"Friends" or What? *Warning*LONG READ*Warning*

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Originally Posted by GreenLadyOfDankDowns

Maybe she's just looking for a friend with benefits. My best girl friend in high school was like that. She had no boyfriend, but had sex with her best guy friend on occasion. Some people can easily compartmentalize sex and romance, if that's what she wants and you can handle it without expecting a committed relationship to evolve then go for it. If you can't handle it and you do mess around together someone will end up feeling hurt after its over with. On the other hand she might be trying to figure out if you want to be her man. Either way you two need to have a serious face to face discussion.

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Yea, I agree with that...

We need to have a serious face to face discussion but dunno really how to bring that one up without it being akward from the start...

but im perfectly fine with a "friends with benefits" situation

man where are all these women around where i live. Seems like once your in the "friend zone" u have no shot in hell of getting sex or getting in a relationship with said woman. It's like u drop off the list of potentials.

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Originally Posted by TheDefiler

man where are all these women around where i live. Seems like once your in the "friend zone" u have no shot in hell of getting sex or getting in a relationship with said woman. It's like u drop off the list of potentials.

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He might as well flat-out ask, rather than engaging in her games. To hell with speculation, you gotta take the risk and ask, no matter how lame it'll sound.

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Originally Posted by Squiggle

Umm... Shes probablly the most committed girl ive ever met to things she wants anyway

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okay.. maybe she doesnt want to make things official? its obvious she likes the way things are going now.

Just have some self confidence. Tell her its obvious that you two have some chemistry and that you believe sexual tension has been building between the two of you for a while now, but she sends some mixed signals so you'd like to know once and for all what she really wants.

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Originally Posted by Squiggle

Yea, I agree with that...

We need to have a serious face to face discussion but dunno really how to bring that one up without it being akward from the start...

but im perfectly fine with a "friends with benefits" situation

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Originally Posted by GreenLadyOfDankDowns

Just have some self confidence. Tell her its obvious that you two have some chemistry and that you believe sexual tension has been building between the two of you for a while now, but she sends some mixed signals so you'd like to know once and for all what she really wants.

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Best advice ive had...

last night was great...

Mission Accomplished people

Squiggle = Laid.

LOL Congrats! So are you an item now, or just friends with benefits?

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Originally Posted by GreenLadyOfDankDowns

LOL Congrats! So are you an item now, or just friends with benefits?

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Well as far as I can see were just "Friends with benefits" which is fine with me =)

Thanks for all the help GreenLady =)

Congrats, man!! :thumbsup:
But now, it would be very kind from you to return the favour everybody did to you giving advices, and tell us how it was... ;)

next comes love and marriage and then a baby carriage:)