do you stay with someone even if you hate what they do for a living?

Why did I think you lived in Nova Scotia? That's why I suggested college in Maine btw.

So all you have up there is a boyfriend who doesn't make time for you, and better weed.
Let me tell you sister, you can grow your own sweet sweet Tennessee weed in those long summers.

You owe his mom money.
You work at a gas station.
Your boyfriend is basically pretending to run a business.
Your situation is making you clingy enough to recognize it in yourself.

Run, fast, while you still can. Call your mom and get her to buy you a plane ticket YESTERDAY. You need to plant your feet back on your own territory. There's nothing for you there.
If you were going to make a life for yourself as a person, rather than as half of a relationship, you would have started working on it the moment you set foot on Canadian soil.
This advice is coming from a woman who recently gave up the chance to move to Alaska with the man I love for all those reasons... my family is here, and my job, and my house: These things spell independence to me.
Find your own independence.

no worries girl..we got your back...you can do this:jointsmile:

i feel so much better now about going back.


thanks so much guys :)

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Originally Posted by Conehead

Depend's on why u dont like their job like is it a moral objection or does the job take up too much time,they come home smelling of road kill

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Originally Posted by dragonrider

It depends on the occupation and what it is that you hate about it. Do you hate it because it is not financially stable? Or do you hate it because it is morally objectionable? Or does it have bad hours that cut into your life? Or does it make the person smell bad?

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Conehead, I think it is funny that we posted almost exactly the same thing, right down to the smelling bad part (props for bringing in the roadkill --- that's a nice touch!).

Warmblanky, this is a bad situation, and you need to look out for yourself. You should go home and get enrolled in school. Thiere is a lot more wrong with this than the idea that he has a bad occupation. You sound like you have some good prospects back home, but it doesn't sound like this guy is heading anywhere, and in the meantime you are getting in a deeper and deeper hole. Friendship is one thing, but it sounds like you aren't even getting much of that if he's only around an hour or two a day, so what are you gaining by staying? Make up a list of pros and cons, and this thing is going to get pretty clear pretty fast --- its a losing situation.

pros and cons lists RULE!

they spell it out

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Originally Posted by geonagual

pros and cons lists RULE!

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Pros and cons lists have their good points and their bad...

^haha

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Let me tell you sister, you can grow your own sweet sweet Tennessee weed in those long summers.

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Amen...:bigsmoke:

I'd go back to Tennessee, and, tell him to bring himself and his business.

And, let me know if you plan on starting a garage band.

I'd tell her to bring herself. And her business. Her student loans, too.

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Originally Posted by warmblanky

the other day he said something to my boy

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ive just bin sitiing here thinking im sure she sai she ha a kid going back and reading it like 20 times just realised ^^^^thats why lol
im way too stonned for reading:jointsmile: