Thats awesome! I havent heard someone use the words "old soul" since my Grandmother who died 2.5 yrs ago, called me an "old soul", about TEN years ago! Im 24.
...Everyones all about convenience and greed!
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Thats awesome! I havent heard someone use the words "old soul" since my Grandmother who died 2.5 yrs ago, called me an "old soul", about TEN years ago! Im 24.
...Everyones all about convenience and greed!
Haha, good stuff. Seems like we think very similarly. Sometimes I over analyze things, but it often helps me spot red flags and keeps me out of trouble. There are definitely exceptions to the rule, but people generally suck. :(
Sorry to hear about your Grandma.
BTW, it's nice to meet a fellow young "old" person! :D
It's time to break up with my girlfriend, i can't be bothered to explain, she's so distant... Why do i always fall for girls i have nothing in common =/ even though i'm with her i don't feel that i am WITH her. It's been 4 going on 5 months and i can't kid myself anymore, i need to be happy again, i want someone who really cares about me. We have no future together, i'm feeling all that time spent together was pointless. All i wanted was to fall in love with her but she just won't let me close to her and she's finally pushed me away now. I've never met anyone like this girl, she can't even look me in the eyes when hanging out, it fucking hurts and i'm done with it. I want to break up with her face to face but i'm probably gonna call her tonight and just be honest with her that i'm not happy anymore and that i just wanna be friends. She prob won't even care about the breakup, i'm pretty sure she'll take it well.
I called her yesterday and she didn't pick up so i turned my phone off and went to sleep to think about it. She txtd me in the morning, and then i txtd her and told her i felt she was being too distant and how i don't want our realtionship to be pointless. She txtd back saying she didn't know she was being distant and she's gonna work on it and she doesn't think the relationship is pointless. That was the closest i've ever come to breaking up with her. I hope we can work it out, really i do, i wanna love her so bad. Sleep does wonders.
I wanted to post in this thread, but thinking about it further, i dont think i will. It'll only get me down again, and i've been feeling good recently so i dont want to ruin it.
I want to pose this question to get some honest answers. Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone else knowing that 99% of them will end someday anyway, leaving you in heartache and loneliness?
I'm not trying to be negative or anything, I'm curious to see why you guys do it.
Okay, to answer that question, because my heart's big enough and I will never be lonely. Me, too? Me, too.
You must realize that people and places change throughout your life..live in the NOW, be in the moment and forget about the future that you have no control over...and dont let the past control your thoughts and actions of today...Quote:
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because its worth it. when i go buy a box of shells i know that i'll run out and have to get more, or when i buy a new vehicle i know eventually it'll take a big shit. but i still buy shells annd buy vehicles and even if a relationship ends, it doesnt mean it wasnt a fun ride.
I just had my one year wedding anniversary in August. :D
If I told you that when you turn 45, you had to spend the rest of your life in prison, would you say fuck it and just go now?Quote:
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im lonly.. and miss having someone to hold and kiss and cuddle..
I hope i find her soon or vise versa.
But i think i am going to hold off on the account that i am most likly going to move.
Relationships SUCK!! Why do I even try? I just want a cool chick...why do women have to trip so much? That is it. Have a nice day.
Feelin'it, women are, like, TOTALLY scared of your muscles, and they know that the side effect of r'oids is tinydick-itis. So That's why dem biznatches be trippin'.
Hey, I am 3 inches hard..that might be small I know...but I am thick. LOL
You will just have to date midgets then.
Little late into this thread, but I guess I will post my share.
I am currently dating a girl that I have been with for just over 3 yrs, who I am getting ready to break up with. Love the girl to death, but over those 3 yrs we have both changed alot, and we dont share anything in common. One day I just sat down, and thought to myself, I dont think I would ever hang out with this girl, and we wouldnt be friends at all if we werent dating. And I want who I am dating to be my best friend, someone who I can share some of the things I enjoy with, and thats just not the case.
She doesnt like me smoking, she isnt a big fan of me being a gamer, she doesnt like my outlook on life, and I despise hers... just a bunch of problems that I have been overlooking because I thought loving her meant it was ok to overlook, but I kinda realized one day that you can love someone, but not be IN love with someone anymore. And thats what I feel like here.
The fun part is figuring out how to go about breaking it off with her. I dont want to hurt her if possible, which I know it isnt, but still, you care for someone long enough, and you still want things to be as nice as possible for them, no matter what the situation may be.
Nice story..
Yeah, it does sound like your relationship is toward the end...
Life is too short to spend it with someone that you are not a match with...it is torture to both parties..it is just that women get more attached than men do...mostly if the relationship is a total mess...and have a harder time letting go..
Good luck
yuk, its all good.
My wife and I have been together for almost two years. We are very open about everything. She is a very down-to-earth cool person. She is also my best friend. She pretty much doesn't care what I do, as long as I love her, and am a good person.
Just to give you guys hope that are going through shit, so have I. I didn't meet the woman of my dreams until I was 30. Not saying anyone has to or should wait that long. But, I just wasn't ready. I needed to mature and be my own man before I got married, so I knew I could have a healthy relationship.
i'm not in a relationship.:( i like this guy right now, but i know he's a player. so pretty much all we have is a light flirtation and i don't want anything more from him. what i want is a cool nice guy that i can be best friends with and a boyfriend at the same time, but the dating pool sucks soo whatever. i'm just gonna focus on ME right now and i'm not really studying any guys
delta-9 you cant or shouldnt be scared of the 1% you are talking about, or the 99% either. not everything works out but if it does, hey great. what about the 50-60-70% of the time that it was good, or bad for that matter? its all a growing and learning expierience.
After knowing my friend for 5 years and talking with her on and off about such topics as sex, she finally got her ass on an airplane and came to see me in Oregon. I went to high school with her in California and I've had the hots for her for so long. When she came up we really clicked, we really bonded together. Then we had crazy passionate sex for 8 days when she was here (passionate for me at least haha). Now I'm moving back to california to be with her because she is the best woman I've ever met, she's not the fuck-them-and-forget-them type (not a HO!) and I feel we've got a very solid foundation for a good relationship. Now is the time to move on this. It should work out, I'm optimistic just because I know her so well, inside and out (literately ).
:)
Nothing goin' on in that department. I have huge wounds being heeled as I speak. Not a good time to find a new relationship, not until I become strong once again.
I dedicated my heart to someone for 15 years, it has been hard. But I really wanted to make it work. Making sure our kids were taken care of and provided for is a huge stance in my life, but I got accused of not being spauntanious. I am...but there are responsibilities that have to be taken care of first.
This person that I loved for so long has moved out and moved on with his life. Dating like crazy and it seams his biggest goal is to "find someone". He has all the free time to party and search out that special someone. I on the other had keep my life packed with taking care of our kids and doing my best to keep them stable and have a nice life. I love them and it is not a problem. I find myself not having time for myself. So on the quiet days, I feel extremely lonely. I miss my ex alot sometimes, because he was still my best friend and I always want to pick up the phone to see how he is doing, but I also want to be a complete void for him too. I know he doesn't think of me as his best friend anymore and it hurts really bad.
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lol good luck
<---- constant pessimist