Originally Posted by Prunedale
Dude. Guys fuck up on this all the time. don't listen to guys, except me.
I have my 25th Gold Rolex.
Walk over to her, make eye contact. Put your hand out. Say hi smile and tell her your name. Then shut up. Let her talk and tell you hers, if she is one of the quick answer type. Ask away. She'll reply and then you gotta start using your body. And watch hers, if you "feel" like shes not feeling your approach. Think quickly and tell her your sorry for being rude and just walking up to her, tell her everything you've just told us, be honest, "I've seen you around, I know we've had eye contact before and I wanted to know who you were so I seen ya and thought I'd come say hi and introduce myself.
Tell her you'd like to know who she is, that you are "interested".
Don't get all into:
You wonder day to day about her and what shes doing at that moment that you are wasting all your time and thought on her. Just wanting to know. Save all that for later. You gotta get in the door before you pitch your sale.
I like to start off with exchanging emails. Maybe phone numbers. But writing to a girl is the way to her heart and mind, thats ultimately what you need to do.
Lets put sex on the back burner and turn the burner off. Seriously get in her head, find out everything PAY ATTENTION once you've started chatting, don't go marking down everything about her just remember little things. She'll like that you've been paying attention to her little habits. Really you gotta just be confident, honest and pleasant. Be more mature than she thinks you are. Don't over do it just be yourself. Stand out to her. Be different than the typical guys you think hit her up.
GL lemme know when you get talkin. Words take you places.
Lemme recommend a book for you, its pretty basic knowledge and most of us do this already we just don't know it or haven't written out our "game" strategy. Its called "How to have sex with women without dating them"
The title is of course what it is but really its about making friends and being genuine. Friends = more friends = more people = great networking = more people to talk about how nice and real you are. So if thats what you're after. Read it and do it. Sex shouldn't be your objective though. Invest in the future. Why have sex once and bounce when you can be genuine and friendly and casual and have it whenever you want, eeeer whenever she wants lol.
