How long does your fella' last?

im 15 and i can last between 5-30 mins. when i have allot of 4play where i dont cum and then have sex with a condom i usualy cum in like 3-5 mins so i used to get my x-gf to make me cum first wait bout 5-10 mins with me fingering her then we have sex. if i use a condom its more like the 10-15 min job and if i am stoned or drunk more like 30 mins + as when im drunk its hard to concentrate lol and when im stoned i can control when i cum more.

ill admit the first time i had sex with my gf i cum in about 2 mins idk lol it was still realllly tight and the feel of her around my bell-end was amazing :)

ive realised that from now on if im about to have sex with a girl that really turns me on im gona have a lot of 4play till i cum, carry on the 4play till im hard again and then poke that shit :)

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Originally Posted by couch-potato

[align=center]Attention men, are you tired of blowing your load within 4 seconds of vaginal penetration? Say no more!
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The key to lasting longer is to develop the muscles in your penis and make them strong enough to hold sperm in when you are about to ejaculate. Forget about products and systems that reduce sensation. You're supposed to enjoy fucking, not reduce the feeling.

Training

To train yourself, you will need to masturbate, my young padawan. Maturbate to the point where you are about to ejaculate, slow your strokes down and eventually stop just in the matter of time so that you do not bust your nut. Use your cock muscles to try to hold the sperm in. The first few times you try this, you may lose control and end up ejaculating anyway. This is fine, as long as you are trying to hold it in, you are developing the muscles you need to. Eventually you'll get better at it.

Repeat
Repeat these steps, masturbating and trying to control it. You can also practice while you are urinating. If you can stop yourself from urinating in the middle, you're almost where you need to be. If you perform these steps every day or so after about 2 weeks, you will come to a point where you will be able to stop yourself from ejaculating any time you want. The best part of this exercise is that the more you do it, the more powerful your orgasms will be. Unlimited cock power!

Wear Her Out
Perform this exercise until you feel confident enough to be able to have complete control of your ejaculation. Then during intercourse, when you feel you are about to ejaculate, you can stop your strokes, gain control of yourself, then start again. You'll be able to wear that bitch out! You will likely be able to keep it up better too because your confidence level will rise. Nothing feels better than getting stoned, drunk and being in control of yourself sexually.

Taken from some website, but I am too lazy to cite my sources.

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Hey, that advice sounds good and what you are referring to are KEGEL EXERCISES. Just thought I would point out that the penis doesn't have any muscles in it, and the muscles you are in fact working during the exercises you described are your pubococcygeal muscles. These basically surround the groin and anal region. thought i would clear that up....

I'm a guy, my average is 30 mins excluding foreplay. I'm shocked that that's a good time, because I'm a total quick-shot when I get off solo. But to be fair a lot of that is because of her: she bites the FUCK out of me and the pain takes my mind away from getting off.

Condoms also are a huge contributor to that: I can't feel as much so I can go a lot longer.

sorry anoyher guy here but for me it depends on how up for it the women are ruder the better:) :) :)

With a condom i last forever, but i hate condoms. Without maybe 30 minutes, although if i've been drink it can go up to 45 minutes. Not much more than that though, and i dont really want to be going for more than 45 mins... i'll get tried.

So I'm new to this board and thought I'd pop the cherry for this thread... excuse the really lousy pun.

My man believes in the quantity over quality... it's forty mintures standard when I'm really a twenty minutes girl... but if I take over we come to a happy compromise. I feel for stinkyattic... had a man once too who lasted hours with lots of variation, no hour-long, ceiling-staring, monotonous humping. I'm training... er... encouraging change in.... the current man though, and he's picking up real well, so I suppose there is hope that the forty long minutes will turn into an hour of bliss.

Welcome goats! Aww cute av.
It's the quality that counts... in sex as in all things!
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I should get my gf an account on here & let her tell you...;)


Maybe I'll do that. :D We actually had a conversation last night about starting a thread about multiple orgasms. I'm sure there's already one out there.



The Fog :rastasmoke:



P.S. Welcome Goats.

Nice Avatar TGF :D I recognize that one. LOL

My guy lasts about 40 minutes. We're recently condom free, so we're working our way up. Lots of variation, or play during intercourse. Hasn't been boring here in months :D

But I've had your two minute man. To make matters worse, his dick was so small I didn't feel a damn thing. Maybe he missed. But I know my two fingers felt a hell of a lot better than his dick.

He went out for a smoke, I stayed in bed for an orgasam.

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Originally Posted by Ibu Jari

He went out for a smoke, I stayed in bed for an orgasam.

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lol there's no letdown like finding out your man doesn't know how to make that worm wiggle!