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If you are in fact so attractive and intelligent, then why havent you saught after a man in your area, that way you could still see your kids, its one thing getting a divorce, but its another to be the one who walked out on their kids.
You have a lot of thinking to do, and in my opinion no person who is sane is stupid enough to do this, i mean honestly.
Seek some help, there are many free clinics in each state, just have to find the right one.
Hope this helps.
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You can't rely on others to fix your problems. Get some help, get a job and start over with your kids. Don't dump your kids because you're unhappy. And Don't flame me. I have been there and back. I had a bad marriage once, and 3 kids. There are shelters, medicaid and help out there. My ex knocked my teeth out so ya can't tell me about bad marriages. But for crying out loud, get over your "sexy" self and think of your kids.
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Jump all over her, everyone. Every comment has bashed her. You had some good advice, up there, but, you also put in your biased two-cents worth.
Obviously, she's stoned.
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I offered help. The best I could. All she did was count it out and keep saying how attractive she is. Looks fade,... use your head. And btw,... the kids shouldn't pay for their parents mistakes Beachguy.
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But, I don't make mistakes.
I mean, but, I'm not a parent.
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I don??t think everyone has bashed Sophia at all. I think the voices of reason here are simply hoping Sophia will do nothing until she can get un-high enough and out of escape-mode enough to see that maybe this might not be the best way to escape. I certainly mean no offense to you, Beachguy, and admire your gallant desire to be of assistance. But I don't think you, Sophia, or the other gentleman who offered his assistance can begin to know what you??d be getting into. How could you?
Sophia assures us she's received all the clinical help she needs, and if that's the case, then I'm certain along the way one of the therapists told her about dysfunctional antennae. How they have an uncanny way of coming up and out and sensing the other person across the room--or across cyberspace--who's just as dysfunctional and baggage-laden and unhealthy as the first antennae-owner. Those antennae are how baggage-laden people generally manage to find successions of relationships that are even unhealthier than the previous ones they??ve left.
They??re why several wise souls here tonight have urged her to do some more work on herself before making another choice that won??t benefit anyone in the long run. I really believe this advice has been communicated kindly and with great concern for everyone??s well-being.
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Good heavens! I passed my 420th post tonight and didn't even notice. I may have to go celebrate the occasion.
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I was speaking of doogle, birdgirl. Excellent advice, but he came to the conclusion that if she is so attractive, then she would've already found her Prince Charming, by now. Or, along those lines.
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Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
. you came to the wrong board :p :thumbsup:
I guess so.
I think I did, too. I should be at Traumatic Brain Injury support chat.
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obviously she's ugly, shallow and completely empty on the inside. Seeking to fill that void with sympathy garnered from cannabis.com's message board (interesting choice).
For that reason it seems like she'd be a perfect match for beachguy, who distracts himself from his own meaningless existence by constantly posting about nothing in particular.
You two deserve each other. I wish you all the best.
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Originally Posted by sophiastarchild
I can take care of myself. For those of you who might be psycho killers, well, I have news for you. I will feed your balls to you as an appetizer and shove your dick down your throat for the entree. Therefore, I only accept legimite offers for escape...
Is there a reason why she wasn't banned yet?
Im sorry but if she wanted help , she would get it, she has kids to think about. You cannot help any 1, if they dont want help!! Just my opinion.
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Originally Posted by Polymirize
obviously she's ugly, shallow and completely empty on the inside. Seeking to fill that void with sympathy garnered from cannabis.com's message board (interesting choice).
For that reason it seems like she'd be a perfect match for beachguy, who distracts himself from his own meaningless existence by constantly posting about nothing in particular.
You two deserve each other. I wish you all the best.
Take your needless attack and go after someone who, actually, could be hurt by it.
If you think that she's ugly, then go fuck your janitor, because she has posted her picture, and she is cute. But, to offer someone help when they ask and then get swamped with ridicule when I try to help, only means that this site is no longer for everyone.
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people... you don't need to quote the original post... we all know what you are responding too...
lol
iloveyou
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oh sorry, you'll have to forgive me. I was high at the time of my last posting.
Oh wait, maybe being stoned isn't an excuse for immature behavior...
So then why do I have to be so tolerant of this thread again?
Way to get all fixated on physical appearence beachguy. I don't care about what anyone looks like on the outside, its the inside where I think some people are the most ugly...
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blah blah blah i wanna see pics. right now.
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Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs
I guess so.
