she was like "oh ok" and we just started talking again like normal. We talked for quite a bit. Then she had to go so she put "g2g cya xxx" and another friend always tells me that you should always put the lil xxx's back cus it shows u care about her.... which i dont understand but i still do it anyway cus i just guess its polight...

But yeah, i dont think im gonna try and find her again tommorow, i might leave it tommorow, and then mybe ask her if she wants to meet up with me so we can talk without people like him making rude comments...

but yeah, it has'nt seemed to of made her turned off me, and we were talking loads of msn today... So thats good. I think she's looking for a meaningfull relationship. Not just a fling. Which i want too so mybe it will work out over time :)

i've had people say that you like her shit, numerous times in front of girls i like, sometimes its better to play it off as a joke.

anyway man good luck!

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Originally Posted by Musician

im still laughing at crazypothead "im in love" quote

hahahahahaaha

what a nerd

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Musician, do you always act like a cunt from the land of Cuntish? Fuck off and eat a fucking Cuntish Pasty.

Your pretty pathetic. dont be a poon and ask her out on msn messenger do it in person and then how much more of an internet nerd could you be ... "I said Cya xxx" wow i bet that really won her over and then theres the "i might BLOCK her because im embarassed" lol funny people

I'm kinda surprised anyone has actually been able to help you with this. Usually advice on how to pick up chicks doesn't work for the reciever of the advice. If you can pull it off then good job buddy.

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Originally Posted by GanjaBob

Your pretty pathetic. dont be a poon and ask her out on msn messenger do it in person and then how much more of an internet nerd could you be ... "I said Cya xxx" wow i bet that really won her over and then theres the "i might BLOCK her because im embarassed" lol funny people

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I never did say i was gonna ask her out on the internet....

Who else thinks this kid should just take the plunge and ask her out ASAP?

I had a crush on a very beautiful girl in 10th grade. I became friends with her, got to know her, figured it might make it easier to ask her. We became VERY good friends. So good, in fact, that I was the first one to hear when she was asked out by another guy.

Now, we still talk all the time, we love each other, but not romantically, we kind of went our separate ways in that respect and any spark of sorts died out. A few months ago we were talking about the old days and I mentioned my crush, apparently knew I liked her and constantly wondered why I never asked her out. She says it made her feel really bad like she was so ugly and stupid that she embarassed me too much to ever tell her.

Hmmmm, well at school today i passed her in corridoors and shit about twice... I did'nt say anything cus i was kinda nervoius btu the second time i was kinda looking at her and smiling in a kinda way like i was gonna great her... but she did'nt even look at me, tbh it looked like she was avoiding looking at me...

and on msn i got my status set to appear offline and she for "SOME" reason is staying on msn longer than she normally does when im talking to her.........

.......DOTDOTDOT............

pfffft, this is why i hate love. Gives me such a horrible feeling.