First girl i ever had sex with was a silent type. The second girl I had sex with, a few months later (this is back when i was like 14), when i was nailing it, she was very vocal and I thought..."oh yeah right, why would you feel the need to be that loud." but i didn't say anything. Well 10+ partners later, the only silent girl i'd ever been with was my first....it wasn't like i was bad or anything, i thought i did pretty ok.