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oh my god man this is perfect look here everything you just said right here to us spill that too a chick that you kind of know and that will get you laid for sure..i know i was a virgin until 16 and the girl i lost it to was "a virgin killer" which means she only fucked virgins cause she liked taking virginty from peeps.
I feel you, im in a dry spell now im going on 3 months now (not counting making out or anything). I'm 16 and although I don't seem like the kid, I am waiting for the right girl to lose my virginity to... man when I think about the opportunities I passed up :jointsmile:
I'd also like to add though.. that I have pretty much taken a break from trying to get girls.
Some advice? Honestly, from what I've seen girls are attracted to fucking badasses, so go kick someones ass and then take his girlfriend.
I see your Problem,,,Your anal,,,like me...Quote:
Originally Posted by Oneironaut
Christ I am not a fucking monkey. I'm not going to try to defeat the alpha male just to get a submissive female who's into "badasses". That is definitely not on my list of options here. I was raised to be a peace-loving hippie, and that's the way I'm gonna stay. Besides, I've never been in a real fight before, so I'd just get my ass kicked if I tried. Violence is not the solution. I'm looking for love, not hate.Quote:
Originally Posted by AlwaysBlazed
sorry to say, but he's right... sure women always talk about wanting that nice guy, that's so diffrent from every other 'one'.... but at the end of the night, they almost all end up the same place (atleast those women who have a man) which is a guy, not too much diffrent from 'every other guy' not telling you to go out and beat some guys ass and grab his woman and kiss her before she can speak or anything like that... maybe just stop being so timid? you know, too much of anything, is bad, including niceness....Quote:
Originally Posted by Oneironaut
wow man i know exatcly how u feel
sometimes you just wanna give up. but if you do that, your a pussy, and know one wants to be with a pussy
bro, as long as u keep ur head up and ur confidence high, ull find the right girl.
pointless sex is fun, but id rather have sex with somone who loves me like i would love them.
keep tokin man, ull find your girl sooner or later, plus your only 21, you got an assload of time ahead of you.
good luck
So have you tried dating web sites? Hell at this point it couldn't hurt. Never tried them myself. But I always hear about people meeting on the Internet.
Feel your pain. But relationships are too much bullshit for me.
I didn't loose mine until a few days before my 20th birthday and it was a one time deal. I regret it though. I've only had 2 partners in my lifetime and they were only one time things.
In my opinion...sex is overrated because we see it all in the media as the thing that we must do. I see differently. I have never dated myself and I am pushing 24. lol. But I look at how much commotion and bullshit happens from relationships. I've seen MANY people hurt and devastated over relationships. Everybody is different, but its something that I choose not to deal with. And I consider random sex with people to be immoral.
Honestly....weed, music, reading and meditation/communion with God give me the best peace. Not women.
Loving unconditionally implies no attachments whatsoever. It is a lot harder to love without conditions then to love with conditions/attachments.
I think he is totally correct.Quote:
Originally Posted by Great Spirit
I am going to elaborate on Birdgirls point of putting yourself in the path of intelligent women.
I think it would be worth it to try and get out more and socialize, doing something that interests you. Interested in or want to try pottery? Join a pottery club- guarenteed there will be women there, and since the people you would meet there have an interest in common with you, it should be that much easier to break the ice. Love reading? Join a bookclub. Love photography? Take a few photography classes. Get my drift? Do something you enjoy, and you will meet women who enjoy the same thing as you. I think that would give you a really good chance of meeting someone. Also, if you sign up for something with multiple sessions, you can slowly get to know a woman, or women, so that might be a little less stressful than walking up to a stranger in a bar and asking her out.
PS: I know that you're feeling really shitty about still being a virgin, but I have a few friends who are 20 and have still never been laid either. You aren't abnormal for not having sex yet. All those guys who nail girls just to nail them- they will probably end up quite skilled in bed, but terrible at relationships. You shouldn't look up to them at all, if you ever find yourself comparing yourself to them- just stop. Women aren't impressed by guys that are players, and knowing that you haven't slept with anyone may actually endear you to the next worthy girl you meet even more.