Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
spoiled brats, i DO hate... those kids who will make everyone's life living hell if they don't get their daily candy bar... or throw a temper-tantrum when they don't get to watch their cartooons all fucking day.... those kids, i can't stand... those kids need a heavy dose of reality and learn the world doesn't revolve around them... but no you can't blame the kids.. the kids only know what was taught to them, and it's almost exclusively the parents fault... these parents who can't/won't deal with the crying, and give their kids everything they want, just so they won't cry, those are who are to really blame.... i was one of those kids.. but only now that i'm older, do i realize the world doesn't work that way, and only now do i realize what a little spoiled ass fucking brat i really was.. kids will learn what you teach them, that's why you have to teach them early, that everything doesn't always go their way, and to live with it and move on... these parents who try so hard to be their kids best friend... maybe they just dont' realize what they're really doing to the kid...
my kid does things i just can't stand (can't describe it, it's something you'd just have to hear) but crying i can deal with... i mean you can scream/cry all you want... that doesn't mean you're going to get your way... that's what parents need to teach their kids early.. don't get me wrong, i'm not neglectful... but i'm not gonna say, let my son climb up on everything, or play with the shiney knives sitting on a table just because he wants to scream and cry when i won't let him... i'm just glad i came out the way i did... the way i was raised i coulda been one of those snobby-ass bitches that thinks they're all high and mighty and better then everyone else... if i grew up that way, i probably wouldn't have cared, but i grew up how i am, and i am THANKFUL i didn't grow up the other way.