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Sex is a gift that should not be toyed with. You've gotten lucky thus far..ok...odds are not in your favor in the long run. Birth control of some kind should be used. Pre cum does have the chance to get a girl prego. yes that lil drop can mess up your life in a hurry. Dude would you rather have safe sex ie:still getting some, still cumming everyone likes sex...just be responsible about it. If you can't tell your parents your smoking weed...imagine how hard its going to be to tell em you knocked up your girl. yeah that'll be a fun time and a half...hmmm condoms n sex...talk with the parentals about knocking up your girll....tough one there eh.

btw a rubber will make you last longer if that makes a difference at all...just throwing that out there.

If your girlfriend gets pregnant, does not terminate it through abortion, and you do not marry her, you could very well be required to pay child support until the kid is 18 years old -in about 2024. If you're 16 or 17 years old now, it's more years of paying then the amount of time you been alive as of now. By the time you are 35, you'll have spent over HALF of your enitire life paying child support - not to mention all the other hassles of dealing with her and the child.

I've done the same thing you did, and this could have happened to me (or anybody for that matter) - but I was also "lucky". When I think about what could have resulted from this behavior, I don't know why I acted so stupidly those times. I guess it seemed like the right thing to do at the time, but definitly was NOT.

awww....condoms suck...birth control is the way to go..and one partner /....if theres more than one than birth control is only gonna solve half your problem

Condoms or birth control. Obviously birth control feels the best for ya. It's only like $20/month, you can take turns buying it.

Yeah, but the chance of getting pregnant while she's on birth control is extremely high.

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Originally Posted by ADaisyChain

If you're both std free, try the sponges they sell for like 15 dollars for a 12 pack. They let you have sex without the rubbery desentization of a condom. Much better experience and almost as effective. Just doesn't do anything for sex diseases.

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just make sure you are "spongeworthy"

if you are young, even if you are new at this like you said, a condom could help you out. I dated a guy once who had a difficult time keepin it up, condom helped.

yes i know :/ i screwed up and ill be honest...i wasnt educated haha..scarlett im sorry i was trying to say stuff when i shouldnt have been cuz i wasnt even smart enough to research b4 doing it..it just like..happened outta nowhere..honestly didnt think i was going to do that with her that day..HONESTLY...yea..i didnt have sex w/ her DURING her period... the period started AFFFTER the 3rd time we did it.....and yea...she seems FINE right now..and she says shes not really worried...im still gettin her tested at the parenthood clinic FORSURE! haha..and yes yes..condoms and BC all the way next time.....but recently she got a kanker sore on her gum..not sure if its nehting to worry about..but ill probally get paranoid if she said she had a LITTLE stomach ache even..lol..well..thanks for ur guy's and gal's input and thought..im still not in the clear...but..hope things work out good..bcuz i sure as hell learned my lesson

OH AND..for the avatar, this is the biggest one i could find :/ http://kr.img.image.yahoo.com/ygi/ga...0.jpg?410788ac