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In the infinity of all things you are far from screwed. In 10 years you will have a whole new set of mind boggling situations. And that is only the beginning of many strange and uncomfortable but wonderful circumstances.
No my friend you are not even screwed. Not even close.
But for now. Sucks to be you!
You have my compassion my brother. Been there, done that and yea I survived.
Good luck
Just admit it, get it over with and quit playing stressful games.Quote:
Originally Posted by d00d557
It just may be that your P's have some advice for you but you need to be HONEST and not sneaky.
You may be surprised because some parents prefer their kids smoke in the privacy of their homes then out doing whatever and getting caught and catching a case. (or getting ripped off and possibly killed)
If they go nutzo, you always have the option to quit while you live under their roof and are supported by them.
You can always wait a couple of years and get your own place and do whatever you want in your kingdom.:jointsmile:
*laughing* Thank you, Buddha!Quote:
Originally Posted by ericwt
lmao... yea but you can't teach that to pre-adults man.. that's DEFINATELY shit they have to learn on their own... you can tell that to them all you want, but they won't listen... then after it's already happened they finally know what you're talking about....Quote:
Originally Posted by ericwt
or get more honest.... of which the latter is more preferable among bond between parents, and usually parent's thoughts...Quote:
You gotta just be a little bit more slick
Man, You have to EMBRACE your lifestyle. That doesn't mean you have to stop hiding it from the people you care for. But that means you have to go with the consenquences of getting caught or tested positive, and just be like FUCK IT. It's who I am, it's what I DO!:rasta:
Don't smoke every day.
Do it only on weekends. If you start toking in obv spots like your backyard and your room, your chances on avoiding being cought are really slim.
Go to friends' houses, go to the park, or just anywhere far from home.
When I started to smoke regulary I just fessed up to my parents right away and they were actually really cool with it. However, the fact that I'm 18 played a large factor. And the fact that I'm one of the best performing students in the school prolly played a role too. hehe
OK well i told my dad i smoked. He is pretty much my moms little helper. He makes no decesions and has no say in anything, he is merely a messenger. He does what she wants because she controls everything. Its quite sad. So i just told my dad one day and he was like i cant tell your mom blah blah blah. HE just didnt wanna keep it from her. He told me to not smoke and stuff but he realized that i would smoke regardless of what he said. Its nothing personal, its just that i am going to continue my lifestyle. O and my family is extremely catholic, im surprised i dont go to catholic school. Just do your best to explain things calmly.