Personality vs. Looks

honestly sometimes personality is more important. but i enjoy a girl that i can take pleasure in showing off. like i am glad we are going to the mall so i can show her off. i guess i am kinda shallow but looks are so important to me. i know this girl, and just a few weeks ago she confessed to me that she has liked me for the last few years. (during highschool) now me being the polite guy that i am i hung out with her i chilled with her three different times and we watched movies cook dinner once and that kinda thing. but honestly i couldnt see myself dating her. her personality is great we get along real well and we know the same people. so we had alot to talk about and it was fun. but she isnt "up-to-par" on how i wwould like to have my girl look.

i really like cute girls, hot girls are great but they usually have so much attention from every guy that i have to be with her 24/7 cause if i wont she will easily find another guy that will. and they usually are pretty self-absorbed. but with a cute girl, they usually have had experience in dating and such and you wont have to sacrafice every waking moment in them. like they usually dont mind if i want to go hang with the guys or shit like that every once in awhile. but they have both good looks and a good personality. imo the best of both worlds.

overall i would love to have a cute girl with a good personality over, a hot girl with shit for a personality or an ugly girl with one hell of a good personality

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Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs

Intelligence can backfire, on ya'.

If you're sexy, you have to be hot and sexy.
If you're smart, you have to be sweet and smart.

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how about smart, funny, and somewhat good looking? i definitely wouldn't call myself sweet... but i try to hide my intelligence sometimes (isn't that awful?) only people who have classes with me know i'm smart. i feel like being funny is a point against most girls too because we're considered "one of the guys"

Wow, I've never had a girlfriend who was one of the guys.

Just thinking about it, blows my mind. I remember sitting in a restaurant, can't even remember who with, but it was a sports bar/restaurant and this guy and his girlfriend were there supporting their team and I was jealous because I've never had that.

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Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs

Wow, I've never had a girlfriend who was one of the guys.

Just thinking about it, blows my mind. I remember sitting in a restaurant, can't even remember who with, but it was a sports bar/restaurant and this guy and his girlfriend were there supporting their team and I was jealous because I've never had that.

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That's how my last g/f was. It was really cool to just hang out sometimes, if thats the word. Then I figured out she was a bit of a headcase, so things took a turn to sour town.

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Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs

Wow, I've never had a girlfriend who was one of the guys.

Just thinking about it, blows my mind. I remember sitting in a restaurant, can't even remember who with, but it was a sports bar/restaurant and this guy and his girlfriend were there supporting their team and I was jealous because I've never had that.

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my ex-bf used to whine because i wouldn't pay enough attention to him while the game was on... lol

It was football. When I first moved here, I used to go to bars all the time, by myself, to watch the Dolphins. What kind of games are you watching? LaCrosse can get pretty interesting, I can see how you'd lose yourself.

i absolutely love college football, and i watch pro but i don't follow it too closely. i also have season tickets to basketball (college)

Spartans or Wolverines? I'm an Orangemen fan. I was brought up on sports and they're very dear to my heart, but I never put any correlation to it with my sexual and personal relationships. I think I'm looking for kiki. The Big Ten Girl.

wolverines! i was raised in the deuce and now i go to school here :)
i have a sister, and my dad says that his greatest achievement as a father is having both of his daughters be sports fans! and no one can deny that the big ten is the best conference, it's always exciting.

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Originally Posted by kiki

wolverines! i was raised in the deuce and now i go to school here :)
i have a sister, and my dad says that his greatest achievement as a father is having both of his daughters be sports fans! and no one can deny that the big ten is the best conference, it's always exciting.

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Yeah, that's so cool. I like father's with two daughters. :smokin: I like college basketball way better than pro. I like Michigan State's colors better than Michigan's.

You sound fun, do you have yahoo or msn messenger?