hurt about a boy

If you are intelligent maybe you should "like" sound like it???

you need a man not a boy.

Oh I wasn't a whore for him cause I want him,,,did he hear about any one night stands with someone else???

If he can't see you for the intelligent good looking woman you are, fuhgetaboutit. Keep his phone # in your cell if you still have it, who knows maybe he'll wake up and come calling. Otherwise, college is full of guys, just as insecure about finding a good woman, as women are about finding men.

And nobody says the guy of your dreams is at your college, dont feel like you gotta settle down early (christ i did and 7 years later im divorced). If you wanna chat sometime, pm me and we'll exchange IM's :)

Stop putting so much of your time and energy into guys. Have you considered dating girls?

your one fine piece of ass ,fuck that dude move on.I doubt that you would really have trouble finding a good guy to take his place.:pimp:

If that's an accurate picture of you, theres a 90% chance you have some sort of bad reputation that guys are avoiding...

Listen hon, between my last boyfriend and my current boyfriend I was basically exactly how you were. I've had a few guys to fool around with in between but basically all they told me when I asked them if they wanted to actually date was that I was more like a sister then a girlfriend. I know EXACTLY how you feel, but after almost 7 months of being single and just yanno, shopping around (LOL) I found the most amazing guy who loves me to death. It just takes time, you're still very young and you've got so many options around you! Open up your life to new experiences and maybe you'll meet new people who don't have that 'sister' view of you? I dunno, but good luck babe and really, one guy isn't worth much..especially if he doesn't seem to give a shit. (That girl's probably a dumbass too)

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Originally Posted by bentleygtgirl

so im 20 years old and i know im too old to cry about this, but there was this super intelligent, polite, kind cute guy i liked, and he started to like me back and we talked on the phone a lot, even when i went home for thanksgiving break. we made out twice but never had sex because i wanted him to be my boyfriend not just some other guy. but whatever, after break he never returned my calls or anything so i was like hm i guess he's over me, but i had that hope that maybe he was just busy or something. well i see him today and this girl comes out of her dorm and gives him a hug and i knew it was like a close hug and so i start to walk away (he was coming over cuz i was giving him some stuff back) and so then we sit and talk for awhile, then i see him tonight and im like what are u doin and hes like "talkin' to jessica (name changed)" and he said it all happy and i was lilke okay so then i was gonna sit by him cuz this girl was gone and then she came out of the door and sat by him and i just walked away.

so then i called him tonight and he said he had just got back from hanging out with her and i was like so are u guys just friends or goin out or what and he was like well not goin out but i dunno, i just have so much in common with her, more than any other girl i've ever met and she thinks deep like me and i was like well ill let you go write your paper now.

im so sad. this really sucks because i think im a smart female that is attractive but im always the friend or the girl they just fool around with or smoke with or the one they get homework help from and bitch about their girl problems and i never have a boyfriend. i always get passed over. im crying about this and i dont even know why. this girl is a super good girl that doesnt smoke or drink or anything. i hate it. im sad and i just wanted to vent. sorry.

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Don't worry about it. Pretty soon you'll have another boyfriend. Super good girls are boring. Men are stupid.