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I think it's wrong... but not morally repugnant either.
Happens all the time, and if you both are that young to where you're going off to college, then she might as well get used to the idea that guys will use her for sex if she lets them...
It's a hard lesson, but someone's gotta teach her.
I honestly think u should consider her feeling and not only think about urself. Sure being single to go to colleage has its benifits but as one guy above said if she pleases u and ur happy with her stay with her, Honestly if u wanna be single going to colleage do u really think this other girl will even look at u when she arrives at colleage. Theres probally plenty more guys there that are better lookin or applealing to her eyes and she might end up dumping u or using you. Who even says she likes u. Like for me if my bf was going to dump me i would want to know not wait until the last min. Think about it this way if u were a girl and ur bf had sex with u still then all a sudden he says i don't want to be with u. U'd be like wth why not we "made" love or in ur terms sex. U'd be crushed...Unless ur a heartless bastard and don't give a shit about others feelings. In conlusion do what u think is right, What ur heart tells u to do or what u feel is the best thing for u. Just don't fuck with her feelings.
I have an update for anybody that cares.
I haven't broken up with her yet . . . but I haven't spoken to her in four days.
I did have sex with her once more, after she came back from California. i didn't have the heart to break up after she came back from vacation.
shes not even going to know that he planned to break up with her. so how is she going to think that she was used?
Touche 187!
You win a cookie
Even if she not going to know your going to brake up with her. Yes it is still fucked up by all means. If you honestly love her you would still want to be with her and not thinking of brakeing up with her for some other girl. What if things dont work out in the end. Always rember what you lost. Some one that will be there for you. You will regret it. Not everyone is going to wait on you. If you move on so will she. So just ask your self this. "When I get to college. What if things don't work out"
i think that if you oviousley dont take your relationship seriousley with her, just end it now. dont go using her to have sex
I agree, just because she won't know that your planning on breaking up with her doesn't change the fact that you would be using her.Quote:
Originally Posted by NightProwler
same as last two