Well, goodluck. Just make sure you dont get her up the duff, you dont want babino's at your age.Quote:
Originally Posted by unconscious
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Well, goodluck. Just make sure you dont get her up the duff, you dont want babino's at your age.Quote:
Originally Posted by unconscious
Hahaha hell no dude, we'll be careful. She doesn't even want kids... no way I'm havin some little shits botherin me when I'm trying to study for a chemistry test... rofl.Quote:
Originally Posted by LIP
i feel that nobody can be sure about anything in their life (what theyre gonna do, who theyre gonna marry, etc.) until after a year or so of college. then life starts to become more clear. starts to.
How long have you guys been together? Because what you're describing is infatuation, and that doesn't last forever. The sooner you learn that the better.
I read some statistics on divorce a while back. The older you are when you get married, the less likely you are to get divorced, up until you're about 25, when the rates level off. As you get older and you mature, your personalities change, and very well might diverge. I wish you luck, just don't make any long-term plans that would get screwed up if you decide that you don't like each other anymore.
Anyway, my first time was with a cute vietnamese girl i'd known for a few weeks, but we realized we weren't that compatible after a while, and besides, we lived too far apart. I was 22 though, and I had recently got out of a relationship with a very religious girl that gave me blue balls religiously, and I sort of wanted to release that frustration.
But on that same note, my girlfriend right now is a virgin and she wants to lose her virginity to me, and I'm kind of nervous because I've never been first for a girl before. I feel honored, and I want it to be good for her.
i agree with this. i've been through many an infatuation, where i thought it was gonna last forever, but no. people change and develop...i'm a much different person than i was before i started college, and i'm a junior in college right now. i've already been engaged once, and we both thought we were going to last, had a lot of our life planned out...but sometimes things just don't go the way you planned...because, like i said, people change.Quote:
Originally Posted by jdub61
but unconscious, i wish you the best of luck, maybe you will be with her forever :) you never know
as for being under the age of 13 and losing your virginity...wow. i understand that everyone develops their sexuality at different rates, but i have to agree with 40 oz, 12 year olds should be focusing on being kids, and not making babies....maybe there are exceptions, but not a single 12 year old i know is mentally and emotionally ready for sex
i lost my virginity when i was 16, and i really regret who i lost it to. i would give anything to go back and change it, because it was horrible (i'm not saying the sex was horrible, the situation was)
13 and I regret it. I wish I saved it for someone special.
Sex is nothing more or less than sticking it in and thrusting and trying to make it feel really good.
Seriously, the hype society has made out of it is ridiculous.
Actually I lost my virginity because of a violent rape and torture by 2 another man who was 3 times my age.
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Holy hell, that's rough Bogart. Sorry to hear that. :(
A friend and I were talking about memory, specifically how it related to my cannabis use. I had come to the conclusion that, as most of your daily life is forgotten in a few days or even a few moments, it wasn't particularly important that you weren't stoned whenever you damn well pleased. (Don't jump all over me for that one, my memory doesn't suffer at all even while I'm high - in fact, long-term memory improves I've found.) He made the counterpoint that while daily life might not be remembered, new experiences will be - most memories you recall are those where something different happened to you other than the norm.
Anyhow, long story short, you will remember losing your virginity much better than most sexual experiences you will ever have, so why not make it special so that you have something nice to remember? Case in point, aforementioned friend made a drunken mistake when he lost his, and he regrets it and will continue to regret it for a long time.
That makes it sound like he knocked her up. He didn't, it was just a horrible idea.
I was 16