I think I did, too. I should be at Traumatic Brain Injury support chat.
TBISC is where it's at.
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Originally Posted by Fan o KmK
sorry i kno this is a stupid uneducated question and mayb cuz im blazed but where do you adults get your weed? do u guys have dealers and shit like "yo mofuga, hook it up wit a 20!" or do u guys have some kinda sophisticated dealer who makes house calls while sportin a tie and white suit. tahtd be tight.
We older ones just hook up with someone who's a little older and maybe in similar life/work/age circumstances. The local board for my state was a good place to start.
The only sophisticated dealer with a suit and tie I've ever known of is known a "Dr. Weed" in a large West Coast city. He serves folks who work in the movie industry, among others, with top-drawer goods. Drives a Mercedes. Carries a briefcase. Is regularly used by two friends of mine who are screenwriters and many of their friends. I witnessed him making a house call when I was there visiting last year, so this isn't social folklore. It was like something you'd only see in LA.
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You can come stay at my place but you better be in a cocksucking mood if you think you are getting "free" weed.....
Hope I didnt get your hopes up
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Originally Posted by Garden Knowm
people... you don't need to quote the original post... we all know what you are responding too...
lol
iloveyou
Yes, true, so can you put me through to customer support? I've taken 12 Viagra and like the ad warns... "Erections lasting more than 4 hours could be a sign of a medical emergency" :o
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question is, will YOU adopt me? mom? hehe. im 14/male/ca, run away, with all the hook ups. and all the love =)
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Look I??m sorry but this is bull shit. Beach Guy you can bitch at me if you like. Sounds to me like the last thing she needs is someone to stroke her hair and tell her everything going to be alright. From everything she has said here it sounds like her husband has every right to think of her as an unfit mother. No mother would run out on their kids without a damn good reason. The only thing I have heard thus far is ??Oh I??m so unhappy and my husband is a big meanie? SO FUCKING WHAT. You??re an adult bitch. Suck it up.
And if you could take care of yourself you wouldn??t be on here looking for someone to do it for you, pissing and moaning about how unfair life has been to you. Do you have any idea how selfish you are being. ME ME ME. What about your KIDS KIDS KIDS.
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This is where everyone has me wrong. I still have a live-in ex-g/f, and I'm not running away. So, she can't come here.
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Is she hot beachguy? Post her pic if she sent you 1.
Look girl, just go. Your family obviously doesn't want you. I would take beachguy up on his offer, if I were you, as long as you can prove you can pay for your own bus ticket and pay for your share of the rent.
Oh, I see you reneged.
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i'm thinking she just had a rough night... don't be too hard on her.
i'm only guessing- but she was obviously upset about something going on in her life and i think she may have had a few too many drinks. then she said/did some stuff she didn't mean. who hasn't done that before?
if i'm wrong please seek counseling... if not for you then for your kids sake.
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Sophia
If you can even consider walking out on your children into the arms of some random stranger from a message board that you think is gonna rescue you from your life??. then you need help bigtime ?? and not from anyone on here.
Go talk to someone more qualified, like a councellor, marriage guidance, citizens advice bureau??..ANYONE?..before you do something as damaging as walking out on your babies. Have you any idea how that will affect their lives??????
Do you really have that little self worth?
Are you trying to prove your husband right?
Because right now, offering yourself up to all and sundry?you??re not exactly painting a pretty picture here.
I feel for your children, I fear for them too and for you.
Woman, you need to COP DA FUCK ONTO YOURSELF before you get your foolish arse into anymore trouble.
No one needs to rescue you
Only YOU can decide what you can live with, and without.
Make the changes in your life.
If you??re not happy look at the reasons.
If it??s your marriage, decide whether you can save it or not.
Take things one step at a time.
You don??t have the luxury of throwing your shit into a bag and walking ?? that??s what being an adult is about ?? you gave up that option when you had children. You owe it to them to do the best you can. Wandering the www looking for ??someone to save you?? will not solve your problems.
I'm hoping you were at a real low point when you wrote this and you're gonna reread this thread and go, "wtf was I thinking?". I wish you and your family the best. Please think long and hard before you do something you??ll possibly regret for the rest of your life.
Lulu
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I'm confused. Sophia's last post in this thread was at about 3, - three hours after she posted this in another thread;
"I left, and met the man who is now my husband. I love him...we've been together for 13 years...married for 8 now...and have two totally gorgeous yet mischevious sons...and although we fight about each others' habits and shit we cannot seem to live without one another..."
