Girl help

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Originally Posted by WeedyBoyWonder

Just ask her if she wants to go out on a 'date'. That way, your not asking her to be your girlfriend, but its the first step. If she says yes, she likes you just as much as you like her. If she makes excuses you know your just very good mates.

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Just do this, seriously. That way you dont get rejected from asking her to be your girlfriend, and you get to know if she likes you to. If you do go on a date, tell her you really like her then.

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Originally Posted by FakeBoobsRule

2 years and nothing....you are stuck in the friend zone. Give her a kiss and see what happens but I think that it is too late.

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Y E S.

Reading this is honestly creeping me out. I was drowning in the deep end of the friend zone back in high school, with a girl that, from your description, is the EXACT same person.

She was afraid of losing what we had, and for that reason, nothing ever came of it. Luckily I didn't keep my hopes up, but still, if you don't take a shot, you'll never know. That girl is still a close friend of mine to this day, actually.

I think I mentioned something like "what are we?" to her one day, and that was enough for her to get what was going on.

Speaking from a person that was in your SAME shoes a few years ago, if you feel something, don't hold it back. Just be careful how you tell her, ya know? Don't spook her and don't act like you don't care about your friendship.

I missed my chance back in high school, lol, b/c my eyes apparently weren't open. But now they are open, and seeing this, it seems to me that she's waiting for you to make a move, one way or the other. So do just that. ~

Get off the bus at 5th street and wack it dude,,,guessing is about as good as thinking...

thanks guys, as of now im just waiting for the right moment when i have her alone...but i would like to add the fact that she calls me her boyfriend all the time, i dont kno wat that means exactly, is that a good sign or a friendzone type of thing?

Well, for starters, next time she throws out the "B" word, ask her what that's all about? I know I'd be a bit curious why she'd be calling me that.

And I know you think you're trying to wait for "the right time," but in all actuality, the "right time" is when you finally bring it up. Over-analyzing something like this sometimes causes you to continuously put "that" moment off, and before you know it, you blew your chance. Case in point: me, lol.

Just GO with it, don't think too much, and I'm sure she'll be yours. ~

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Originally Posted by Its a Plant

Just GO with it, don't think too much,

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do this always. :)

Good Luck!

im gunna force myself to do it by winter vacation (dec. 21st), i figure if i dont find the rite moment by then i can just tell her i really need 2 talk 2 her b4 we leave 4 vacation, then i can ask her out

whatever you do, dont ask her out over msn or the like. do it in person. good luck!

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Originally Posted by 420purpHAZE420

yea thats the part that confuses me bc i think that she does treat every1 that way if it was just me id know she for sure likes me, but its not. the thing is she definitely does it to me the most also, like were always together...a lot of times she asks me to eat lunch with her(just her) in school, which is kinda weird bc every1 usually just eats together. i think i mite just be scared to ask her out, but there is defintely a chance she will say no, idk, i guess im just being a pussy lol

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i believe so :) no but really if you are such close friends, her saying no shouldnt bring too much between you.