My dad has no respect for my privacy

is it possible he just wantsd to join you?

if i were supposed to be responsible and have a family, i would need a fucking smoke.

meh, that's why god invented ciggarettes.

You should move your computer next to your door. Not to block it, but make it so he could talk to you without going all the way into your room. Or at least, if he does come all the way in, it makes it more obvious that he's checking you out for the green.

OR

When you AREN'T high and he comes in, just be like, "It's okay, Dad, I'm not stoned right now. You don't have to pretend to care about my computer."

I know it may piss you off but you have to look at it from his point of view. So far as he's concerned he's looking out for you and stopping you from smoking that 'evil' drug.

May help to have a talk with him about respecting your privacy a bit more, but try not to just sit back and try to piss him off.

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Originally Posted by 3 Sheets To The Wind

I'm always worrying about smoking in my room, in case my dad walks in while tokin', so last night i thought i might as well. Well i had a full bowl, smoked half of it, smoked the other half in one hit, just as i finished the hit i hear *knock knock* "Josh" and the door opening *creak* all in 2 seconds, it was my dad, just bursting into my room while i had a hit held in, i blew it out the window and he said "you seeing if it's raining?" so i said yeh as i had just come in from the window.
Then what does he do, except sit on my fuckin' bed behind me watching my tv, so i walked out and got a drink (stashed my pipe and lighter in the garage) and when i came back into my room he was just sitting on my bed, so i just watched tv ignoring him and he finally went away, but i know he must have smelt smoke as he wouldn't have just sat in here otherwise.

It pisses me off because every single night, at least twice he bursts in and i hear him sniffing the air, then just says "computer ok?" even though he knows there's nothing fuckin' wrong with it, what about if i was havin' a wank or something when he burst in? he has no respect for my privacy.

So today i'm kinda blanking him and just giving him short sharp answers, just to get the message across that he pissed me off last night, grr!

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well before ya get all bent out of shape may i inject a few thoughts

what if he just wanted to spend a few minutes with his son becuase he feels he would like to be closer to you
what if he is cool enough to ignore the fact he cuaght you toking.he may not of wanted to raise any hell about it

did it cross your mind he might have something on his mind wanted to talk to you but you sat there like a cold fish,all into yourself to much to notice


or is it all about you,
dude thats ya dad i have no clue what kinda relationship ya have.

asking about the pc is trying to find COMMON GROUND with ya maybe

you call it nosy
to him its showing some interest in your life,

take him fishing or something see how much better yaw get along,
peace

We went to an uphill race a few weeks back, got on fine:)

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Originally Posted by 3 Sheets To The Wind

I'm always worrying about smoking in my room, in case my dad walks in while tokin', so last night i thought i might as well. Well i had a full bowl, smoked half of it, smoked the other half in one hit, just as i finished the hit i hear *knock knock* "Josh" and the door opening *creak* all in 2 seconds, it was my dad, just bursting into my room while i had a hit held in, i blew it out the window and he said "you seeing if it's raining?" so i said yeh as i had just come in from the window.
Then what does he do, except sit on my fuckin' bed behind me watching my tv, so i walked out and got a drink (stashed my pipe and lighter in the garage) and when i came back into my room he was just sitting on my bed, so i just watched tv ignoring him and he finally went away, but i know he must have smelt smoke as he wouldn't have just sat in here otherwise.

It pisses me off because every single night, at least twice he bursts in and i hear him sniffing the air, then just says "computer ok?" even though he knows there's nothing fuckin' wrong with it, what about if i was havin' a wank or something when he burst in? he has no respect for my privacy.

So today i'm kinda blanking him and just giving him short sharp answers, just to get the message across that he pissed me off last night, grr!

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You know what, my dad used to walk in front of me when I was sitting down watching the news or whatever just coming in from a toke, just to look me in the eyes and say something inane he would have otherwise done from across the room.
Then hed go whipser with the step mothra, and theyd both laugh a bit...was so anoying.
I think parents are people, and when people get bored they bother other people by usuing social violence. Social violence, like making innocuous sittuations uncomfortable for others, but not for yourself, for any number of reasons to validate the psychic aggression.

Or maybe your dad just wanted you to offer him a hit, and hes to shy to say.

while youre taking nowheremans amazing advice, take a look at this website then judge for yourself if you should listen to him or me. BREAK HIS FUCKIN LEGS OFF WHEN HE KNOCKS

www.fishinghurts.com

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Originally Posted by Canadabis

You know what, my dad used to walk in front of me when I was sitting down watching the news or whatever just coming in from a toke, just to look me in the eyes and say something inane he would have otherwise done from across the room.
Then hed go whipser with the step mothra, and theyd both laugh a bit...was so anoying.
I think parents are people, and when people get bored they bother other people by usuing social violence. Social violence, like making innocuous sittuations uncomfortable for others, but not for yourself, for any number of reasons to validate the psychic aggression.

Or maybe your dad just wanted you to offer him a hit, and hes to shy to say.

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Man, that just made so much sense, that's a cool explanation, showing from both points of view, i took my own advice and smoked a couple of bowls;)

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Originally Posted by Euphoric

while youre taking nowheremans amazing advice, take a look at this website then judge for yourself if you should listen to him or me. BREAK HIS FUCKIN LEGS OFF WHEN HE KNOCKS

www.fishinghurts.com

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Breaking his legs off, what has that got to do with fishing *karate kick to the eyes* HAHA!!!

I took good advice from myself (^^^) woo

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Originally Posted by Lily420

Ok i see, well good luck with having a wank next time he comes in. May get you ur lock back.LOL

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LMFAO..Lily420 that was gold..:D.