Upset:(

Yeah guys and girls of cannabis.com

I think I will have to accept 'a bitch is a bitch'. I really did like this girl but I guess Im going to have to let her slide. She always hangs out with 1 of my buddys and thats because he has a car and when shes not hanging with him, shes hanging with me or few other people. Now if I totally just say fuck this 'bitch' what do I do if she comes crawling back?? Im not sure what to make of this, this girls put me into so much shit its like a huge hurricane that I have to weather out.

There are so many females out there man, I bet you theres one that fits you perfectly. Find yourself a nice intelligent girl not some flake...


Just dont sweat this girl, learn from the experience and use it

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Originally Posted by WeedGremblin

There are so many females out there man, I bet you theres one that fits you perfectly. Find yourself a nice intelligent girl not some flake...


Just dont sweat this girl, learn from the experience and use it

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I wouldnt dought it, but what should I do if she came back and tried to get all over me, because I still do have feelings for her because Im sure you of all people know that feelings dont just come to an end when you want them too. Im only 16 years old, had =3 g/f but longest went for like 4 months ... This girl is down to earth but she went threw a pretty harsh 14-15 year old stage. She was into coke, hardcore ebaby, drinking everyday of the year and if she wasnt she was high on e. She stopped all of that and has been clean of addiction for a year now.

Weed Gremblin your much helpful, thank you. so what should I do?? I dont want to turn around and slap this girl in the face with my literacy.

Well if part of your feelings for this girl are towards wanting to help her then thats not healthy at all mate, those relationships go sour quick, and end ugly. I can understand you still have feelings for the girl but you really have to realistic about this kind of thing, logical.

Ok so lets say she comes back and gets on your nuts. Now is this situation going to make it harder for you when she crawls to someone else when shes bored with you or are you just going to enjoy it for moment and let it go when it ends. Be honest with yourself, if this girl is a flake then dont even bother man, waste of your emotion and energy/money/etc etc.

The whole drug addiction thing is a big turn off for me personally. I try to stay away at all costs from relationships with those types of girls.

You need a girl who can fill in your weak areas and make you a stronger better person. Someone who you can benefit from, and not have to worry about what she is doing behind your back. Key to any lasting relationship is trust, honesty, love and understanding.

I know your only 16 man but learn these things early and youll be better off for it. Relationships that go sour are no fun, just causes bullshit drama, which you dont need.

Its up to you mate, your only 16, your gonna make mistakes, blah blah blah. Its not about the mistakes you make its about how you learn from them.

Everyone always overlooks the nice shy girls that arent flaunting their shit and are down to earth. Some people will disagree but these are the types of girls to look for if you want a good healthy relationship. Not these fast ass drug using girls, they dont know what the hell they want. Im not saying to limit yourself to this type of girl, I think you should give em all a shot, but keep your eyes out for girls like those cause you can find a real gem in the lot of them.


Oh yreah i just noticed you said she is sober but split an Ebomb with another guy?

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Originally Posted by Jongbong

thats hot... ;) and if your about to commit suaside (which i think is hot;) ) fuck up those people that fucked you up before hand, cut their cats fucking head off and leave it in their door step and stuff the body in their mufflers so when the excellerate a body shoots out. and while your at it stabe some knifes into their doors with a note that says 'don't fuck with people' written in blood. thas wah me and my friend is gonna do soon :stoned: i'm not crazy, i was just raised wrong

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"That's Hot" ??? Who are you Paris Hilton?

And 1st try to learn how to spell suicide and accelerate and all those other "hard" words....

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Originally Posted by Jongbong

thats hot... ;) and if your about to commit suaside (which i think is hot;) ) fuck up those people that fucked you up before hand, cut their cats fucking head off and leave it in their door step and stuff the body in their mufflers so when the excellerate a body shoots out. and while your at it stabe some knifes into their doors with a note that says 'don't fuck with people' written in blood. thas wah me and my friend is gonna do soon :stoned: i'm not crazy, i was just raised wrong

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hahahahaha!

'pills wipes away tear'


pills.

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Originally Posted by WeedGremblin

Everyone always overlooks the nice shy girls that arent flaunting their shit and are down to earth. Some people will disagree but these are the types of girls to look for if you want a good healthy relationship. Not these fast ass drug using girls, they dont know what the hell they want. Im not saying to limit yourself to this type of girl, I think you should give em all a shot, but keep your eyes out for girls like those cause you can find a real gem in the lot of them.


Oh yreah i just noticed you said she is sober but split an Ebomb with another guy?

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Yeah, she has been sober of addiciton for a year. She hasnt had any huge binge's and the only time she does drugs is when its brought by someone else, she usually never goes out and buys coke or any of that shit for the past year, it all gets brought to her. Even then Ive seen her say no, she still does drugs just not 90% as much.

I dunno, I guess Im kind of jumping into the whole thing, Ive known this girl for a while and its a shame to let her go, but if thats what you are saying then thats what I must do. Life is alot longer then just a year, Im sure theres more then 1 out there that will put me in this condition.:(

Dude, you can still be friends with this chick, just don't do it with your heart on your shoulder. There's no need to cut off ties with her, especially if you two have been friends a while.

I've had plenty of girls that are good friends slip away over the years for various reasons, and it's something I kind of regret doing now that I look back at it. Don't do things the same way I have. Live how you want, and with no regrets.

Best of luck, hombre ~

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Originally Posted by Its a Plant

Dude, you can still be friends with this chick, just don't do it with your heart on your shoulder. There's no need to cut off ties with her, especially if you two have been friends a while.

I've had plenty of girls that are good friends slip away over the years for various reasons, and it's something I kind of regret doing now that I look back at it. Don't do things the same way I have. Live how you want, and with no regrets.

Best of luck, hombre ~

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I would not cut her off, its just hard to stop feelings in a snap. I think shes kind of on the line between us being friends or whatnot, she text me that night saying that she was home and not with that guy but I dont think she really was. If I got drunk with her and she got all up on me and shit I dont think I would just get up and say hey no ... You have to remember I have lingering feelings and if Im drunk they're probaby not going to work in my favour.