Never mind the fact that she started this thread at nearly two. So what the hell happened in the two hours between not being able to live without your husband, and being "trapped in a loveless marriage with a man who doesn't understand me".
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Originally Posted by Lulu
Sophia
If you can even consider walking out on your children into the arms of some random stranger from a message board that you think is gonna rescue you from your life??. then you need help bigtime ?? and not from anyone on here.
Go talk to someone more qualified, like a councellor, marriage guidance, citizens advice bureau??..ANYONE?..before you do something as damaging as walking out on your babies. Have you any idea how that will affect their lives??????
Do you really have that little self worth?
Are you trying to prove your husband right?
Because right now, offering yourself up to all and sundry?you??re not exactly painting a pretty picture here.
I feel for your children, I fear for them too and for you.
Woman, you need to COP DA FUCK ONTO YOURSELF before you get your foolish arse into anymore trouble.
No one needs to rescue you
Only YOU can decide what you can live with, and without.
Make the changes in your life.
If you??re not happy look at the reasons.
If it??s your marriage, decide whether you can save it or not.
Take things one step at a time.
You don??t have the luxury of throwing your shit into a bag and walking ?? that??s what being an adult is about ?? you gave up that option when you had children. You owe it to them to do the best you can. Wandering the www looking for ??someone to save you?? will not solve your problems.
I'm hoping you were at a real low point when you wrote this and you're gonna reread this thread and go, "wtf was I thinking?". I wish you and your family the best. Please think long and hard before you do something you??ll possibly regret for the rest of your life.
Lulu
I second that.^^^...
couldnt have said it better...:thumbsup:
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Anybody else smell that?
Maybe it's just me, but this all seems way too elaborate. All in one night?
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physcopixi, im a married man but your uber hot... sorry couldnt help it, continuuuue everybody =P.
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Originally Posted by Garden Knowm
people... you don't need to quote the original post... we all know what you are responding too...
lol
iloveyou
Who the hell am I responding to, now, wise-ass?
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Originally Posted by graph
TBISC is where it's at.
What's that, Southern California? The one I've found is http://braininjurychat.org/tbichat.htm.
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Originally Posted by birdgirl73
It was like something you'd only see in LA.
Wow, I recall a similar experience with the doctor in New York City.
People from the City would know what I'm talking about.
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People, people... she's Ann Coulter
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pixie
hey, she could have wrote that earlier and left it for another activity/chore/arrand w.e. and posted it later. just becuz she post's it at that time, dsnt exactly mean she wrote it at that exact time. benefit of the doubt, but i see what you mean.
sophia, best of luck. and remember, boys sumtime's side with dad, for they feel its the right thing at the time(age).
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Originally Posted by graymatter
People, people... she's Ann Coulter
You nailed it! And the more I thought about it after I signed off yesterday, the more I realized the same thing. She's a writer. A dramatist. And she knows how to stir things up and get people spinning. It worked, too.
I won't fall for that again!
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i think we all have been in that boat though, the feeling of being trapped and theres no way out. sometimes the best thing is to find a good freind and smoke some weed and talk about whats going on, and i think thats why some people use the internet to reach out.
NOOSA!!!!!!!!! how have you been.
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Originally Posted by birdgirl73
You nailed it! And the more I thought about it after I signed off yesterday, the more I realized the same thing. She's a writer. A dramatist. And she knows how to stir things up and get people spinning. It worked, too. I won't fall for that again!
That's exactly what I was just thinking.
Could you imagine somebody really taking this person in, without even meeting her, and starting a "relationship", which includes intimacy? Are the kids part of the deal and, if so, what's the alcoholic husband going to do? How much "bisexual" activity is going to happen, and is the male (who's footing the bill) allowed to participate?
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As the thread says, "No flaming".
But, since that rule has already been broken, I'm gonna call all the English speaking "morons" who use the word "uber" surrounded by words of the English language, when the "u", in German, would be translated to "ue" in English, therefore, the correct spelling is "ueber-hot" and "ueber-cool".
A little research never hurt.
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Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs
I'm gonna call all the English speaking "morons" who use the word "uber" surrounded by words of the English language, when the "u", in German, would be translated to "ue" in English, therefore, the correct spelling is "ueber-hot" and "ueber-cool".
A little research never hurt.
HEY don't forget the little dots.... omlows... or however you spell it. i took german for a year in highschool..... and i failed..... badly.