an adult hit my kid

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Originally Posted by weedmaster

xcrispi and nochowderforyou, my daughter said nothing she was totally innocent dont make out she was partly to blame, and yes i know all the facts haveing heard 5 witness statements and one of those was from somebody who doesn't like my daughter so i know shes telling me the truth, i posted this for a bit of support not for people to knock my kid.my daughter and son are 2 of the most popular kids in the area and they haven't got so many friends by being mouthy its through their sence of humour and respect they show others.

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Kids.lie..Especially.when.everyone.else.is.lying.a bout.the.same.thing..The.way.the.curses.and.bad.wo rds.fly.around.these.days."what.a.slut/skank"is.now.defined.as.having.too.short.of.shorts .and.looking.hot.at.the.same.time.but.is.taken.as. it's.actual.meaning.especially.because.the.34year. old.is.an.adult..
I.consider.c**t.to.be.the.worst.of.all.swears.but. kids.use.it.all.the.time.now.just.to.be.snarky..
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I.feel.like.past.posters.that.there.is.no.respect. for.elders.anymore.and.it.is.directly.related.to.l etting.kids.act.and.talk.like.adults.to.adults..

I.believe.your.daughter.probably.said.it.in.a.casu al.manner.but.someone.took.it.as.a.peice.of.gossip .and.ran.with.it..

That.being.said.your.daughter.and.her.friends.shou ld.be.taught.a.lesson.about.language.swearing.and. respect.even.if.she.didn't.say.it.this.is.still.a. good.teaching.oppertunity..This"adult"should.be.in vestigated.by.the.athorities.and.charged.not.by.yo u..At.this.point.you.also.have.to.teach.you.childr en.the.respnsible.civil.way.to.deal.with.this.situ ation.with.the.authorities.because.Daddy.won't.alw ays.be.there.to.deal.with.it.and.that.is.what.poli ce.are.for..

When.I.was.18.I.wouldn't.lay.my.hands.on.a.disresp ectful.17.yearold.but.I.have.no.problem.chewing.ou t.any.disrespectful.child.or.their.parents.if.they .are.allowing.the.behavior.to.take.place..

Then.again.I'll.chase.down.school.kids.who.I.catch .littering.or.damaging.playgrounds.to.let.the.know .as.a.part.of.society.I.will.not.stand.for.them.to .disrespect.the.community.in.which.I.live.and.have .no.problem.calling.the.cops.if.I.see.a.fight.goin g.on..

Lastly.what.is.your.15.year.old.daughter.or.her.fr iends.having.anything.to.do.with.a.34.year.old.adu lt????????

I didn't make the post to knock your child because that's not what I was doing, but it is not respectful to call someone names. Both were at fault, you can't deny that.

When I swore, in my days I would get a spanking and my mouth washed out with soap. Kids have it too easy these days, way to easy.

The only thing you can really do is let the authorities deal with it... but make sure they DO deal with it. Since your daughter is a minor, it's completely reasonable for you to contact them and make sure they're following up.

Also, maybe get enrolled in some father-daughter kickboxing or judo lessons... this'll give you a chance to work off some steam and teach your daughter to defend herself. Peace friend

hey weedmaster, if the situation is what you think it is then yeah i see your anger, and i would have a hard time controlling myself too.

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wow, hitting children is like the greatest no-no of them all. Even if a kid is trying to steal from you, you dont hit them.

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But that is just wrong!!

The worst thing about UK is kids and how ''i dont give a shit'' they are.

I remember a while ago, a kid (maybe 13-12) smashed our caravan window, the whole yard pointed him out to my dad, my dad walked up to him, started having a go at him and the kid blatentley said

'' i dont care you cant touch me! ''

now giving kids this sort of immunity is whats wrong with uk, all that HOODY panic thats going on, its cos thye dont give a shit, they know that in most cases an exchange fo wrods and maybe a complaint to their parents is the worst thats going to happen, and i mean this may be enough fi the parents gave a crap, but in most cases their kid is right in the parents eyes.

In my country on the other hand, no one will take the kids word, (i mean as long as extreme injuries arent inflicted) so all kids stay in line, even when i was younger and came back to my coutnry, i wanted to do some of the stuff i was doing over here, and everyone was like scared, they where like

'' you will get your head kicked in if you do that''

and i am talking about stuff like knock down gigner (the fun game where you knock on a door and run away, every kid done it to get these HUGGE adrenieline rushes only possible these days with bunjee jumping andd such)

Seriously if i ever see kids doing someting like this (obviously over 10 yrs old) i will not hesitate to give me shit and if they get mouthy to me i will give em a smack over the head to help em stay out of trouble...

Violence is the most ridiculous way to handle any situation. But, If your daughter isn't hurt let it be and see what the gov. does but if she is an eye for an eye...

nearly 4 weeks now and the police haven't even interviewed her yet, i told them they are f***ing useless and not to bother. the women has however been interviewed by a couple of female friends the other day and i don't think she will be so quick to give it the big one to a minor again.justice has been served and the case is now closed.

I can't stand older people hitting kids, if I see that shit I'd immediately start beating the shit out of the older person, as long as the kid wasn't hitting first. Sometimes I get too ballsy for my own good, it's just that this shit makes my blood boil over.

wat happened in the end?

can't say use your imagination.

how angry id be...rrrrrrrrrr